whizqueen:
Is anything wrong with making a decision to abstain from sex till marriage?

PreciousBro:
Its her choice to abstain from s3x till marriage, there's actually nothing wrong in doing so.

There's nothing wrong in being a non-virgin and still abstaining too.

But ladies shouldn't attach undue power to s3x as though is a determinant for marriage. Guys marry you for the good that you are not abstaining or being a s3x maniac, in your case@ Op, she has lost every right to dignity in innocence(not being a virgin/purity) but doesn't mean she doesn't owe it to her self to abstain but you should leave such ladies alone who attach condition,saying she doesn't want it on grounds that "you'd run away" if after, to me,its a clear indication that she only has her body(which isn't pure anyway) to offer and as the tool to procuring something as blissful as marriage.

Such girls will rarely stay loyal to you, because of course s3x is what it is, she obviously has the urge like you too,easing her self out, just not with you in order to appear as the holy mary before you.

I always pity such men that agree on preconditioned situation!

kalufelix:
those ladies are certainly not for me...

netizenbuzz:


Now you equate dignity to virginity? Nairalanders won't give me brain damage with their level of stupidity.

Superman11:

are you getting married anytime soon??

MzzTega:

The cake. Actually, i hate icing.

kalufelix:
soonest..

manchester1:

if d guy is spending moni on her b4 marriage. y sud he now wait after marriage for sex

dinachi:
No more expenses on her till marriage. You are also saving your money for the wife!

Juxtified:
Just a sentence, but the funniest of them all.
Why fast only to be offered stale food?

Juxtified:

Why fast only to be offered stale food?

laurenjones:
pls dump her in the nearest dust bin. no time for nonsense tis yr

axiliborha:
what if I don't want to have sex nko?

axiliborha:
What's wrong with no sex until marriage?

MsBliss:
Whatever excuse she gave to you for not wanting to have sex again until her wedding ,is her choice ,her decision and you should respect that .

[s] There's never a good reason to commit fornication and no matter how we all try to paint it,fornication remains a sin and sex shouldn't be indulged in until marriage.

She learnt from her mistake and is willing to make amends. You shouldn't force ,blackmail or coarse her into doing what she don't want to do. [/s]


The most annoying thing is that when these same type of guys want to get married , they start searching everywhere for virgins. The untouched ones after succeeding in ruining the lives of other ladies .

Jennifer89:
Op haven't you heard of secondary virgin?

zaragal:


Tell dat to the breeze...u ren't talking to me...okkk?? , my boyfriend no dey see my pants and he spend...

MsBliss:
Whatever excuse she gave to you for not wanting to have sex again until her wedding ,is her choice ,her decision and you should respect that .

There's never a good reason to commit fornication and no matter how we all try to paint it,fornication remains a sin and sex shouldn't be indulged in until marriage.

She learnt from her mistake and is willing to make amends. You shouldn't force ,blackmail or coarse her into doing what she don't want to do.


The most annoying thing is that when these same type of guys want to get married , they start searching everywhere for virgins. The untouched ones after succeeding in ruining the lives of other ladies .

zaragal:


Believe it or not....its all abt understanding, respect and LOVE if u love a gal truly, u ll respect her decisions most esp wen dat decision means a lot to her, d way we over hype sex dis days is alarming.....forget it! U cn only hav sex for @ most 15mins, even dat 15mins sef ehn.....and u cn go like 4 rounds and dat 4 rounds d guy ehn....so wat's the point??....y ll u rather destroy a long love affection for a 15mins controllable pleasure....its not worth it dude....waiting is worth the time brother...believe me...waiting is worth it , @ least if not for anything bt for our religious faith either Muslim/christian

andromida:
It's her body she calls the shots.

sandrannna:
Why are guys crazy about sex?

Teespice:
then respect the fact that she has decided to be celibate till marriage.

jeeez

LaDivva:
If you can't stand the heat,,,,, get out of the kitchen...

bulldoza:
and you're not a Virgin? Your bf must be a first class fóol.

bulldoza:

Because that's the only thing most of you can offer in a relationship. Very Useless set of people

Teespice:
then respect the fact that she has decided to be celibate till marriage.

jeeez