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Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
. tellwisdom:typical! Dis is what beingfemaleinnigeria is all about... 3 Likes |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:24pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
edwife:I will choose well only if there is any one left that is good - They spread this their virus everywhere they go ,contaminating everything in their path ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by tellwisdom: 3:24pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
chinoasa: Abi u dey whine??...u dey whine me Abi?? ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by babygirlfl: 3:27pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Thank you very much for your honesty. These are what we are fighting for. I am all for check and balances. It is the duty of me and you to try and make these laws come into existence. It's not enough to say it does not affect us. I think it's selfish for someone to only think that something is only worth fighting for only if it affects them. I have never been hungry, my uncles and auntys can all feed their families and most people I know can feed their family but does that mean they are no hungry families? If I started a movement for poverty to end, does that mean I am doing it because I am poor? It is the duty of the enlightened once amongst us to fight for others. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by cococandy(f): 3:27pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Who's painting Nigerian men black? The tweets merely state that women in Nigeria still have a long way to go in terms of gaining equality with the men. That's not painting the men black. Can't people say the truth about what they face without it being deemed attack on the male folk? I doubt if I saw some tweets there that were attacking any guys. When I see unfair generalizations like "all men cheat" "are violent" or "are misogynist" and all those other bla bla bla, I do stand up and defend the men. Coincidentally, you're among those who turn around to fight my opinions on such instances. which makes one wonder if you guys even know why you want or who you are. ![]() Seriously those tweets are nothing but truth and the life of the average Nigerian lady. (There wasn't a meeting planned to tell them what to say was there?) Because I live in a society where women have as much respect as men, (which BTW was achieved by the feminists we love to hate so much) it doesn't mean that I'll discount the experiences as of my Nigerians sisters as false. After all it was my experience too. No need living in denial. Being in society that respects women doesn't mean I should be oblivious to what happens in my own society. After all If they didn't fight for it here, I won't be feeling so cool now saying I have respect as a woman. therefore those who don't should suck it up and not say anything? If there is going to be a fair balanced society of male and female equality in Nigeria, then there needs to be a feminist revolution there too. Let's keep shushing anyone who tries to speak while the little girls keep getting married off in their infancy and rape victims keep getting blamed for being too feminine. Let the battery continue and the ladies continue to grow feeling that it's not feminine to have ambition or goals in life. Let them continue to feel there's something wrong with them because a man hasn't done them the honor of wanting to marry them. Even though we all know the driving thoughts behind those practices is that there's something lesser about being a woman. After all feminism is bad. We don't want to identify with it. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:28pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by teelady(f): 3:28pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Wow so much pain, but if most of this are true......then am greatful to God for this peaceful life i have lived so far,i hope and pray it continue that way. Sincerely i dodge most of the bullet stated hear. But y rush ur daughter to bring a suitor, that alone cn make her fall into the wrong hands. Tnx God thou 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
babygirlfl:Do you agree with me that some Nigerian ladies that are emotionally fuccked are hiding under feminists and equality movement just because they have a bad past with men and to them every man falls into that category irrespective of your character and disposition towards women generally? 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by ronald4lif(m): 3:33pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Do we have such women here?. ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by proxillin(m): 3:33pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
teelady: I have never seen any parent rushing their daughter to go bring somebody or else. There is no bad in reminding your daughter she is not getting younger by the day. So she should not be get carried away . Menopause starts at age 30. She should know that. 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by macof(m): 3:35pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Bunch of lies. You know why women always come up with the victim act even when unnecessary? Because they think they are beneath men. Inferiority complex is just too enormous with this feminists Also a big misplaced priority. ..why don't we all carry the feminist movement to the middle east? Places where women already have rights is where they make noise |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by An2elect2(f): 3:36pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
oseod: I don't criticise men. I love them too much, to sit all day cherry picking their faults. What i detest, and most women in this country will agree with me, is the constant berating of Nigerian women, who i see as one of the most 'forgiving' and loving women in this messed up world. They are still holding on to traditions even more than their male counterparts. (I only discovered this not long ago) I may not be qualified for a 'good' man but i know many Nigerian women that 'deserve' better than what they re getting here. 5 Likes |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:If I decide to use myself as a yardstick,I might sound arrogant. But I want to put it to you that there are females who make their money legitimately from the scratch without having to sleep their way up. Like I come from a family of business people,business,entrepreneurship is our second nature;both male and female and we're proud of it. We don't work for people,but the other way round. So that's how it is with so many other females. In Nigeria maybe a lot of females compromise,but I'd still say a handful of them don't. 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by cococandy(f): 3:37pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: I think GEJ tried to do something like that. The bill he recently passed that makes it illegal for one to abandon their kids. All the masses need is enlightenment and knowledge of their rights to let that part of the constitution fight for them. If not some men will keep abandoning their babies without consequences and those mothers will keep suffering as single moms or dump the babies in gutters and walk away. When you say enforce child support laws, some people will say feminists want to ruin the world ![]() 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Velocitron: I think majority of the feminists in Nigeria are bored confused slacktivists . trust me... before the next 2 decades all of these fake internet brouhaha would have died down. ✘ |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by ronald4lif(m): 3:41pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
macof: Let's sideline feminism for now. These are misapprehension that is prevailing in Nigeria today. Which of them is erroneous and unfounded, be honest with your response. 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Begonia(m): 3:42pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by cococandy(f): 3:47pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: That is true. It's a big country afterall. If there weren't such people, then we can't really say we are diverse. Those ones will finally settle their personal matters and go back to where they really belong. ![]() It's just like we have misogynist who hide under religion and other instituted forms of partriachy to be mean to ladies. You can't win them all. |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Hear ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by teelady(f): 3:48pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
proxillin: ya right no time, but not all ladies are that lucky......am a lady and i hate to say this most ladies nowadays dnt want to be a part of any man's hustle no more and the rich dudes cant go round. Being part of a man struggle atimes has it advantage. If only we knew 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:49pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
cococandy:You painted a picture as if every woman in this same society is living in one hell of a life down here yet when you got married you were not dragged into your husband's arms by your parents, neither was it out of societal pressure but your heart desire - Sometimes you guys sound so pained that one begin to wonder if at all you can say these things you say online offline unless the internet has also become a place to vent internal angers that can't be vented out since the same society too has been gagging you but got married without being dragged down the aisle. You're even contradicting yourself because I can still draw reference from your previous reply before this one where you alluded that Nigerian women are working and making their money and do not depend on their husbands solely and even gave instances about your family members but here in just one breath you're berating the society for not giving equal voice to women .So, my question is: if the society is that bad like you just painted it where did you get these other facts you initially talked about in your first comment ? No need to answer that question - It is obvious that our women are not happy.But the bad news is that it won't change anytime soon and this is because women are not even ready for any form of changes. Bia , you dun marry abeg , no dey paint this kain picture for here before you spoil people mind finish, meanwhile you dey ya house dey kiss ya husband up and down like say sugar dey him body....... ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by macof(m): 3:53pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
ronald4lif:All that has to do with runs girl aaccusations are lies Also a single independent woman having a sugar daddy. ..this is just lame How can you even believe this? |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
vickylala239: Insult you? Why would I insult you? One thing you need to do is to be able to differentiate insult from reprimand. If you think I give a fvck what you are saying, then you must be getting it wrong. I don't care about what you think. Your opinions about me don't matter. They are insignificant as far as I am concerned. So if you like, rant from now till tomorrow I don't fvcking care. Have a nice day. |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
ronald4lif:You have a point. I wonder why they must align everything to feminism. As for me, I don't care about feminism whether they are fighting against us but what I believe in, is societal egalitarianism. 3 Likes |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:56pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
darkenedrebel:It won't die down - They have 10 and 12 yr olds lined up . Nigerian men are in soup. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by babygirlfl: 3:56pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Truckpusher: You need to understand something please. Feminism is a belief and a way of life. There will be feminists that are lovely, loud, calm, beautiful, ugly, monsters, intelligent and whatever adjectives you want to use just like there are non- feminists that are lovely, loud, calm, beautiful, ugly, monsters, intelligent and whatever adjectives you want to use. Feminists where first human before becoming feminists so they can exhibit any behaviour that humans can. To answer you question, I would say that it is possible for someone to be both a misandrist and a feminist. The part I don't understand is the hiding part. 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:56pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 3:59pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
babygirlfl:And in your right sense of judgement you don't think that a misandrist can mask herself with feminism to emotionally and psychologically batter men? 4 Likes |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
darkenedrebel: oseod: Are you people for real? For goodness sakes this is all for fun. Are you not on twitter? Don't you see that all this is just for humor sakes? Don't you understand how such hash tags work? Everything is always aimed at humor although mostly to drive a point, but it is still all just for fun. That's why you see exaggerations of all kind. Must you guys always be too serious about everything? 1 Like |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Truckpusher(m): 4:01pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
Insidous:What I do? ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by Omotayor123(f): 4:01pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Medicine after death. ![]() |
Re: #beingfemaleinnigeria Trending On Twitter. How True Are These Tweets? by cococandy(f): 4:01pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
I painted I picture? I'm sure you must think I tweeted all those tweets there. ![]() I got married earlyish. Trust me If I was still single, given a few years more, the derisive comments will start coming. As if being single makes me less of a human. I see it happen to lots single ladies. Because I'm married doesn't mean I should pretend like it does not exist. Yes Nigerians ladies are hard-working. Is it the same thing as having a voice? Truckpusher: 2 Likes |
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