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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


Idi.ot. have asked him whether he hasn't cheated on her since they became engaged.


get your stinking pussssi off my mention you useless LovePeddler.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:07pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:


so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me freom teh day i met her.

Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

Thye so called virgins have ben with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by anorld(m): 8:08pm On Jun 30, 2015
mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged
mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged
mira4u:
See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
icedbeatz:
my ma should get her stinking pussssi off my mentions for she is a useless LovePeddler.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:

When you cheated on your gf, wasn't it just sex?undecided

IT IS CALLED NATURE NEED NOT CHEAT undecided
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 8:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me freom teh day i met her.

Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

Thye so called virgins have ben with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies.

well I haven't spoken to you before? but I quoted the wrong post so I guess that is who you are referring to

yeah a lot of my friends have opened up to me about what they have done, years after the act. I didn't know how many people lead double lives

anyway with this new attitude you may probably come across a real virgin out of sheer open-mindedness

but its good you don't want to pay too much attention to it because everybody is lying

smhhhhhhhhh

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:


so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

Gurgle:


so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me from the day i met her.

Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

The so called virgins have been with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


angrycheesy

That was good!
angry tongue
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 8:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
lol... you still collect salary been years i did so, i run my own company
nawa. Woz all dis talk sef? undecided ok, you win. satisfied
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



IT IS CALLED NATURE NEED NOT CHEAT undecided

Same goes for her-she needed itcheesy
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 8:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:

grin cheesy buhahahahah guy chilax ee agbaya oshi hian shuu lol sex depraved idiot, am sorry she hurt ur feeling so bad, u no longer ve a sense of humour eyah kpele oo uncle Ode grin

lol smallie just 25 yrs of age, talking to his aunt anyow kia learn manners child cheesy
Aunt who's is down to the bottom of iQ.

Believe me when you see me, you will know i just put that for a reason, and i can't be foolish to state my real age on here. undecided

So don't think you know my age. cool smiley
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:




That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me from the day i met her.


Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

The so called virgins have been with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies
.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 8:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
anyway has OP answered whether he remained faithful to the woman during youth service?

because that NYSC camp..nawao
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Aunt who's is down to the bottom of iQ.

Believe me when you see me, you will know i just put that for a reason, and i can't be foolish to state my real age on here. undecided

So don't think you know my age. cool smiley


And to think your signature na only woman you dey follow. cheesy
Lmao.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by carzola(m): 8:14pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
nawa. Woz all dis talk sef? undecided ok, you win. satisfied
Oh no..... we joking here ooo, am just a house boy trying to feel among.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 8:15pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:
anyway has OP answered whether he remained faithful to the woman during youth service?

because that NYSC camp..nawao
just concluded camp, me I was faithful. and it possible he was too. dunno why peeps paint camp like say na brothel! kilode undecided.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:
anyway has OP answered whether he remained faithful to the woman during youth service?

because that NYSC camp..nawao

For where!
Even if i have a guy in NYSC, telling me he us all faithful and shit.shit.I will just nod, my head, kiss him, hug and praise him. cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin





THEN LAUGH WHEN HIS BACK IS TURNED. grin grin
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 8:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Aunt who's is down to the bottom of iQ.

Believe me when you see me, you will know i just put that for a reason, and i can't be foolish to state my real age on here. undecided

So don't think you know my age. cool smiley
lol ok good nite child
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:

Same goes for her-she needed itcheesy
angry
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 8:17pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
Oh no..... we joking here ooo, am just a house boy trying to feel among.
yeye boy smiley
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 8:17pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
just concluded camp, me I was faithful. and it possible he was too. dunno why peeps paint camp like say na brothel! kilode undecided.

you were faithful but were those around you?

if you just enter NYSC section and read what people are writing there you would think we were discussing another planet never mind country

they say everybody just loses their mind on that camp
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 8:19pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:
lol ok good nite child
Good Night daughter... Enough of the chat.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 8:19pm On Jun 30, 2015
EggovinMma:


For where!
Even if i have a guy in NYSC, telling me he us all faithful and shit.shit.I will just nod, my head, kiss him, hug and praise him. cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin

THEN LAUGH WHEN HIS BACK IS TURNED. grin grin

I see you get where I'm coming from

so help me ask this OP of a guy o. this topic don reach page 8. we need clarification
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 8:20pm On Jun 30, 2015
EggovinMma:


For where!
Even if i have a guy in NYSC, telling me he us all faithful and shit.shit.I will just nod, my head, kiss him, hug and praise him. cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin





THEN LAUGH WHEN HIS BACK IS TURNED. grin grin
like seriously? so definatly if u were to be in nysc camp or u probably must ve camped, u will cheat or u ve cheated or if not ve some fun with a random guy? like seriously!

Jeez! am done reading comments here!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by missKiffy(f): 8:20pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.
You said you don't intend to use it against her, so why are you bothered, secondly there was no point asking her, if you had found out yourself it's a different thing, you asked and now you are devastated with the answer
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907 you better get rid of that who're you call a fiancee she fukd more than one dude believe me. you really don't know how these who'res operate, can you live with someone who can't control their sexual urge? 7months and she fukd not that you guys broke up just that there was less communication. she will manipulate you to think it's your fault cos you didn't keep in contact with her and that resulted to cheating. you can go ahead and keep kissing that mouth she sukd another niggas dik with. shes the kind that fuks your friend, neighbors and any fukable. Don't listen to these self oriented part time prostitutes- here typing crap cos prostitutes_ will always support their fellow whores_. from your bitchs answers thats God warning you not to marry what will kill you go ahead of you wanna die of heart attack.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 8:21pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Good Night daughter... Enough of the chat.

Lol ok
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 8:21pm On Jun 30, 2015
sonofananimal:



IT IS CALLED NATURE NEED NOT CHEAT undecided
I dey feel your replies my brother. grin cool
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:22pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
For her to have the guts to tell that, definitely she has something in mind but still love you, but she really get nasty by deduce if she can have it with another guy. @the bolded.

You can just imagine a lady having the guts to stand in your presence and tell you that, mehn... What of those who you date who you can't say if she loves you, because most them fake love just because of what they wanna get from you financially, you don't know the evil they have in mind against you or by keeping useless secrets.

A lady once told me she won't like if her husband is always around, she said she will if he do travel for at least a month... What do you expect from such wife in her husband's absence... A grown up lady for that matter. Cut the story short.

God bless you!




My brother they say say a fool at 40 is a fool forver.

I just turned 40 and i am no longer foolish in the ways of women.

Foerget looking for a chaste woman because most times its a facade and infact if i get an ex LovePeddler i care less but as long as she has learnt a lot from life to give me peace and be a good wife to me and a good mother to my children.

For teh records,i still respect my ex to the highest heavens because she was sincere with me and trust me even as i write i can't say she has cheated on me because im not aware and a s a matured man i have learnt never to imagine shits, its either i catch her or it never happened and if she confesses to me i just assume it never happened.

Marriage and infidelity are very relative, how can i give up a lady i made a woman because she strayed away to slep with one or two men? ok lets assume i say im no longer interested and i go for another lady, how am i sure the new lady have not bleeped my brother and many men in town?

I am moving on but this time i care les if i meet a virgin even if i would love to or i met a mosheeda of this world,all i want is a lady who have learned much from experience to understand what it means to stay faithful to a man.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 8:22pm On Jun 30, 2015
Gurgle:


you were faithful but were those around you?

if you just enter NYSC section and read what people are writing there you would think we were discussing another planet never mind country

they say everybody just loses their mind on that camp
I guess u will loose ur mind in camp too. everyth is just overhyped! or was it just me? people just carry this mentally around! where is self discipline sef? oh lawdddddd! for peters sake, is camp a brothel?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Joy1706(f): 8:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
raydatluvs:
I tot dey said women have affectionate physical intimacy unlike guys.... How much our world has desecrated
That's what you guys think. Not all girls
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Joy1706(f): 8:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
Tjayjosh:

Who be dis one sef??
I be ur mama

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