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(Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by john6006: 11:42am On Jun 28, 2015 |
NIGERIAN MEN IN USA, KILLING THEIR IMPORTED WIVES FROM NIGERIA. Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola , in Hennepin, Minnesota. The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.” The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl. In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children. Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement. The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores. He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight. Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace. Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education. Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head. Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious. Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife. Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed. If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them. Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her. He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.” Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother. Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever. Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money. Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked. Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day. Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened here in Los Angeles, California. Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him. Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces. What should we add again, Life..... Hope For Nigeria. 1 Like
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Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by odinese(m): 11:48am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Hmmmm see breast! 2 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by DickDastardly(m): 11:48am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Alright. Ladies berra look before leaping. So many lunatics on the loose 2 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 11:55am On Jun 28, 2015 |
eyaaaaa I feel for these men, what their wives have turned them into (beasts) and yet they wonder why many bachelors are not yet married |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by nerodenero: 12:16pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
There's is no excuse for crime as they should face the full wrath of the law but women . He was good enough as your husband while you were in Nigeria and in Nursing School but not good enough when $ started coming in. Anyway, it's a food for thought for everyone. |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by oniru4real: 12:38pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Dis RN tin self . D woman make like 2.5m per month.d money drive them crazy |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
nerodenero:bro most of them had it to the point that they don't give a fuk about their own lives once they accomplished the mission of killing their wives. . who kills his wife knowing his going to get caught or call the police on himself? I PRAY THAT NO ONE I KNOW WILL COME ACROSS SUCH WOMEN. bigfrancis21 ( m ), lezz( m ), lolaredvelvet( f), TheSonOfMark ( m), Shymm3x , khia ( f), imperiouxx , Walspring, MissTechy ( f), Juvante ( m ), TV01 ( m), sweetcocoa ( f), pickabeau1 , VisaOfficer , manny4life ( m), 25omega ( m), samisparkle24 2 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Physika(f): 12:51pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Hhhmmm.. Welcome to 21st century where all indecency have a decent name.. R.i.p to the dead. |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:56pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
odinese: Pervert! 1 Like |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:59pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
icedbeatz: He who CONSCIOUSLY COMMITS MURDER must be CONSCIOUSLY ELIMINATED. 1 Like |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by TheSonOfMark(m): 1:21pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Women, by default, are selfish oppurtunistic beings. A woman seeks to manipulate others even by emotional and financial blackmail. WHYELSE DO YOU THINK MOTHERS/SISTERS TRY TO "PROTECT" THEIR SONS/BROTHERS FROM THEIR GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES? It's because women know how foxy/cunny they can be. Noticed one highlighted similarity in each case? The deceased women manipulated the justice system to cheat their men. Why should I have to share half MY wealth in an alimony? Even when the woman has been proven to be the erring half in the eventual split the man still gets the short end of the stick? So much for women being the oppressed. Possibly one or two them were part of the delusional Nairalanders who keep regurgitating the stale, cliched diatribes of FEMINISM when it, at the very core, is a movement of uncouth and uncultured ultra seeking to instal the subservience of the male gender in their twisted 'FEMI-TOPIA'. The heavens forbid that this son of Mark willfully becomes a signatory to a partnership that would make me servile. I'd rather settle for co-habitation or church and/or traditional nuptials at the very most. [/b] 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Lucasbalo(m): 9:20pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
oniru4real:It's not the RN that is the problem, its the man that do not understand American way of life. There is something called DIVORCE. My significant other is a RN with a B.SC from a reputable Catholic college and so are many nigerian women and we don't have that problem. A man must come to the table well equipped too. You dont expect your wife to dominate you financially in US even though you brought her here. Killing is never justify unless you are defending yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by JcDm: 10:24pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
speechless |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by bigfrancis21: 11:37pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
icedbeatz: The truth is when certain women find themselves in power, they often find it difficult to handle this new-found power given to them or a position of trust effectively. They often tend to abuse that power or see it as an opportunity to boss men around (as if doing a revenge back on men for all those years they were 'made' to be submissive) while at the same time suppressing their fellow women from rising to a position of power like theirs. I have seen families where circumstances change and the mothers start earning more than the fathers and the mothers cannot handle this new-found position of power that they abuse this position a lot, lose respect for the fathers, boss him around like he is a child etc. Some men would not have an issue with this, especially those who are willing to lay down their masculinity and be the puppet in the house but for men who know their worth, it is often difficult for them. In fact, many people would prefer a male boss to a female boss because of the very fact that many women abuse their position of power when given to them. For the women, they feel that their very feminine nature would mean men undermining them or not taking orders from them, thus they have to be aggressive, domineering and 'masculine' to get things done. It often takes a great female to be in a position of power and handle it effectively and at the same time not lose the very essence of her feminity. 3 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by architez: 3:37am On Jun 29, 2015 |
You really can't blame the women. Neither can u blame the men. Blame the situation. How can u expose her to American system and still expect her to act like someone in Naija. The man on the hand rightly expects that they should maintain their traditional Nigerian family ways. 1 Like |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Markieee(m): 9:55am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Hmmmm. Lots of stories,, I get an RN aunt o, in that same USA, and issues have been going on for a while now, make them no go kill am for me o.. I dey get tips from her ooo... Aunt I cover you with the blood of Bro J Amen 2 Likes |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by zeezahbee(f): 4:55pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
oniru4real:They actually don't earn up to that. It's around 1million a month if they work 40hrs /wk and they earn 28-40 dollars depends on the experience and hospital. After tax, they earn from 800k-1million naira. That's a lot 1 Like |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by john6006: 9:30pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Food for thought..... |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Creamish(f): 4:59pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
Killing in any of these cases, is unjustified. Divorce is a better option.. U dint give her life..so u have no right taking it. Women tho..we need to apply caution at all times. Doz are some sad cases. I hope others know about it and find a way to adjust for the sake of peace...waaayy too many "similar solution-to-submission-problems" to ignore..all RNs.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by john6006: 9:37am On Jul 02, 2015 |
Killing is not justification......... |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Mapletraks: 7:05am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Markieee: ^^^^^^^^ ...You got me laughing there! You like money... eh! Most Nigerian women in the U.S. are RNs. Some men who read microbiology or biochemistry in Nigeria are also RNs in the U.S. and they are well-paid! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: (Photo):Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Mapletraks: 7:18am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Lucasbalo: ^^^^^^^^^ @lucasbalo, Well said! Low self-esteem is at the epicenter of these vicious attacks by these men on their RN spouses in the U.S., and the subconscious fear of losing them to other "better motivated" imaginary male lovers. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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