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How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 3:39am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Hello respected nairalanders, An earlier thread got me thinking about young successful men who are still single. I won’t exactly call myself rich or wealthy but I have everything a man can ask for except for a wife and kids. Much tougher to achieve when you don’t have a woman in your life and live in a place where I don’t get to meet single Nigerian ladies. It will be nice to meet a pretty and well mannered Nigerian lady who is willing to go the distance. Not a big fan of social media for meeting folks. So I’m here to see if there is anyone out there who is willing to meet and see if we have anything in common worth exploring. I’m handsome, intelligent, responsible, a natural leader of men. I believe in treating women with respect and expect faithfulness / fidelity on both sides. A little about the kind of lady I’d like to meet : A lady with the fear of God young (23 - 30) Educated, smart Social Someone who is willing to work hard to build an empire together I have found it tough to meet a woman worthy so far. Hence my coming out here. I can be reached privately at the following email [email]timhr48@gmail.com[/email] Fellow nairalanders, contributions (insults, laughs, referrals, additions, questions) to thread are welcome….Ideas on how or where to find such a woman would be welcome too |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Nobody: 3:42am On Jun 29, 2015 |
If u are looking for a good lady i go suggest make u check mountain of fire or deeper life church 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 4:02am On Jun 29, 2015 |
lefulefu: Why those two places? |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Nobody: 4:13am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho:coz dem sabi cast and bind |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by djkaycee001(m): 4:18am On Jun 29, 2015 |
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Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 4:18am On Jun 29, 2015 |
lefulefu: Bros, na wifey I dey find, I no want to be cast and bound! choi!!! |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Gurgle(f): 4:19am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: have you tried local Nigerian unions/associations? they are good places to meet others with a similar mindset, especially if there are few of you in one place. the group is smaller so its easier to see whether you connect with people or not anyway I commend your effort. its certainly a bold and brave step For every insult/spam/nonsense response you get, may you receive 10 serious ones |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 4:27am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle: I'm currently in a small town. Couple of Nigerian folks but all older married folks. No single ones and I'd rather stay close to home. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Gurgle(f): 4:31am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: hmm but do you network among them? they may be able to introduce you to somebody would you be open to coming back and marrying? maybe you could ask your family if they know anybody |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Chidonc(m): 4:43am On Jun 29, 2015 |
My brother u are just sex starved...................lol, hw u want take tell us that where u are there are no single ladies 4 Likes |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Nobody: 4:59am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Try Allen avenue |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 5:13am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle: Yeah, I'm willing to find the person, whatever part of the world the person might be. Coming back home to marry is not a bad idea. I would prefer to meet someone and get something rolling ahead of time. At this stage of it, I'd rather not involve family, it can get imposing especially when everyone might think they know whats good for you. Family will come in later. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 5:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Chidonc: Hahaha sex is not a problem. Sex is not a good enough criteria to picking a life partner. Not sure how meeting someone on the other side of the world would solve a sexual problem if there was one. I did not say there are no single ladies, I said there are no single Nigerian ladies and I'd rather marry one. 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 5:17am On Jun 29, 2015 |
DEATHMACHINE: I no dey find ashi abeg o. Na respectable woman. She does not have to be a perfect person, just perfect for me. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 5:55am On Jun 29, 2015 |
djkaycee001: thanks bro, I will be sure to provide updates when they happen. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by stinggy(m): 6:18am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: Respectable Naija ladies? Have you tried badoo? The have only 'respectable' ladies, truss me 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by zealot4me(f): 6:31am On Jun 29, 2015 |
OK I m here @Op will u marry me 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by chudidonas(m): 7:19am On Jun 29, 2015 |
zealot4me: Apt. Op do the needful. Sometimes, the best things in life comes from where we least expect. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Feranchek(m): 7:25am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Lubbish 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 9:37am On Jun 29, 2015 |
stinggy: I've heard stories. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 9:40am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Feranchek: 2 Likes |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 9:40am On Jun 29, 2015 |
chudidonas:In life, no risk no gain. I can sit here all day and work my butt off, but if I don't have someone to share it with, what use is it? |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 9:43am On Jun 29, 2015 |
zealot4me: Ma'am, thanks for the proposal . My very first ever. I'd like to know you more before I can accept. Email maybe? For privacy. I get shy very easily 2 Likes |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Gurgle(f): 9:44am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: are you concerned with tribe? or clan? yeah that's true about family. well I didn't mean those busybody aunties and uncles who don't even care about your wellbeing except to find out the date of your wedding I mean those cousins/relatives you can groove with, who can just invite you along to something and bring a nice girl, or connect you with somebody nearby, something laid back like that |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 9:59am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle: Tribe does not mean anything to me, hence my not specifying any so far. I'd prefer a Christian but religion (or lack of it) is not a deal breaker either. I feel as a Nigerian, tribe and religion are used to divide us too deeply for selfish purposes. So I like to look as people as humans, instead of segregating them by groups. If a person is great, true, honest and faithful, who cares what tribe, or religion they are. I've dated non Nigerians for a while now, so nationality don't really matter to me. However, I find a deep difference in fundamental values to be able to go that direction. You are right about those busy body aunties. Those are very funny when they start their shenanigans. As for cousins and close family members, I just started focusing on this part of my life recently, and still skeptical about it. We all live in different parts of the world, so its hard to just drop in to 'say hello' if you get what I mean. 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 10:05am On Jun 29, 2015 |
DEATHMACHINE: The famous Allen Avenue. Bros, I might be your brother o 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Gurgle(f): 10:05am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: nothing at all? wow I would say that division happens all over the world, especially in 3rd world countries for a host of reasons. But in our typical Nigerian way it just goes overboard with us we cant do anything by halves, not even religious bigotry/ tribalism really? if you don't mind me asking, what nationalities and what were some of the differences? yeah that's true. although as the hypocrite I am I almost set something up for my cousin in another country when I came across somebody from there. they only thing that stopped me was that the person was a different race and its a big issue in my family otherwise I would have been all up in there! |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 10:18am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle: Nigerians don't do things half way. we all like to play cupid. Funny is I've done it many times with varying degree of success but when its my turn, cupid is overbooked. I'd rather not say nationality at this point, but it's been caucasians and other africans. While I consider myself a bit more sociable and liberal, I still find myself conservative as a Nigerian, compared to many other places. It's a lot of hassle dating someone far away, but I believe for the right person, it might just be worth it. |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Gurgle(f): 10:25am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Timrho: yeah I think we're relatively conservative despite being associated with the worst kinds of crookery indeed. good luck on your search! it seems youre going about it the right way |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 10:49am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Gurgle: I agree! Thanks |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by publicenemy(m): 11:03am On Jun 29, 2015 |
[/b] Timrho: Well with ur last paragraph, its well within my right to do this : You are a very big fool and a round duns... And as for ur question ... Bro believe me if you don't have a lady before making it in life you will not find a good girl o... Especially if you live in lagos... Nigerian girls only care about money and guys who have made it... So looking for a true companion is very dificult at this time. No matter how decent they look, they are succubusses. However my advice will be for you to think back if there has ever been any girl in ur life who once loved or cared for you, even if you guys didn't date or have a relationship. If there has been any lady in ur life you once admired for their decency and modesty or a female best friend or a lady who was with you through a difficult time... I suggest you start tracking them down now and praying they are still single. Its a risk as well but trust me you rather sleep with the devil you know. Another advice would be to meet ur mum to help you be on the look out or if there is any girl she knows that's good, you guys could get intoduced and date for a while to see if things work out. On ur own I suggest you go to church more regularly or mosque as the case maybe and always go alone and do ur things alone, don't try making friends and don't cat like u need a wife and don't go with ur car or expensively dressed,becos decent ladies are usually attracted to decent and modest looking guys, usually not extravagantly dressed or guys with expensive cars. You could also go to beaches or any where you think you could meet ladies.... Always keep a low profile so ur not easily noticed,that way you can monitor them from a distance to know how they act and react. When u eventually find anyone you like just walk up to her and make her ur friend.try getting close to her knowing her, and ur good to go. And finally; I believe ur in ur late 20s or early 30s so you could just pick any girl from any where date her,u both go for an HIV and STDs test and if she is clean impregnate her when she puts to bed you re a father so anytime you eventually find love(even @ 40) you know you already have a child,and the child is about a year old,take ur child and start raising him. Or you look for a beautiful tall well built lady and offer to pay her some money(you two will bargain) for her to have a child for you and when the deed is done u pay her off and when the child is big enuff you take him/her and you keep hustling till u find love. 1 Like |
Re: How / Where To Find Respectable Naija Lady by Timrho: 11:04am On Jun 29, 2015 |
publicenemy: public enemy #1 I salute |
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