Mhizizzy:
Forgive

Forget
Move on

APE
OP, DON'T EVER TAKE THIS ADVICE FROM THIS MAD WOMAN

Achilies:
Op am not going to ask u if you slept with anyone during those 7 months break

rather I will ask u how many girls did u sleep with during those 7 months. And how many times

Now ask yourself between you and her who committed more fornication ?

U and many here, alike, must think everyone is just like u : Vain, Undisciplined, lacking in self-control........

mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged

What is tis 1 typing?She shud av tot of the grave consequences afterwards.instead she fell prey.
Y are female always wanna eat n have their cakes?Y?
That ws hw the world's biggest problems started in the garden of Eden.
Both parties should guide their relationship jealousy especially the female folks.

mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged

What is tis 1 typing?She shud av tot of the grave consequences afterwards.instead she fell pray.
Y are female always wanna eat n have their cakes?Y?
That ws hw the world's biggest problems started in the garden of Eden.
Both parties should guide their relationship jealousy especially the female folks.

It was just sex. She doesn't love d guy. It was purely physical. Forgive and get over it.

EggovinMma:



BODY NO BE FIREWOOD!
IT WILL TAKE THE SPIRIT OF GOD ALMIGHTY FOR ME TO STAY 7 MONTHS NO FUCCCK!
I AM YET TO SEE A MAN I LOVE TO THAT EXTENT.

. You don kill me with laff they are coming to bite you soon run run

kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.

Your signature says it all "Hit me harder.,..which means you can barely wait for 5 days before getting hit harder...

Once its serious relationship..she has no reason to sleep with someone else.

You see why girls can sometimes be stupid..It would have been fair assuming she didnt disclose the fact to OP.

EggovinMma:


Honey, way of life is a choice.
Between you and I, you are an angel then.

This is why i find it hard to get a wife because most of the ladies i see are not really disciplined to deny theirselves sex at least for a considerable period of time.

When i look at how disciplined i am i always wish i find a virgin to marry nstead of a lady that so many men hav sampled

not easy though

sonofananimal:



APE

OP, DON'T EVER TAKE THIS ADVICE FROM THIS MAD WOMAN

U already called ursef an animal

Jollyjoy:
Guys self,it nt like u didn"t sleep with anoda gurl during those months. See beyond her flaws and let go. But if u knw u cn"t forget it, just end the affair becos u may neva trust her again. What is love without trust!

ANOTHER APE


DID YOU THINK ALL GUYS CHEAT

NONSENSE

sweetgala:


True, I've enjoyed married or engaged womens company more than those airhead girls.

They are the best abeg.

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Aystarz:


U and many here, alike, must think everyone is just like u : Vain, Undisciplined, lacking in self-control........

If we are vain, Undisciplined and lacking self control then why ask for our advice?

Yeye de smell

Mhizizzy:

U already called ursef an animal

THAT'S WHY YOU LACK COMMON SENSE
AND YOU WILL KEEP ON LACKING SENSE

APE

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

Pls try and give her some benefit of the doubt we are all humans and everybody makes mistake. Besides, you pushed her for the truth. That's why it is said that what you don't know can't hurt you.

[color=#990000][/color] fr d lady to av opened up to u,simply meanz she rily loves u .xo ah wud jst advice u show her luv n trust n make her promise u she wunt try it again...

Love they say is blind. But please open your eyes very very wide and do not make a mistake that will make your life a living hell. Marriage is bitter/sweet, not always rosy. So if the lady slept with another man while you were away it was because she could not control herself. In order words, it will happen again, again, and again. If you feel you can allow another man keep her company whenever you travel out of town, go ahead and marry her. And if you do marry her, be prepared for the consequences.

asumo12:
U dey go church?

If yes


Use ur church mind abeg!

I dont like religion

Toks2008:


This is why i find it hard to get a wife because most of the ladies i see are not really disciplined to deny theirselves sex at least for a considerable period of time.

When i look at how disciplined i am i always wish i find a virgin to marry nstead of a lady that so many men hav sampled

not easy though

THAT'S WHY I KEEP ON TELLING PEOPLE TO FORGET NAIJA WOMEN,


AS FOR ME AND MY FAMILY, WE SHALL MARRY FOREIGN WOMEN

lolaredvelvet:
I can't believe the comments I'm reading here. OP, these people advising rubbish are not your friends!.. if you like, go and marry a s1ut and raise illegitimate kids for the rest of your life. Smh

like seriously? what are u saying somepp go dey forrm holy holy! jeez! missnevacheat? oh pleaseeeeee

kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.

crazy talk

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and [size=16pt]promising her not to use it to react to her[/size], she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

If you are worried about her fidelity...think about the bolded. You are not keeping your promise.

It takes the grace of God, trust and love for a woman to open up. If she told you...forgive her as you have promised.

If you know the revelation will affect the trust you have for her...I suggest you give it some time to think about it rather than rush into marriage on a shaky trust.

It is better not to ask question if you are not ready for the answer.

Be mature about it.

even your wife can sex another man,the right reaction expected of you is to divorce her.so the worst is dont marry her.no big deal.she wants it ,she got it.or is her pussy your property?

Joy1706:
It was just sex. She doesn't love d guy. It was purely physical. Forgive and get over it.

but you created a thread on when to leave a cheating husband... You don't need that, he does not love the girl. It just physical. https://www.nairaland.com/2379703/when-it-actually-okay-leave

Jollyjoy:
Guys self,it nt like u didn"t sleep with anoda gurl during those months. See beyond her flaws and let go. But if u knw u cn"t forget it, just end the affair becos u may neva trust her again. What is love without trust!

Not every guy sleeps around, some guys actually keep themselves and focus on making money and work... hee never said he slept around

For you to have come up with this issue on this forum showed you are pained & this pain has come to stay in as much as you are still with her.

what are you now fighting for,another man not to see your woman's inner body? It's already late,it has been done so uv'e lost the fight. Take a bow & leave she's not meant for you.

A woman that loves you can not allow another man between her laps in your absent,she will rather chose to die than allow that even at the point of rape,she fight & struggle to prove her love.

Thank your God she didn't cut off the relationship instantly & unexpected,there you would have known what near death mean! You wouldn't have stand the heart break.

Take the decision of a man now! Once a cheat is always a cheat.

Nomatter how we may preach love for you here can not rule out the fact that the trust you have for her is gone!

My brother,go for a super woman,a woman that can keep her legs down & make things work! Not a woman that open her legs with any slight excuses.

uproot that love you planted in her & transfer it to another one it's possible!

TAKE THE DECISION OF A MAN & THANK ME LATER!

WINDSOW:
babe,I ws damn upset wen I read ur comment bt immediately I dashed into ur profile,on seeing ur profile pics,I vomited.
Like nosa like comment!!!

I SWEAR UGLY PEOPLE SABI MAKE MOUTH PASS,

WITH HER LIZARD HEAD

Almost every girl has cheated one time or the other.

But to me, is better I don't ever get to find out than for me to find out and start imaging how another guy will be strafing my finance.

That imagination is deadly.

Atlantian:
Its not the last time she will sleep with someone, and its not the last time you will sleep with someone. These things happen in marriages a lot but people simply refuse to talk about it. Marriage is human invention to claim ownership of women. Nature didnt invent marriage. Humans did. And anything created by humans, arent perfect, so is marriage. How many times do married women and even people's fiancee play karma sultra on my bed ? Uncountable!

marriage is God's invention and not man

we are Nigerians CHEATING is in our blood.... live with it, judge not so u wouldnt be judge... if e too pain you go and yansh another girl.... #teamcheaters

peeps here are not just realistic! but u said u won't use it against her na but on the other hand she shouldn't ve allowed you pressured her bfore she told you. most peeps cheat jare! might not be thru sex! emotions, attractions, crush, lust! it happens jare. if u can live with it., den go ahead..

mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.
At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged

[size=18pt]Ofcourse he can respect her and not marry her. Marriage is not so nessary in this case, his fears are justified.... whether she opened up or he found out himself, she has jeopardised the relationship anyway. even the all Forgiving and loving God says we can divorce if the partner cheats, its a big deal uno...[/size]

sonofananimal:



ANOTHER APE


DID YOU THINK ALL GUYS CHEAT

NONSENSE

i was abt replying u maturely just to see ur moniker. "the son of an animal". U are a fo.ol for calling me an "ape"