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Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 8:02pm On Jun 29, 2015
Good day.
please i have something bothering me for a while now.i have argued it with some close friends; while some are for it, some are against it.
i cant help but shake my head anytime i see primary school pupils closing by 4pm, some 5pm only to get home for another private home lesson(tutorials), with a minimum of one hour... haba!!!
i thought this trend (as i call it) happens only in the state where i resided until i relocated here and discovered its all over here too. infact i had to politely ask a woman in my neighborhood why her 4yrs old daughter had to close in school as late as 5pm the answer was 'abeg let her stay oooo', she disturbs her too much at home. haaaa
is this not too much a friend said this is due to laziness on parents' part as they now leave everything to teachers.
Moms and dads, what are your views on this? when do this children rest

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 29, 2015
sad sad
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Juxtified(m): 8:31pm On Jun 29, 2015
Its sad really. My neighbour's 6yr old son resumes by 7.30am closes by 3pm, stays back for lessons till 6pm. Even on saturdays he leaves by 9am and returns around 4pm. I'm like wtf, is he preparing for JAMB or what? He's usually so exhausted he falls asleep as soon as he gets home.

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by adedayourt(m): 8:37pm On Jun 29, 2015
op just like d ans u got frm d woman u asked is simply d reason som parent dont find anytin wrong bout it.

its a way of delegating parental responsiblities in d name of education, some go as puttin der little kids in tutorial durin weekrnd nd even boardin jus to kip dat child away frm home

its a developing trend (like u call it) we sud desist frm b4 it ruins the society
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by donholy28(m): 8:53pm On Jun 29, 2015
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Ewuro4: 9:05pm On Jun 29, 2015
When FOB Nigerians move here and their kids were assessed in school to determine the appropriate grade placement. I'm not exaggerating, less than 20% 10% of these kids actually pass their grade test here, they are always demoted for most part. Then ask myself, what have they being doing with these kids??

I remenbered my cousin started school @exactly 1yr old, I'm talking KG1 where they teach letters & numbers my 6 year old kindergartener just started. I don't get it. undecided

OP so maybe they need that after school kumon. What I detest is kumon during summer break. Let kids be kids abeg.
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:19pm On Jun 29, 2015
Juxtified:
Its sad really. My neighbour's 6yr old son resumes by 7.30am closes by 3pm, stays back for lessons till 6pm. Even on saturdays he leaves by 9am and returns around 4pm. I'm like wtf, is he preparing for JAMB or what? He's usually so exhausted he falls asleep as soon as he gets home.
dats so bad. dont u think?
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:22pm On Jun 29, 2015
adedayourt:
op just like d ans u got frm d woman u asked is simply d reason som parent dont find anytin wrong bout it.

its a way of delegating parental responsiblities in d name of education, some go as puttin der little kids in tutorial durin weekrnd nd even boardin jus to kip dat child away frm home

its a developing trend (like u call it) we sud desist frm b4 it ruins the society
and the popular say is that this generation is getting worst everyday. who is raising it the so called accusers(parents)
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by NifemiOlu(m): 9:27pm On Jun 29, 2015
As an educationist, I've raised this on different fora. Let parents kill their children to make them learn. It's their business.
Children need a lot of sleep and play but it's sad that most schools are owned by business men who know nothing about education hence parents are gullible and cajoled for money in different ways.

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:28pm On Jun 29, 2015
Ewuro4:
When FOB Nigerians move here and their kids were assessed in school to determine the appropriate grade placement. I'm not exaggerating, less than 20% 10% of these kids actually pass their grade test here, they are always demoted for most part. Then ask myself, what have they being doing with these kids??

I remenbered my cousin started school @exactly 1yr old, I'm talking KG1 where they teach letters & numbers my 6 year old kindergartener just started. I don't get it. undecided

OP so maybe they need that after school kumon. What I detest is kumon during summer break. Let kids be kids abeg.
am actually in support of summer tutorials, atleast to keep there brain in good shape and preparation for another term. what i seriously dont support is d trend
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:31pm On Jun 29, 2015
NifemiOlu:
As an educationist, I've raised this on different fora. Let parents kill their children to make them learn. It's their business.
Children need a lot of sleep and play but it's sad that most schools are owned by business men who know nothing about education hence parents are gullible and cajoled for money in different ways.
i don't really blame the proprietor. they have to follow the trend so as not to loose out in the market competition of large numbers of pupils...

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by jamex93(m): 9:31pm On Jun 29, 2015
how pikin go close 4 or 5 u still con give am private lesson teacher u want kill am ni



its more advisable if the child closes by 2 or 3 den he rest till 5 and go for private lesson and return by 6


the pikin no fit know evrything finish oo


the worst part b say, some of dem still dull


and its not their fault

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Ewuro4: 9:35pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:

am actually in support of summer tutorials, atleast to keep there brain in good shape and preparation for another term. what i seriously dont support is d trend

No bro.. They've been through extensive non stop tidious 10months, summer breaks should be their own break from these stuff. Mine are doing swimming & farming grin everyday to recharge their psyche for the new school year.

But diff strokes.

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:39pm On Jun 29, 2015
jamex93:
how pikin go close 4 or 5 u still con give am private lesson teacher u want kill am ni



its more advisable if the child closes by 2 or 3 den he rest till 5 and go for private lesson and return by 6


the pikin no fit know evrything finish oo


the worst part b say, some of dem still dull


and its not their fault
bros, infact i don witness wia a tutor dey beat a kid cos d young blood dey sleep during session.
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Ewuro4: 9:41pm On Jun 29, 2015
I remember my days, this mofo tutor I don't really like just kept harping on more lesson days to my old man, I know he's only looking after his pocket ... He comes over around 5pm till around 8 when my mates are watching Indian movies before bedtime grin

Until I faked a deadly .... To be continued lipsrsealed
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 9:44pm On Jun 29, 2015
Ewuro4:


No bro.. They've been through extensive non stop tidious 10months, summer breaks should be their own break from these stuff. Mine are doing swimming & farming grin everyday to recharge their psyche for the new school year.

But diff strokes.
swimming and farming ... kool
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 9:57pm On Jun 29, 2015
That's because people who don't have business establishing schools are establishing them . school don turn business centre because people have seen its lucrative. They'll do after school lessons, tutorials and orisirisi. They'll sha give it different names just to get money from various sources from parents at the expense of these children


children wey be say 7-2pm they're mentally drained and exhausted, parents will still force them to di after school tutorials just because they see them as disturbances. The school management don't care about kids welfare. All they're interested in is their parents welfare. It's really bad. I don't even know what the so called universal basic education, ministry of education, ministry of women and children affairs are doing sef. Their own is to send representatives that will stroll around the school premises with big big geles and say they've inspected the school undecided
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 10:09pm On Jun 29, 2015
dangotesmummy:
That's because people who don't have business establishing schools are establishing them . school don turn business centre because people have seen its lucrative. They'll do after school lessons, tutorials and orisirisi. They'll sha give it different names just to get money from various sources from parents at the expense of these children


children wey be say 7-2pm they're mentally drained and exhausted, parents will still force them to di after school tutorials just because they see them as disturbances. The school management don't care about kids welfare. All they're interested in is their parents welfare. It's really bad. I don't even know what the so called universal basic education, ministry of education, ministry of women and children affairs are doing sef. Their own is to send representatives that will stroll around the school premises with big big geles and say they've inspected the school undecided
seriously bothering me
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jun 29, 2015
Nothing can come between a Nigerian mother and Telemundo.
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by jamex93(m): 10:15pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:

bros, infact i don witness wia a tutor dey beat a kid cos d young blood dey sleep during session.




na wa oo


God go help
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 10:17pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:

seriously bothering me
if it's bothering you. When the school closes. Go pick up your kid.you don't have to make him go though mental pressure.
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 10:21pm On Jun 29, 2015
Timbuktou:
Nothing can come between a Nigerian mother and Telemundo.
Telemondos are shown between 9-10 pm. A child cannot certainly be in school at that time so get over it. You're not making any point

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 10:21pm On Jun 29, 2015
dangotesmummy:
if it's bothering you. When the school closes. Go pick up your kid.you don't have to make him go though mental pressure.
sir, its not about me but those other kids
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 10:25pm On Jun 29, 2015
Ewuro4:
I remember my days, this mofo tutor I don't really like just kept harping on more lesson days to my old man, I know he's only looking after his pocket ... He comes over around 5pm till around 8 when my mates are watching Indian movies before bedtime grin

Until I faked a deadly .... To be continued lipsrsealed
When embarassed



Kontinu joor grin
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 10:27pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:

sir, its not about me but those other kids
You're not responsible for other kids. You're responsible to your own kid
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by KanwuliaJara: 10:31pm On Jun 29, 2015
What other suggestions to you have no OP?
All the children do is EAT, SLEEP and SHYTE abi?
Na you dey pay? cheesy
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by yinkard4me(m): 10:36pm On Jun 29, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
What other suggestions to you have no OP?
All the children do is EAT, SLEEP and SHYTE abi?
Na you dey pay? cheesy
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by KanwuliaJara: 10:43pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:


Did you know understand what I wrote?
Lemme break it down.

If parents have to work, what other alternative DO YOU PROPOSE? kiss

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by adedayourt(m): 10:47pm On Jun 29, 2015
yinkard4me:

and the popular say is that this generation is getting worst everyday. who is raising it the so called accusers(parents)

Irony of life
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jun 29, 2015
dangotesmummy:
Telemondos are shown between 9-10 pm. A child cannot certainly be in school at that time so get over it. You're not making any point

Telemundo is a 24 hour channel. wink
Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by cococandy(f): 11:22pm On Jun 29, 2015
It depends on the kind of programs the schools run. If they put in a lot of play time for the kids, then I don't think it's bad. That way the school doubles as both daycare and school for the kids. For parents who live in Nigeria (or other places for that matter) and have to work, there may be no other alternative.

If I were them, I'll just make sure the activities of the centers include plenty of play time because as we all know, healthy mammals play.
Another thing would be rest. If they put the kids to rest too after every few hrs. These are things the school proprietors need to understand and Adher to.

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Re: Is This New Trend Really Helping Our Young Ones? Or A Damage by dangotesmummy: 11:23pm On Jun 29, 2015
Timbuktou:


Telemundo is a 24 hour channel. wink
not in my own neck of the woods. It's not 24 hrs here. It's only shown on an hourly basis so speak for yourself

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