Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

Cc maclatunji
tbaba
wizeboy
muhdG

Ask Aminat508

No you can't not till after the wedding

This question has to be asked more categorically. Do you mean 'betrothed' in the sense that some rites of the Nikāh have already been fulfilled or 'betrothed' of a mere proposal?

Nevertheless I'll urge you to pose questions like this to the knowledgeable scholars around you, those ones you trust their verdicts. Seeking answers from forums like this might spring up disputing claims.

maryam6:
Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

Cc maclatunji
tbaba
wizeboy
muhdG

No..

PhunsukhWangdu:
This question has to be asked more categorically. Do you mean 'betrothed' in the sense that some rites of the Nikāh have already been fulfilled or 'betrothed' of a mere proposal?

Nevertheless I'll urge you to pose questions like this to the knowledgeable scholars around you, those ones you trust their verdicts. Seeking answers from forums like this might spring up disputing claims.

well, lets say it's a mere proposal.

maryam6:
Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

No sis, it is haram..
It is one of the causes of fitnah

Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said

If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to

MuhdG:
No sis, it is haram.. It is one of the causes of fitnah
Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said

ok, jazakallahu khairan!

maryam6:
Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

Cc maclatunji
tbaba
wizeboy
muhdG

Wa alaykum salam warahmotullahi wa baarakatuh

You are not permitted in Islam to touch or do any of the above stated, and both of you should not be in a room except Wali (chaperone) is present there.

The best thing is for both of you to do the right thing by holding a Nikkah, you don't need big event or money to perform Nikkah. All you need is for your parents, his parents and witness to be present and give consent, which can be hold in a parlour or anywhere and he pays your Mahr.

Wizeboy:


Wa alaykum salam warahmotullahi wa baarakatuh

You are not permitted in Islam to touch or do any of the above stated, and both of you should not be in a room except Wali (chaperone) is present there.

The best thing is for both of you to do the right thing by holding a Nikkah, you don't need big event or money to perform Nikkah. All you need is for your parents, his parents and witness to be present and give consent, which can be hold in a parlour or anywhere and he pays y our Mahr.

Mallam, jazakallahu khairan!

maryam6:
Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

Cc maclatunji
tbaba
wizeboy
muhdG

You no fit hold your body ni

If u said Yes oor u said No,u have to back it up with an evidence

Hmm, I'm following.
Meanwhile, after nikah nko but if they can't afford the walimah yet, can they be intimate to d point of having children?

enieme:
Hmm, I'm following.
Meanwhile, after nikah nko but if they can't afford the walimah yet, can they be intimate to d point of having children?

yes of course! Because the nikkah is actually the matrimony and at the time of the nikkah it will pronounced aloud that she has been given to him as WIFE and He has accepted and both parties have AGREED and there were WITNESSES.



Finished!! Marriage over! Walimat is something that can be done later on as the ceremony of the marriage.

khattab02:
yes of course! Because the nikkah is actually the matrimony and at the time of the nikkah it will pronounced aloud that she has been given to him as WIFE and He has accepted and both parties have AGREED and there were WITNESSES.



Finished!! Marriage over! Walimat is something that can be done later on as the ceremony of the marriage.

Hmm, but at d stage of nikah. It won't have been announced to d public yet so won't it be wierd when pple start seeing them togetther with kids when no one knows it if they r married or not?
What stage is tiit theat although the couple are permissiblketed to be intimate, ibut it isn't advisable for them to unbtil they have announced to d pubklic by way of walimah?

enieme:

Hmm, but at d stage of nikah. It won't have been announced to d public yet so won't it be wierd when pple start seeing them togetther with kids when no one knows it if they r married or not?
What stage is tiit theat although the couple are permissiblketed to be intimate, ibut it isn't advisable for them to unbtil they have announced to d pubklic by way of walimah?

chai! This ya write up and sentence constructions makes it very difficult for me to comprehend...

But from the little I got........ Yeah might look weird to those who don't know but what is right has already been done so it is left for them to ask those who know.


Yeah... If they want to wait till after walimah no probs as long as it is ok by them.

khattab02:
chai! This ya write up and sentence constructions makes it very difficult for me to comprehend...

But from the little I got........ Yeah might look weird to those who don't know but what is right has already been done so it is left for them to ask those who know.


Yeah... If they want to wait till after walimah no probs as long as it is ok by them.

Iz my kepybpads , deyve smoked mweed and d del button is on strike.
I actually came across one fatwa question on islam qa a, can't remeebr much but they discussed about a stage of bethrothal whence the couple r ady permissible for each other but are advisd to not be intimate ubtil a certain stage has been completed. Ill go find d fatwa later

enieme:

Iz my kepybpads , deyve smoked mweed and d del button is on strike.
I actually came across one fatwa question on islam qa a, can't remeebr much but they discussed about a stage of bethrothal whence the couple r ady permissible for each other but are advisd to not be intimate ubtil a certain stage has been completed. Ill go find d fatwa later

eyaah... Sorry eh!




Alright... No probs

Wizeboy:


Wa alaykum salam warahmotullahi wa baarakatuh

You are not permitted in Islam to touch or do any of the above stated, and both of you should not be in a room except Wali (chaperone) is present there.

The best thing is for both of you to do the right thing by holding a Nikkah, you don't need big event or money to perform Nikkah. All you need is for your parents, his parents and witness to be present and give consent, which can be hold in a parlour or anywhere and he pays your Mahr.

Well said.

maryam6:
well, lets say it's a mere proposal.

It's absolutely not allowed. May Allah guide us

enieme:

Hmm, but at d stage of nikah. It won't have been announced to d public yet so won't it be wierd when pple start seeing them togetther with kids when no one knows it if they r married or not?
What stage is tiit theat although the couple are permissiblketed to be intimate, ibut it isn't advisable for them to unbtil they have announced to d pubklic by way of walimah?

. To the best of my understanding of Sharia'h as far as the issue of marriage is concerned. There are four critical stages involved, 1. The offer which can come from either the man (as in the case of Ali RAA to Fatima RAA) or the woman (as in the case on Khadijah and the prophet SAW).
2. Acceptance
3. Parental or guardian's consent, and finally the
4. The dowRy which culminates into Nikkah. May Allah grant us deep understanding.

maryam6:
Assalamu Alaikum! Please, is it permissibe for a muslim woman to touch (shake, kiss or romance) the man she is bethrothed to?

Your answers are highly appreciated.

Cc maclatunji
tbaba
wizeboy
muhdG

That should be after the wedding fatiha

bdauran:
That should be after the wedding fatiha

Yes, they are not married. They still have to observe the rules of Non-mahrams.

[quote author=ALIMINE post=38299272]. To the best of my understanding of Sharia'h as far as the issue of marriage is concerned. There are four critical stages involved, 1. The offer which can come from either the man (as in the case of Ali RAA to Fatima RAA) or the woman (as in the case on Khadijah and the prophet SAW).
2. Acceptance
3. Parental or guardian's consent, and finally the
4. The dowRy which culminates into Nikkah. May Allah grant us deep understanding.




ive found out a fatwa like i was talking anout. Turns out dat what i was reffering to is the srages between marriage contract and consumation of marrige.
heres d link- it provides more info

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maryam6:
well, lets say it's a mere proposal.

Then you can't until Aqeedu Nikkah is done

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Hmm, but at d stage of nikah. It won't have been announced to d public yet so won't it be wierd when pple start seeing them togetther with kids when no one knows it if they r married or not?
What stage is tiit theat although the couple are permissiblketed to be intimate, ibut it isn't advisable for them to unbtil they have announced to d pubklic by way of walimah?[/quote
We are not getting married because of the public, we are only following one of the Sunnah of the prophet (SAW), so a sincere mind should care less about the people. Walimotu Nikkah (which everyone come to eat) is quite optional.

Subhanallah!

All praise is due to Allaah.

A marriage contract is valid in Islam if the following conditions are met, even if the marriage does not take place in a court, or in the presence of a Judge or the Imaam of the masjid. In addition, it does not need to be written.

The waliy (guardian) of the girl has accepted the proposal by saying, for example, "I marry you my daughter", and the one who proposed has replied, for example, by " I accept," or "I am satisfied" (i.e. with his acceptance). This takes place in the presence of two witnesses The woman is legally eligible to marry the man according to Islamic shari'ah (that is she is not a Mahram of the proposer [those to whom the proposer is forbidden to marry. etc.]) Allah knows best.

IF THE ABOVE CONDITIONS ARE SATISFIED THEN THEY CAN...!

so i cant test d car i won buy

Capital NO

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May Allah increase our knowledge and let us end up in Jannah firdaus.

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