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She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
My people, i had an experience today i felt like sharing especially to our ladies in the house. Its a piece of advice!!! There is this lady who works with Fidelity Bank as a marketer though, when my office made me have dealings with fidelity bank, i got to meet her and we became close. Finally we had a date today. Though am in a relationship, didn't see anything harmful in hanging out and had no motives,twas only for fun. We got talking, and she said she would like to come see me in my apartment which i obliged. she then said she knows I'll be staying in a tushed up apartment and be all by myself if i wasn't lonely... then i told her i was in my parents house and that i still stay with them for the time been. Immediately i said that, her countenance changed, she summarized the date, and left claiming she cant even talk to a guy still with his parents nor have anything to do with him not to even reason a relationship.... I was shocked to my marrows... Mind You... Reasons i still stay with my parent's is cos am currently constructing my own two 4bedroom flat apartment and also the fair from my dads house to my office is like #50 so i felt instead of getting an apartment that would tk nothing less than 200k frm me, i rather put the cash into my site and finish it up while going from my family house for the time being. Thank God we making lots of progress and Dad understands and even encouraged that i stay there, though didn't tell this girl in question. This was my experience today and it baffled me Guys what do you think Ladies how market 4 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Awww sori.... Its assumed guys unda parents are broke... But its totally wrong to tink dat way |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by zoeee(f): 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Ehya.. |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by kilokeys(m): 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Daddy's boy.. Shebi its ur dad that calls ur gf everyday.. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by legallyblonde(f): 11:34pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
why won't she leave?! why won't she leave?! 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 11:34pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Freest: Well I think it's good you didn't tell her the real reason why you are staying in your parents' house; at least you can see how she reacted when she thought you had nothing. Although I am trying to change my attitude on such matters I would probably do the same thing... I wouldn't just get up and leave like she did but I would think the guy is not serious Its hard to see the potential in a guy rather than what he already has, or in anybody for that matter In future don't tell anybody what plans you have just lay out the present situation and see if the person still wants to associate with you for who you are. That's what I do 7 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
zoeee: Zoe |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:36pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Luedave:Its funny mhen!!! and its actually a very wrong way to judge people... I feel sometimes its ideal we first remove our hrt from what we wanna get... relationship isn't business!!! so you shouldn't start a date already sizing a man's pocket and assessing his wealth!!! that's fucking not fair!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Freest:i wish d ladies cud read dis |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by 2dice(m): 11:40pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
If u had subscribe some lies to her ... Am sure she would have falling for de n!gga ... B!tches everywhere 2 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by mizznutrition(f): 11:42pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
na wa o.. |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:43pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Gurgle:Yeah... Thanks God you having a paradigm shift... cos its really not fair.... that's why we have alot of messed up relationships lately because of misplaced priorities... my current fiancée met me in my family house, and though she's from a very wealthy background accepted me in there without knowing yet that i was constructing two flats in different places... she was surprised and even angry why i didn't tell her initially. The fact is that not everything is as they seem!!! people will always miss their reward in life because they looking at the now!!! you need to see the was this babe left me all by myself with the drinks already paid for and people staring!!! hmmmmmmm 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by zoeee(f): 11:44pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Scrypt:Eh 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:47pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
kilokeys:Na that one you wan comment put abi Smh.... anyways i forgive you.... As an elder....... ....... I Bless You kilokeys:Na that one you wan comment put abi Smh.... anyways i forgive you.... As an elder....... ....... I Bless You |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:48pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
legallyblonde:Why would she leave |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 11:50pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Freest: LOL no I wouldn't be that heartless. She shouldn't have done that its not fair Sorry I shouldn't laugh its not funny although I don't get why you met her when you have a fiancée? whats that supposed to mean maybe its good she rejected you otherwise what were you planning on doing if she was still interested? anyway we can leave that at one side. the point is that its good to see the potential in every human being even if it is somehow hidden 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 11:57pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Gurgle: lol.... Okk the flirting part was just me trying to catch fun on a Sunday evening! really had not serious intentions nor strings in mind... Just asked her if we could hang out and she obliged since she's asked me severally when am gonna take her out!!! So it wasn't anything serious (atleast to me) Anyways, different strokes for different folks, i have plans to call her and discuss what she did with her she wouldn't do same with someone else and miss who God is sending her way!!! By the way No wonder she's still single!!! Gurgle: lol.... Okk the flirting part was just me trying to catch fun on a Sunday evening! really had not serious intentions nor strings in mind... Just asked her if we could hang out and she obliged since she's asked me severally when am gonna take her out!!! So it wasn't anything serious (atleast to me) Anyways, different strokes for different folks, i have plans to call her and discuss what she did with her she wouldn't do same with someone else and miss who God is sending her way!!! By the way No wonder she's still single!!! 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by legallyblonde(f): 12:05am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Freest:women loveto feel secure bae..a man living in his parents crib? NAH |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Freest(m): 12:10am On Jun 29, 2015 |
legallyblonde:Wah does crib has to do with security So a man living in his parents crib isn't secured_? |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by OsoDupe(f): 12:13am On Jun 29, 2015 |
She had to leave cos she think at ur age, still staying in ur family house meant you are a mummy's boy or daddy's boy or whatever, she might have had a terrible experience with one like you before. Who knows? 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by MrTeymee(m): 12:18am On Jun 29, 2015 |
assumption is the mother of all fuckups 2 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 12:20am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Freest: Lol you're doing at me whilst telling me you took another girl out for dinner. nawao anyway you don't seem troubled by it so neither should I! but have you told your fiancée about this? just curious yeah I was going to suggest you contact her and give her a piece of your mind but didn't want to incite you 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 1:12am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Freest: well maybe he is "secured" as he has a place to live but if he's not making any other plans then we have to call a spade a spade and admit that HE'S NOT SERIOUS 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 2:21am On Jun 29, 2015 |
The way ladies miss nice guys because of silly reasons baffles me. I still remember a Facebook friend I once called with a foreign number after she gave me her number. I used a calling card which oftens changes to any area code. The olodo girl asked where I was, immediately I told her I reside and work in Congo, our relationship became sour. The mumu never bothered to dig deep and that was it. I abhor brainless girls. 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 2:26am On Jun 29, 2015 |
IdiAmin1: do you mean you told her that to test her, or do you really work in Congo? this thread is so interesting |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 2:31am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle:It was supposed to be a prank but when I noticed her disappointment, I sounded serious to see if she really want me or international phone calls. As for your question, I work in Cotonou as a GM, gate man to be precise. |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 2:35am On Jun 29, 2015 |
IdiAmin1: wait are you serious? If so let me put my newfound wisdom into practice: how long have you been there? and what made you decide to go there? are you working on anything outside of your current job? like projects, business, schooling and so on? I think im doing good |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 2:46am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle:My dear, I learnt a lot from my dad. As a CAT, when searching for a girlfriend, propose to ladies as a LION, many will be yours but as a LION, when searching for a wife, propose to ladies as a CAT and only your God-given wife will be yours. As for your mock inquiry, you just did awesome my angel. shalom 1 Like |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 2:58am On Jun 29, 2015 |
IdiAmin1: hmm. so did father convince your mother that he was going nowhere, in order to test her? the problem is that a lot of people really are going nowhere so you don't want to waste your time or be dragged down with them 4 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Nobody: 3:06am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle:I understand that a lot of people are going nowhere but the ones going somewhere don't carry it in their forehead as signpost. There are three secrets about men that I told my bestie cousin sis. A man who is going somewhere in life must be a good manager of time, finances and friends and sometimes they are loners. Also engage a man in a brain-cracking(without I-too-know attitude) discussion and believe me, you will know his true self. 3 Likes |
Re: She Left Because I Told Her I Stay With My Parent's by Gurgle(f): 3:09am On Jun 29, 2015 |
IdiAmin1: whats the best method for brain cracking and whats an example of that attitude. and not having that attitude? the last time I tried something like that the guy turned out to be evil so I just ignore most of them its not good but what I can I say |
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