Guys someone important to the friend of my brother asked him for advice. And since he couldn't get anything out of his box he decided to asked my brother what he thinks. My brother have something upstairs to say but couldn't be certain of his opinion on the matter.

Years ago they met and there seems to be a bright future ahead.They started as friend then but things changed and they fell in love with eachother. That was when they were in 200l.

On the long run the Lady won a scholarship to study Business Administration in a prestigious university abroad(name withheld for safety purpose). As a result they lost touch with each other and the guy moved on believing she has moved on too.

Fastforwarded to the present, the guy went for a job interview in a big company.And to his own consternation the Directing Manager of the company happens to be her Ex who left for abroad. When the Lady saw the list of the applicants and their profile she personally told the interviewer not to interview the guy that she will see to it herself.

Now the condition is "If he wants the job they must continue their affairs ".Now the guy has issues with her current girlfriend and her ex(as he would refers to her) is still single. She told her since they parted she is unable to love any man again.

Nairalanders please your advice is needed on what he should do.Please have in mind he has been job hunting for 3yrs

cc lalasticlala

funny, d guy no need work

I swear!!!! D guy no need work true true...

Mk him wait Mk I go ask Amadioha 4 advise..

Young03:
funny, d guy no need work

Guy what about his reputation?

Gv me the girl nober u kn

ABEG I WON KNOW THE NAME OF THE FIRM MAKE I DOWNLOAD AM,

I DEY HEAR SAY NA ONE CHINESE FIRM BE THAT, AND THE PERSON WERE ACT AS THE MAN NA JIM DONG.

ABEG WHO KNOW THE NAME?

someone is saying ;;what about the man's reputation,, reputation on what,thas my question,what have I done with my own reputation,and what benefits has my reputation giving to me?? just saying

achinaboy:
someone is saying ;;what about the man's reputation,, reputation on what,thas my question,what have I done with my own reputation,and what benefits has my reputation giving to me?? just saying

You know people may be saying he marry her for job

Am not sure he needs advice

name of the university withheld for safety purposes? from there Una suppose know say Na super story

Melahou:
Am not sure he needs advice

Why

yungEX:
name of the university withheld for safety purposes? from there Una suppose know say Na super story

People of high class visits nairaland as guest.And our intelligence varies... mentioning the name of the uni is enough to make her speculate.

Dis ur English dey confuse me

starlingslimnet:
You know people may be saying he marry her for job

am almost 40,,i lived half of my life in Afrika,and half in Europe,married with kids,am a biz man,i think am doing well,my friend,,take this little advice from me, from today,,fuuuk people's opinion,it will take u no where,it will destroy ur future,and then those people u valued their opinion,will go back a do that which u thought the had a positive argument about

achinaboy:

am almost 40,,i lived half of my life in Afrika,and half in Europe,married with kids,am a biz man,i think am doing well,my friend,,take this little advice from me, from today,,fuuuk people's opinion,it will take u no where,it will destroy ur future,and then those people u valued their opinion,will go back a do that which u thought the had a positive argument about

hmm

sagr:
Dis ur English dey confuse me

How abeg ?

Pray

I had a hard time understanding What Op wrote up there.

You shouldn't Marry the Ex just because of a Job.....she might loose interest in the Marriage and Still Fire you from your Job

Just keep Searching

That ex is so mean, how could she give such conditions?
She should have tried 1st to win the guys heart back and not mortgaging her love life with the job offer.

What if the guy accepts to marry her simply because he needs the job?

Does she think her marriage will be as rossy as she has tot?

The guy would have married her if he truly love her, but giving him conditions on his personal life, that's so unfair,


It makes the guy feel like he has no control over his life(job and family anymore).

The lady is just being selfish.


As for me? I will decline the job, it might be stup!d of me to do that, but I will.

And if she truly loved me,she would have given me the job without conditions.


On the long run, u will find out that its not worth it.


My opinion though.

starlingslimnet:
Why

What he needs to do its right before his very eyes...

starlingslimnet:
Guys someone important to the friend of my brother asked him for advice. And since he couldn't get anything out of his box he decided to asked my brother what he thinks. My brother have something upstairs to say but couldn't be certain of his opinion on the matter.

Years ago they met and there seems to be a bright future ahead.They started as friend then but things changed and they fell in love with eachother. That was when they were in 200l.

On the long run the Lady won a scholarship to study Business Administration in a prestigious university abroad(name withheld for safety purpose). As a result they lost touch with each other and the guy moved on believing she has moved on too.

Fastforwarded to the present, the guy went for a job interview in a big company.And to his own consternation the Directing Manager of the company happens to be her Ex who left for abroad. When the Lady saw the list of the applicants and their profile she personally told the interviewer not to interview the guy that she will see to it herself.

Now the condition is "If he wants the job they must continue their affairs ".Now the guy has issues with her current girlfriend and her ex(as he would refers to her) is still single. She told her since they parted she is unable to love any man again.

Nairalanders please your advice is needed on what he should do.Please have in mind he has been job hunting for 3yrs

cc lalasticlala

What's the situation of his current relationship? Does he trust/Love her where does he stand in her heart? Why I asked is because he could choose to stay with his current girl and end up regretting it for the rest of his life. He could also leave her behind and it will be the best decision he's ever made. Some people are worth all the trouble and some aren't.