shugga:

Hmmmmm

Elevation:
What's the Hmmmmm for, I want you to listen to a song.

Jadoskii:
hope youre not talking about mr chima......cos illl report u

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

Jeboy:
Deep calls unto d deep. These guys do exist but if u must divinely meet dem, u urself must possess almost same xteristics because God has a way of leading every ideal woman (Ruth) to her ideal man (Boaz).

shugga:


I doubt cos I'm not extinct, maybe the male version of such are extinct

Jollyjoy:
Imagine! Guys rejecting their real selves, trying to be the faithful,loyal, Godfearing ones here. It nt ur fault,stop trying to sanitize ur dented self. If u aren"t loyal be bold to admit it,if u dn"t love ur family,say it, there shld be a reason, stop,am here,we are nt dead stuffs. Shu! Gals dn"t even value loyal guys nowadays.

justmag:
You need divine wisdom to find this man. And you have to be ready for the man as well. You can't be messed up and asking for a clean man. It doesn't go together.

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Brokenbars:


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MrsChima:


If I say yes...would you get over it?

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

shugga:


Which

morethanadoll:

My opinion, I don't think any man is faithful. The only thing that separates the good ones from the bad ones is that the good ones haven't gotten caught...yet.

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

Blackfire:
@op shugga, i ve a proposal for u, if in 6-8 months i radiate this qualities from my QUALITIES... And prove to u and your hurting heart that I exist... Will u marry me.
Give me a reply and lets start... But if i found out u are vague, shallow, a chronic liar , am out.
I call NL to witness this moment

humilitypays:
I understand how u feel @shugga, now let me tell u the problem u have and the reason y u may never find such a man to be with:

You maybe wondering who that dream woman is? Let me give u a small picture of who that dream woman of many guys is:

She is pretty/attractive, honest, faithful, not a liability, cool-headed, not greedy, contented and intelligent.


Most men that find their dream girl early enough hardly womanise or do all those things u mentioned.

But how many men are lucky in Nigeria to find their dream woman when we have very few number of this dream woman?


As for the drinking to stupor part, I am still wondering how u meet such useless men because I abhor any guy that drinks a lot. I still find it difficult to understand why people even drink alcohol; something that doesn't nourish your body, doesn't taste sweet to your tongue, then what for?

Anyway, that's for those that drink to explain.

My advice to u on finding that your dream man:

1. Don't always wait for him to come ask u out because from experience, I know that such breed of guys find it difficult to woo ladies... most of them don't even see having a girlfriend as a necessity until they are ready to marry.
Majority of such guys were born shy and raised under strict parenting such that they grow up finding it difficult to woo women.


So if u come across such guys, don't tag them “boring”...try and initiate communication with him to make it easy for him to ask u out because most of them lack the courage to ask a girl out.


2. Don't expect him to be a music freak, a club lover, etc and at the same time a reserved reverend father; that's impossible.

Something can't be cold and hot at the same time, so its left for u to choose between cold and hot.

Define what u want and make sure none of the qualities u want contradicts each other.

I can boldly tell u again that I know many guys who are working and above 25yrs without a single girlfriend.

And these guys aren't ugly per se...neither are they born again Christians, but normal guys who have found pleasure in working hard to be financially able for their future kids and only socialise on rare occasion.

Don't expect to find them in night clubs or at beer parlours.

Look around u carefully, u will see them lurking around unnoticed by ladies like u.


These breed of guys you desire don't drink...they don't chase woman no matter how much they admire the lady...they rather die with that feeling than walk up to the girl and say Hi, and that's y it maybe difficult for u and other ladies waiting for such men to find them- they won't come chasing after u, very rare of them.

You may ask: how will they marry Most of them marry by introduction from either their parents, relatives or friends.

Unfortunately, 90% or more of ladies don't fancy these kind of guys...ladies want to eat their cake and still have it; ladies want Davido, they want Wizkid, they want Michael Jackson, yet they want Wizkid to be like Pope John Paul, how possible If Wizkid becomes Paul Johnpaul, then he is no longer Wizkid but Pope Johnpaul


Define what u want and make sure the qualities u want in a man does not contradict each other and u are good to go.

Another tip:
Such guys can also be found online if u are wise and open enough, reason being that social media give them the courage and confidence to express their feelings to ladies unlike in real life. They are not usually popular wherever they are. Search wisely and pray to God too.

But before u do that, search your heart very well and make sure u are worth it...make sure u are what 90% of guys will call their dream girl or else, u are wasting your time, and may end up heartbroken.

Wish u and every other lady searching for love/happiness the best

shugga:


Okay, I'm in how do we start?

Good morning to you!

frisby:



MAY YOU LIVE LONG BROTHER!
Actually I had given up trying to tell women this simple truth. Because, like blind, obstinate children, they NEVER believe you.
So I instead encourage them to keep believing the silly myth.

Dear ladies,
For those of you who TRULY desire a good man, and know (you can't lie to yourself) that you're also an idea woman, please ignore the set of ladies on here calling men rejects and leftovers. They can never find a good man, not because these men are extinct, but because they've allowed the society and economy to train their minds to look in the WROOOONNNG places for a mate.

Listen instead to the poster I just quoted, he has spilled a secret that even nearly 70% of men do not know of. So it's only common sense that a typical woman will not know about this, except the very few that have been good enough to attract such men.

I can also tell you with 98% assurance that this poster is one of such men or has lived VERY CLOSELY (ie married or dated) with one. Because no regular guy will know this much about this very rare group of men.

these group of men, are hardly ever best of friends with the regular kind of men you find on your streets. That's because regular men think them weird and see them as "jew ppl" "kill joys" etc
So you'll hardly ever find these men in pubs or clubs or parties because it holds no attractions to them. And that's because it takes something much deeper than cheap women, wine, loud music etc to fill their deep and noble souls. Only regular men are satisfied with the regular stuff you find in clubs and parties.

And as the poster said "these men have little or no interest in girlfriends" they want something more. They don't want the regular cheap girls that troll our streets. They want someone deep as well , and for a relationship that is so much deeper than just your typical fun dating or celebrity marriages.

They want someone they'd be able to open up to. A soul mate that stays honest and true to the relationship. One who looks at the world and see the true beauty in it beyond the flamboyance, luxury and cheap pleasure that everyone else is killing themselves for.
They're looking for true and deep intimacy. Something that transcends sex and the realms of physical attraction. They're looking for light. Light that can only be reflected by a pure human soul.

Truth is, most times they don't even know what is it they're looking for. But they just know that what they see around them isn't it.
That is, until the day they meet the the ideal one. Then the cosmos will stand still to celebrate this meeting of pure souls. That's is the deep calling onto the deep.

Mind you though. Purity and nobility goes beyond religion. Don't be fooled.

MAY we all live long. And may we all get what we deserve.

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

MrsChima:
Those type of men are long dead. We just dealing with leftovers and rejects.

shugga:
I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

400billionman:


Including Mr Chima