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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
Jollyjoy:
it ok bush meat.
LIZARD HEAD angry
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
buh i just taught you what your teacher failed to do.
oh really! See dis one. Lolz! So u cn"t even different been taught frm been corrected?haba.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Joy1706(f): 6:42pm On Jun 30, 2015
tunezvic:
Butch of hypocrites... You are the same gender that will post topics on nairaland "my boyfriend is cheating on me" but you don't find anything wrong when you cheat on him.... Love conquers all my foot... Run for your life,she ain't worth it.
And it's still your gender that will encourage the woman to stay, chop the shit and pray. Why are you encouraging the guy to dump the girl? Who are the hypocrites now?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 6:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
your an Angel, best post so far, lucky is your bf... your type i pray for daily..
smiley
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Acidosis(m): 6:44pm On Jun 30, 2015
You have two options

You can marry her out of pity
or

Walk away and gain eternal happiness.

The choice is yours.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Iyke4Real(m): 6:44pm On Jun 30, 2015
U knw because she told u about it...dats because she really loves u and trusts u to forgive her
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 6:44pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:
See y u shouldnt say somethings out grin abegi
Judging from your post... You are keeping such from him till present, and the guy will think he has a girlfriend. SMH

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Emodeee: 6:45pm On Jun 30, 2015
EggovinMma:
grin grin grin grin grin


BODY NO BE FIREWOOD!
IT WILL TAKE THE SPIRIT OF GOD ALMIGHTY FOR ME TO STAY 7 MONTHS NO FUCCCK!
I AM YET TO SEE A MAN I LOVE TO THAT EXTENT.


Really! Pardon me, how many times do u fvck in a month?

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 6:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
EggovinMma:
grin grin grin grin grin


BODY NO BE FIREWOOD!
IT WILL TAKE THE SPIRIT OF GOD ALMIGHTY FOR ME TO STAY 7 MONTHS NO FUCCCK!
I AM YET TO SEE A MAN I LOVE TO THAT EXTENT.
You will find it difficult to be loyal to your husband if he travels in a month. SMH
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by chinwezdasilva: 6:48pm On Jun 30, 2015
Don't worry over nothing it's normal
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by tunezvic(m): 6:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
Joy1706:

This is just a one time thing. But u guys say all the time that sex does not equal love na. Some women can have sex without feelings attached. They can work on it
my dear. What wrong is wrong, so don't try justify it. Can you allow your boyfriend or husband to be sleeping around since it just physical??
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 6:52pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


then i must be an angel because i cant remember when i touched a lady last let alone mking love.

Women are indeed weaker sex
Very weak and insecure... Many are dating whores_ and planning to wife them.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by ManTiger(m): 6:53pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.
Served you right!




Now your mind will never be at rest any longer, your BP will rise to the roof, you won't be able to cope in that relationship. What else?


When trouble sleep, Yanga go wake am....




Na Emeritus Prof. Fela Anikulapo tok am.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 6:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Judging from your post... You are keeping such from him till present, and the guy will think he has a girlfriend. SMH

calm down am just saying becos if she hasnt told I'm he wont be asking dis questions nw, so u c wt u dont knw will nt kill u
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 6:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:


calm down am just saying becos if she hasnt told I'm he wont be asking dis questions nw, so u c wt u dont knw will nt kill u
You couldn't defend your first comment... Nobody will ever understand this rubbish you just posted here.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 6:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



THAT'S WHY I KEEP ON TELLING PEOPLE TO FORGET NAIJA WOMEN,


AS FOR ME AND MY FAMILY, WE SHALL MARRY FOREIGN WOMEN

The logical reason why im contemplating marrying a non Nigerian is because 19 out of 20 Nigerian ladies will never love you ifr you don't have money and that one who claims to love you is only doing that with hope that you will make money and after waiting for sometimes,she will leave you if you don't make it on time.

Most times, the ladies who claim they careless about a man's money are only saying that because time is no longer on their side but if giving an option, they would still dump you for a rich dude.

Outside Nigeria, many ladies will love you and evcen remain fathful to you even if you are a road side vulcanizer or a driver but in Nigeria ladies will always want to suggest an ideal job for their men in order to boost their image.

So why should i have a Nigerian lady who really don't care about me but what i have to offer and at teh same time cope with the dumping ground under her?

Tes theer are Nigerian ladies who will love you for you but trust me, igetting such is like going through teh weyes of the niddle.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by onunwa21(m): 6:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
Guy no make woman gv u HBP. Na fuckn tinx u guys re stil doing. U ve to undastand.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Chubhie: 7:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
We all make mistakes sometimes. Ask her what will her punishment be for breach of trust and if she advices you to get even by fuckkn another dump her and move on.

Or, you can proceed and marry her but have it at the back of your mind that you will always have a pants on fire wife at home with a mystery guy lurking in the closet once you are out of town.

I can imagine how your peace of mind is all gone with the wind. You should learn to have an open mind with women and learn to share your toys cos that's the fad now.

Bro, to be honest with you it is not worth the stress and patching. That thoughts will forever hunt you in your head. She's got no Respect for one of the core principles that en riches relationships-TRUST. I try to live a life based on principles and it is a no no for me. Can't say that bout you.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 7:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
You couldn't defend your first comment... Nobody will ever understand this rubbish you just posted here.

Ok u sick I get it bye undecided stop disturbing my mention thanks
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by esonuu(m): 7:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.
once a cheat,always a cheat..wen u marry her,she wil bleep ur landlord or ur next door neighbour..never marry a lady who cant hold kip her legs closed,u can tolerate anything but not infidelity

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:02pm On Jun 30, 2015
Joy1706:
It was just sex. She doesn't love d guy. It was purely physical. Forgive and get over it.
It was "Just sex" right?

May God forgive you.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Menace2Society(m): 7:03pm On Jun 30, 2015
Forgiveness is a sin
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:04pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:


Ok u sick I get it bye undecided stop disturbing my mention thanks
Fück off biitch... You couldn't make a single point.... Birds of a feather.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Debayurr: 7:04pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.
u guyz aint asking the right question...my exact question is,why did Op ask his fiancee in the first place...isn't this what u called for?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Atlantian: 7:05pm On Jun 30, 2015
chumakk:
are you a black or white?
Are you a racist ?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by beyoncausme: 7:06pm On Jun 30, 2015
take it as a mistake and hope it dose not happen again....

Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:


MY STUBBORN BABE grin WHY DID YOU REMOVE YOUR BEAUTY PICS?

OR ARE YOU SHY OF YOUR PHYSIC wink

Aproko angry Yes, I am shytongue
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



ALL THIS MAD WOMEN NO DEY FINISH FOR NAIRALAND NEH? angry

I JUST FINISH WITH ONE, NOW YOUundecided

TURKEY BRAIN HEADED WOMAN angry

She ia right. It was just sex.tongue
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by jony247(m): 7:08pm On Jun 30, 2015
mrsefan:
u sleep with another too then 50/50
That's if he sees one... Girls are.....
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Mustlive: 7:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
So what's strange? You don pay dowry? Check your self. Are you sure you are a saint? That's the correct woman for. She trusted you by confessing. However, you promised not to count it against her in case it happened. Now you want to count it against her? Marry your correct baby.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by raydatluvs(m): 7:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
Joy1706:
It was just sex. She doesn't love d guy. It was purely physical. Forgive and get over it.
I tot dey said women have affectionate physical intimacy unlike guys.... How much our world has desecrated
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


The logical reason why im contemplating marrying a non Nigerian is because 19 out of 20 Nigerian ladies will never love you ifr you don't have money and that one who claims to love you is only doing that with hope that you will make money and after waiting for sometimes,she will leave you if you don't make it on time.

Most times, the ladies who claim they careless about a man's money are only saying that because time is no longer on their side but if giving an option, they would still dump you for a rich dude.

Outside Nigeria, many ladies will love you and evcen remain fathful to you even if you are a road side vulcanizer or a driver but in Nigeria ladies will always want to suggest an ideal job for their men in order to boost their image.

So why should i have a Nigerian lady who really don't care about me but what i have to offer and at teh same time cope with the dumping ground under her?

Tes theer are Nigerian ladies who will love you for you but trust me, igetting such is like going through teh weyes of the niddle.

I am telling you the fact, when I did my study in Russia, those women are very welcoming less materialistic and more loving, I have most female friend and so on, one of them even wanted to come to Nigeria with me,


I REALLY MISS THOSE DAYS,

BUT AS I DON DEY NIGERIA, MENN OUR WOMEN NA MONSTERS, WICKED AS YOU SEE THEM SO.

BUT SHALL GOOD ONE DEY, BUT IS JUST THAT YOU HAVE TO MAKE A GIANT MAGNET TO FISH THE NIDDLE OUT OF THE OCEAN,

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