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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by carzola(m): 7:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
hmmmmmmmmmm cool
grin should i give you my bbm pin?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
Once does it, forever does it...run for the hills, your lady is a shalanga
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:44pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:


[s] lOl eyah smallie u just cant resist replying buheeheh take a chill pill dude, its a faceless forum nitwit wink [/s]
Seems to you like a joke, if i insult you, you won't like yourself... You are now free to go ride a donkey dick_ that's what you are good at... And am far older than your elder brother.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 7:46pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT
hmmmmmm nawa. o. makining it seem like all of us are hoesss sad
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:46pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:

Bro you really made a big point... I gave you a Like When still reading your comment at half, you really make sense and I hope guys can reason what you just posted here.

I am a guy of 25, but hasn't done it with a lady now, no homo and am not gay, but will indulge in it soon with my girl.

If men can keep their selves, what happened to a girl to go and have sex with another man in just seven, that's really shows how insecure she really is... The ladies here comments are really irritating, birds of of a feathers.

So appalling is the fact that if you dare talk about the importance of a lady getting disvirgined by her hubby you wil see heaps of insults that will rain down on you by ladies and even men and i wondeer what is going on.

The worst part is that even if you marry a virgin, you neeed to pray that she wil still not crave to go out and test another man because it seems it is in the make up of many ladies to have multiple men sample them.

I was discussing with my ex before we broke up about her fantacies and she said she has spent all her sexual life with just me that she sometimes imagine how it will eb with another man and i was like thinking to myself "This lady might just stray away" then when she started misbehaving and opted for a break i told her point blank that i know it would come to that because she really wants to se the world asking her to go and test other men but if she finds me better than them she is free to retrace her steps and if they are better she is free to go because as long as i don't catch her,i don't bother.

She is still battling to let go of me as i write this but for me, im done and i have concluded that 98% of ladies are whores and even the one you disvirgin can still stray just to have a feel of another man but teh only confidence a man will have with a wife he disvirgined is the attachment she will have to him and even if she strays,there will still be that reeserved afection for her rather than coping with another lady who you really don't know how many men have been there.

The ex factor is also a terrible deterent to having a good marriage because ladies are evry sensitive to their past and have attachment to good sex so if you are not as good as the ex then you are on your own because anytime she has privacy with that ex,she must steal a quick one because "once debe is always debe" meaning once a man has bl**ped a lady,he can almost always bl**p her any other time even after many years of parting ways.

Make i just stop here abeg.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
hmmmmmm nawa. o. makining it seem like all of us are hoesss sad

GOD forbid! we still have good and sexually decent ladies but the point is that they are vvveeeeeeeeeerrryyyy rare to find.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 7:48pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Seems to you like a joke, if i insult you, you won't like yourself... You are now free to go ride a donkey dick_ that's what you are good at... And am far older than your elder brother.
grin cheesy buhahahahah guy chilax ee agbaya oshi hian shuu lol sex depraved idiot, am sorry she hurt ur feeling so bad, u no longer ve a sense of humour eyah kpele oo uncle Ode grin

lol smallie just 25 yrs of age, talking to his aunt anyow kia learn manners child cheesy
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Atlantian: 7:48pm On Jun 30, 2015
PLEXPLEX:


God instituted marriage not man...Well, unless u r not a Christian but if u re one n still believe man created marriage i shall advice u read some more of the Bible.
Thanx
Am I supposed to be a Christian or a human being ?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by lucky032(m): 7:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged

No girl born of a man can ever lie to me without me knowing at last.I will go extra mile to know the authencity of what you're telling me.That's if i want to marry her thou.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by ArabianPrince: 7:49pm On Jun 30, 2015
You can't be a player and hate a player.
You need to understand that "All women flirt and most women cheat".
You can't be having other peoples chick and not expect someone to hit yours.
You need to understand that if you could cheat...they could cheat too.
It's only a fool that will think girls don't cheat.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by PLEXPLEX(m): 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2015
If u must come to equity, must come with a clean hands.

If u r innocent of same then use my advice which is, run run run! because there is a likelihood in the % of 80 that she will cheat on u in marriage......
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


This is why i find it hard to get a wife because most of the ladies i see are not really disciplined to deny theirselves sex at least for a considerable period of time.

When i look at how disciplined i am i always wish i find a virgin to marry nstead of a lady that so many men hav sampled

not easy though

I wish you luck dear.
I really wish the best should get the best . Unfortunately, that's not the ways of the world.Life isn't fair most times.
Good you are disciplined when it comes to sex.I also hope you will , in that with other very important ingredients that can make a woman stay. I have actually seen disciplined guys who sucks, sometimes I wish they could just cheat instead of exhibiting other very silly behaviour.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
grin should i give you my bbm pin?
nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh grin
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
You will find it difficult to be loyal to your husband if he travels in a month. SMH


Hey, you don't know that. smiley.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



SO NOW IF I BE YOUR BODYFRIEND ( NA ONLY WHEN I DON MAD FINISH BEFORE I GO FIT BE YOUR BODY FRIEND ) I COME CHEAT ON YOU angry

YOU GO OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH SAY "IT WAS JUST SEX ABI undecided

YOU GO EVEN KILL ME, I KNOW YOUR TYPE

When you cheated on your gf, wasn't it just sex?undecided
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jun 30, 2015
Emodeee:



Really! Pardon me, how many times do u fvck in a month?


Count your name, nickname a d surname. That's the number!

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 7:54pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


GOD forbid! we still have good and sexually decent ladies but the point is that they are vvveeeeeeeeeerrryyyy rare to find.
oh ok. daz consoling!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by carzola(m): 7:56pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh grin
gimme your account number
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



MY MOONLIGHT, DON'T BE SHY, YOU HAVE HIDE THAT BEAUTY FOR SO LONG, WHICH IS NOT GOOD HEALTH WISE,

GO AND PUT IT BACKangry

I swear you are not serious
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 7:58pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
gimme your account number
nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh salary just entered yestiday! grin enough dou for the month! tongue
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 7:59pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT

Gooooooooooosh
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


So appalling is the fact that if you dare talk about the importance of a lady getting disvirgined by her hubby you wil see heaps of insults that will rain down on you by ladies and even men and i wondeer what is going on.

The worst part is that even if you marry a virgin, you neeed to pray that she wil still not crave to go out and test another man because it seems it is in the make up of many ladies to have multiple men sample them.

I was discussing with my ex before we broke up about her fantacies and she said she has spent all her sexual life with just me that she sometimes imagine how it will eb with another man and i was like thinking to myself "This lady might just stray away" then when she started misbehaving and opted for a break i told her point blank that i know it would come to that because she really wants to se the world asking her to go and test other men but if she finds me better than them she is free to retrace her steps and if they are better she is free to go because as long as i don't catch her,i don't bother.

She is still battling to let go of me as i write this but for me, im done and i have concluded that 98% of ladies are whores and even the one you disvirgin can still stray just to have a feel of another man but teh only confidence a man will have with a wife he disvirgined is the attachment she will have to him and even if she strays,there will still be that reeserved afection for her rather than coping with another lady who you really don't know how many men have been there.

The ex factor is also a terrible deterent to having a good marriage because ladies are evry sensitive to their past and have attachment to good sex so if you are not as good as the ex then you are on your own because anytime she has privacy with that ex,she must steal a quick one because "once debe is always debe" meaning once a man has bl**ped a lady,he can almost always bl**p her any other time even after many years of parting ways.

Make i just stop here abeg.




I used to think you get sense but with this, you need to shoot yourself.

Can you swear o good you have never fantasised about having menage a troisundecided. Hypocrite oshi! Typical self-righteous man!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Tjayjosh(m): 8:00pm On Jun 30, 2015
Joy1706:
It was just sex. She doesn't love d guy. It was purely physical. Forgive and get over it.
Who be dis one sef??
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 30, 2015
just from reading this post I can bet my left balls that the op is a dumb Mofoka!!! a wimp, that girl will cheat on you again and again and again punk ass foka. you are a bitcch with a dik. From the posts of the bitcches here guys you all can see that naija girls are whores 99 percent of them are big time WHORES so a girl can't abstain from sex for 7 months?!?! females cheat more than men the just can hide it better. STINKING BITCCHES

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:02pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


I used to think you get sense but with this, you need to shoot yourself.

Can you swear o good you have never fantasised about having menage a troisundecided. Hypocrite oshi! Typical self-righteous man!

I am not sure you are alright because if you are,you wont reply in this manner.Maybe you should read my post very well then try to reason like a homo sapien

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT

The unfortunate woman must have ripped your heart out for a dinner date with her lover cheesy

Ermmmm....I have no time for man is different from I have no time for sex. She has no time for a man but she has time to enjoy herself sexually. Dimwit!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by carzola(m): 8:03pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh salary just entered yestiday! grin enough dou for the month! tongue
lol... you still collect salary been years i did so, i run my own company
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 8:04pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


I am not sure you are alright because if you are,you wont reply in this manner.Maybe you should read my post very well then try to reason like a homo sapien

so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jun 30, 2015
icedbeatz:
just from reading this post I can bet my left balls that the op is a dumb Mofoka!!! a wimp, that girl will cheat on you again and again and again punk ass foka. you are a bitcch with a dik. From the posts of the bitcches here guys you all can see that naija girls are whores 99 percent of them are big time WHORES so a girl can't abstain from sex for 7 months?!?! females cheat more than men the just can hide it better. STINKING BITCCHES

Idi.ot. have asked him whether he hasn't cheated on her since they became engaged.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
hmmmmmm nawa. o. makining it seem like all of us are hoesss sad
so many facts, stories, witnesses and daily occurrence have judiciously proved it to be true it's just the 1percent out of 100 the 99 are all WHORES. why on earth can't afford girl abstain from sex just for 7months

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jun 30, 2015
EggovinMma:



Count your name, nickname a d surname. That's the number!

angrycheesy

That was good!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 8:06pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


So appalling is the fact that if you dare talk about the importance of a lady getting disvirgined by her hubby you wil see heaps of insults that will rain down on you by ladies and even men and i wondeer what is going on.

The worst part is that even if you marry a virgin, you neeed to pray that she wil still not crave to go out and test another man because it seems it is in the make up of many ladies to have multiple men sample them.

I was discussing with my ex before we broke up about her fantacies and she said she has spent all her sexual life with just me that she sometimes imagine how it will eb with another man and i was like thinking to myself "This lady might just stray away" then when she started misbehaving and opted for a break i told her point blank that i know it would come to that because she really wants to se the world asking her to go and test other men but if she finds me better than them she is free to retrace her steps and if they are better she is free to go because as long as i don't catch her,i don't bother.

She is still battling to let go of me as i write this but for me, im done and i have concluded that 98% of ladies are whores and even the one you disvirgin can still stray just to have a feel of another man but teh only confidence a man will have with a wife he disvirgined is the attachment she will have to him and even if she strays,there will still be that reeserved afection for her rather than coping with another lady who you really don't know how many men have been there.

The ex factor is also a terrible deterent to having a good marriage because ladies are evry sensitive to their past and have attachment to good sex so if you are not as good as the ex then you are on your own because anytime she has privacy with that ex,she must steal a quick one because "once debe is always debe" meaning once a man has bl**ped a lady,he can almost always bl**p her any other time even after many years of parting ways.

Make i just stop here abeg.



For her to have the guts to tell that, definitely she has something in mind but still love you, but she really get nasty by deduce if she can have it with another guy. @the bolded.

You can just imagine a lady having the guts to stand in your presence and tell you that, mehn... What of those who you date who you can't say if she loves you, because most them fake love just because of what they wanna get from you financially, you don't know the evil they have in mind against you or by keeping useless secrets.

A lady once told me she won't like if her husband is always around, she said she will if he do travel for at least a month... What do you expect from such wife in her husband's absence... A grown up lady for that matter. Cut the story short.

God bless you!

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