Gudevenin y'al. Am rili woried. Am in my cousin sister's place for holiday,since my school holiday is 2months I decided to stay in her place. She's married. Trouble startd today wen she told me me nd her husband wil b following her to a wedding in town..I told her am nt going because am an indoor person. She said I must go nd dt I can't disrespect her in her aous..she came to my room lyk 2 more times to tel me to get dressed inwhich I stil refused, d 3rd time she was fussing saying she wil foreva hate me if I dont follow her,I saw d seriousness in ha face so I quickly went to bathe. I culd hear her nd her husband shoutin @eachoda. She said he shuld let's go dat am nt follown dem again,bt her husband was lyk dey shuld calm down and wait fr me.hence the fight. They quarrelled ooooo infact d husband almost beat her up,I was so scared.she banged in2 my room gav me money for transport and orderd me out of her aous..accordin to her I was causin fight btwin her and her husband,she was angry because her huby supported me.she was talkin asif d man nd I are datin. We latr went for d program because her huby colctd d tp frm me. She and her huby is stil quarelin even til dis evenin nd she has stopd talkin 2me. I dunno if I shuld jxt pack my stuffs nd leave 2moro or stay maybe tins wil later get settled. am confused I dnt want to b lyk a home breaker

I think you should pack and leave.

My dear jejely Pack and Leave but before then try and sort things out with your sis. . . make sure u guys are in good terms before u leave.


Cheers!

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But what is ur reason for not Going? Just tell her u are sorry and know what she will tell u. Be in good terms with her before you leave

andromida:
I think you should pack and leave.

jxt got there lastwk..if I go bck home so early aw hav 2xplain to my mum wat hapnd cos she wil b suspicious. Wunt it cause anoda family kush kush nd den it wil go on nd on nd on

u caused every tin


go wedding u no want go

fight don start u con dey ask for advice

Nwocha12:
But what is ur reason for not Going? Just tell her u are sorry and know what she will tell u. Be in good terms with her before you leave

she's nt even ready to listen..she has bn lukin at me wit sme bad eye nd because of dt her huby has bn extra caring to me. Am confused

tinybody:
jxt got there lastwk..if I go bck home so early aw hav 2xplain to my mum wat hapnd cos she wil b suspicious. Wunt it cause anoda family kush kush nd den it wil go on nd on nd on

Take your phone to a phone repairer please. Your keypad has arthritis.

tinybody:
jxt got there lastwk..if I go bck home so early aw hav 2xplain to my mum wat hapnd cos she wil b suspicious. Wunt it cause anoda family kush kush nd den it wil go on nd on nd on

Well it is her house and she does not want you there luckily you have a home to go to so yeah tell your mom what happened I am sure she will handle it properly. I don't see how it will cause another family kush kush. But if you must stay then apologize to her profusely explain you didn't mean to cause any problem you just didn't feel like going for the wedding.

my sister haha! Can't you read between the lines.
She's immature/insecure in are marriage and you pose a threat to her in that house.

The man is having issue with the wife because of you and suddenly his extra caring for you
You are now confuse because you are enjoying the extra care

It is 2 ways either ;
she will soon accuse you that you want to seduce her husband
OR
you and husband will soon have something going

Ii find it strange why you can't just apologise to your cousin and then go back home since you have over stayed your welcome

mrsmith11:
The man is having issue with the wife because of you and suddenly his extra caring for you
You are now confuse because you are enjoying the extra care

It is 2 ways either ;
she will soon accuse you that you want to seduce her husband
OR
you and husband will soon have something going

Ii find it strange why you can't just apologise to your cousin and then go back home since you have over stayed your welcome

tnx dear. Bt those 2ways wunt hapn IJn

Just leave,and then call her to apologise. She will feel bad after.

Ladies talk!
Ladies with dis their attitude sha,makin simple tin complex.
U got to understand her nd get to know when u can talk with her to settle tinz up!Going for d wedding wud av solved all dis in d first place or maybe ur tone while refusin wasn't gud enough.Watch it sha nd be ready to leave.

tinybody:
tnx dear. Bt those 2ways wunt hapn IJn

Don't say it will not happen , rather your sister is suspicious of you and it will be better to get out of the house as you have your life to live.
She is married today and by tomorrow, you will be married too. The man's kindness on your person would be a very big mistake at last because that will even destroy your sister's home.

Better find your way. Your sister is the envious type and can even poison you at this point if care is not taken.

Why must she force you to go out for a wedding with her when she knows that you are an introvert and love staying home or alone. Unless she is suspecting you of theft because I wouldn't know her reasons for not wanting you alone at home.

When you get home, explain to your mother.

Leave d house, u make her feel insure in her house. She is suspectg u nd her husband. Though she seems too jealous nd immature. Jst go home find story to tell ur mum.

You sef what's the big deal in attending wedding that u had to drag ur feet till ur reluctance caused an uproar between ur cuz and her hubby.. mend fences with her den leave.. when you get hone still call and apologise..

Ok??

You children of nowadays will have done the damage before running to an elder for advice (in OBJ's voice )

o.p, pls leave tomorrow. Its for the best. She will call u to apologize when things get better in the marriage.

tinybody:
Gudevenin y'al. Am rili woried. Am in my cousin sister's place for holiday,since my school holiday is 2months I decided to stay in her place. She's married. Trouble startd today wen she told me me nd her husband wil b following her to a wedding in town..I told her am nt going because am an indoor person. She said I must go nd dt I can't disrespect her in her aous..she came to my room lyk 2 more times to tel me to get dressed inwhich I stil refused, d 3rd time she was fussing saying she wil foreva hate me if I dont follow her,I saw d seriousness in ha face so I quickly went to bathe. I culd hear her nd her husband shoutin @eachoda. She said he shuld let's go dat am nt follown dem again,bt her husband was lyk dey shuld calm down and wait fr me.hence the fight. They quarrelled ooooo infact d husband almost beat her up,I was so scared.she banged in2 my room gav me money for transport and orderd me out of her aous..accordin to her I was causin fight btwin her and her husband,she was angry because her huby supported me.she was talkin asif d man nd I are datin. We latr went for d program because her huby colctd d tp frm me. She and her huby is stil quarelin even til dis evenin nd she has stopd talkin 2me. I dunno if I shuld jxt pack my stuffs nd leave 2moro or stay maybe tins wil later get settled. am confused I dnt want to b lyk a home breaker

My 2cents: Just leave the house, now dt u stil have d chance and things aren't chronic yet, I dnt want to wake up tomorrow mornin and see a pic of u wit d headline "aunty poisons niece cos of husband palava"

tinybody:
Gudevenin y'al. Am rili woried. Am in my cousin sister's place for holiday,since my school holiday is 2months I decided to stay in her place. She's married. Trouble startd today wen she told me me nd her husband wil b following her to a wedding in town..I told her am nt going because am an indoor person. She said I must go nd dt I can't disrespect her in her aous..she came to my room lyk 2 more times to tel me to get dressed inwhich I stil refused, d 3rd time she was fussing saying she wil foreva hate me if I dont follow her,I saw d seriousness in ha face so I quickly went to bathe. I culd hear her nd her husband shoutin @eachoda. She said he shuld let's go dat am nt follown dem again,bt her husband was lyk dey shuld calm down and wait fr me.hence the fight. They quarrelled ooooo infact d husband almost beat her up,I was so scared.she banged in2 my room gav me money for transport and orderd me out of her aous..accordin to her I was causin fight btwin her and her husband,she was angry because her huby supported me.she was talkin asif d man nd I are datin. We latr went for d program because her huby colctd d tp frm me. She and her huby is stil quarelin even til dis evenin nd she has stopd talkin 2me. I dunno if I shuld jxt pack my stuffs nd leave 2moro or stay maybe tins wil later get settled. am confused I dnt want to b lyk a home breaker

Pack ur tins and go, she will surely regret her actions.

olalat:
Leave d house, u make her feel insure in her house. She is suspectg u nd her husband. Though she seems too jealous nd immature. Jst go home find story to tell ur mum.

y wil she suspct us? Dts nt fair, I tink she's hot tempered.

Leave her house or u cause wahala btw husband nd wife.

tinybody:
y wil she suspct us? Dts nt fair, I tink she's hot tempered.

tinybody:
Gudevenin y'al. Am rili woried. Am in my cousin sister's place for holiday,since my school holiday is 2months I decided to stay in her place. She's married. Trouble startd today wen she told me me nd her husband wil b following her to a wedding in town..I told her am nt going because am an indoor person. She said I must go nd dt I can't disrespect her in her aous..she came to my room lyk 2 more times to tel me to get dressed inwhich I stil refused, d 3rd time she was fussing saying she wil foreva hate me if I dont follow her,I saw d seriousness in ha face so I quickly went to bathe. I culd hear her nd her husband shoutin @eachoda. She said he shuld let's go dat am nt follown dem again,bt her husband was lyk dey shuld calm down and wait fr me.hence the fight. They quarrelled ooooo infact d husband almost beat her up,I was so scared.she banged in2 my room gav me money for transport and orderd me out of her aous..accordin to her I was causin fight btwin her and her husband,she was angry because her huby supported me.she was talkin asif d man nd I are datin. We latr went for d program because her huby colctd d tp frm me. She and her huby is stil quarelin even til dis evenin nd she has stopd talkin 2me. I dunno if I shuld jxt pack my stuffs nd leave 2moro or stay maybe tins wil later get settled. am confused I dnt want to b lyk a home breaker

Something is wrong with you!
What is the big deal going for a wedding?

The house is their own, if she says you must come, why not follow her?
Must you wait till there is trouble before you go?

My friend leave her house if you won't obey her!

Your sister is insecure.

Best you leave since she gave you money for your transport back home and her hubby took it from you that alone can make her think your have something with her husband that's why he doesn't want you to leave and that can make her hate you for life.

Just leave the house i bet you will do the same if you were in her shoes.

peedeeasobie:





Something is wrong with you!
What is the big deal going for a wedding?

The house is their own, if she says you must come, why not follow her?
Must you wait till there is trouble before you go?

My friend leave her house if you won't obey her!

pls calm down. 1.she knws am an indoor grl nd don't lyk all those outing,y d over reaction? 2.she's my sis, didn't knw she wuld tke it dat far. I hav my own li2 ryt too even tho am stayin in ha place. Nd yes am leaving 2day. She had 2cal one of our family membr over lastnyt...as late as 9pm 2come talk 2me. I mean she's takin it too far and am soo diapointd.

You should be on your way as you are typing this.
But you need to let both of them know your reasons for deciding nt to go with them first. Talk it over with them after dinner

tinybody:
Gudevenin y'al. Am rili woried. Am in my cousin sister's place for holiday,since my school holiday is 2months I decided to stay in her place. She's married. Trouble startd today wen she told me me nd her husband wil b following her to a wedding in town..I told her am nt going because am an indoor person. She said I must go nd dt I can't disrespect her in her aous..she came to my room lyk 2 more times to tel me to get dressed inwhich I stil refused, d 3rd time she was fussing saying she wil foreva hate me if I dont follow her,I saw d seriousness in ha face so I quickly went to bathe. I culd hear her nd her husband shoutin @eachoda. She said he shuld let's go dat am nt follown dem again,bt her husband was lyk dey shuld calm down and wait fr me.hence the fight. They quarrelled ooooo infact d husband almost beat her up,I was so scared.she banged in2 my room gav me money for transport and orderd me out of her aous..accordin to her I was causin fight btwin her and her husband,she was angry because her huby supported me.she was talkin asif d man nd I are datin. We latr went for d program because her huby colctd d tp frm me. She and her huby is stil quarelin even til dis evenin nd she has stopd talkin 2me. I dunno if I shuld jxt pack my stuffs nd leave 2moro or stay maybe tins wil later get settled. am confused I dnt want to b lyk a home breaker

You are not a home breaker, I am an indoor person just like you so I understand ur initial decline... Going out is like standing on a platform in the middle of the market with everyone looking at you... I understand.

You haven't done anything wrong,ur sister is just being a tyrant...

But don't leave the house now. Make sure this issue is resolved before you leave, go to ur sister's husband and beg him to apologise to ur sister and he should try his best to make things come back to normal and if that's done, spend some more weeks with them(keeping a very low profile) and then leave and never come back to spend such a long time with them...

But whenever ur in someone's house you have to live by their rules..even if they say " feel at home", trust me they don't mean it. It sucks and that's why I don't visit people and when I do they often complain about me cos I act like a fool,doing whatever they say... And don't sit or stand until am told.

I know she is ur sister and u felt so much at home,but trust me its not ur home.

Goodluck.

publicenemy:


You are not a home breaker, I am an indoor person just like you so I understand ur initial decline... Going out is like standing on a platform in the middle of the market with everyone looking at you... I understand.

You haven't done anything wrong,ur sister is just being a tyrant...

But don't leave the house now. Make sure this issue is resolved before you leave, go to ur sister's husband and beg him to apologise to ur sister and he should try his best to make things come back to normal and if that's done, spend some more weeks with them and then leave and never come back to spe(keep a very low profile)nd such a long time with them...

But whenever ur in someone's house you have to live by their rules..even if they say " feel at home", trust me they don't mean it. It sucks and that's why I don't visit people and when I do they often complain about me cos I act like a fool,doing whatever they say... And don't sit or stand until am told.

I know she is ur sister and u felt so much at home,but trust me its not ur home.

Goodluck.

Tnx so much..tnx dear

@tinybody Have u left? Lemme know I don't want my advice wasted