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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Isomerizm(m): 3:59pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Even if you do attract friends. The envy, the hate, the distrust will always be there. And that's the main reason why most cute guys end up not giving a fvck about anything. |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 3:59pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teelady:Coming soon. ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by hollypagan: 3:59pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
i swear many little girls still like OBJ die |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:00pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Isomerizm:Yeap exactly. And when you don't give fhuucks they tag you "arrogant". ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lovexme(m): 4:00pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy:i am handsome too...so i understand what i am really talking about... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Take it or u leave it most handsome guys are damm lazy and broke as hell jare ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by misspicy(f): 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
prettyJoy22:you know it too sista..but they wunt accept |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
So on point OP 1 Like |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by IceDude(m): 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Dat No 6 is 100% true. Most pretty gals alwayz give me tough time cos of my looks. There was a day i approached a slim tall ebony damsel, she was just staring at my face smiling. Afta i finished dropping my flows she LOL and said "I know i'm the 10th gal u av toasted dis morning, pls i dnt want my name to be in dat ur long list"....I felt bad dat day eh! ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by vivalavida(m): 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
All that the OP said is fact. Not blowing my own trumpet,but i have experienced most of what he just stated. It is a fact. Pretty gurls even find it strange to wrap their head around the fact that the guy toasting them is way more presentable than them. Thatz one of the cross we have to bear sha. #TeamGoodLookingGuysWhoChasePrettyLadies 3 Likes |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by walosha(f): 4:02pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
yea you are right! Lovexme: |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by marieolae(f): 4:03pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
The op must think he is fine ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:03pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
NigellusHosan:You should be able to associate with everyone na ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:04pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
marieolae:Stop beefing me honey ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Laashman(m): 4:04pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
That means there's no pain in been handsome, these points are not convincing. ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by misspicy(f): 4:04pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy:ok ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Isomerizm(m): 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Better be tagged arrogant than be hurt. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
IceDude:Sorry bro. That's the way it is ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
misspicy: ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:06pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Laashman:Being handsome is still better. ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lovexme(m): 4:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
prettythicksme: Some |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lovexme(m): 4:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
walosha: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by fexyrich(m): 4:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
I don't see myself as that handsome.but some girls say I am..And d most painful thing is that there was this girl I loved so much and wanted to have a relationship with..she is quite preety and tall and she got evrytin I wanted in a woman..She bluntly refused to date me saying that I was a player and I wanted to play my usual games with her same way I do with other girls..She never believed I did not have a girlfriend at that time..saying that a handsome guy lyk me must surely have some girl friends out there and I wanted to join her in my list and that she is not one of those cheap girls.This is a girl dat knows nothin about me..She just made her conclusions cos she saw me as handsome.That hurt me really badly..As she never believed me even till date. |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Toks2008(m): 4:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
glimpse33: With good money i can date you over n over again even if im as ugly as ugly. Good looks only have good impact if you have money to compliment it else you park well or go to other countries where good looks is cherished. In the country where i come from our women prefer a rich monkey to a broke cute guy. FACT. 2 Likes |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by cescky(m): 4:08pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
prettythicksme: I asuume your either a billionaire or incapcitated 1 Like |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 4:08pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
prettythicksme:I can't take it. Because it's a myopic view. I'm a handsome guy and most of my male friends are handsome too. We are no way under the category of what you just stated. It's just like calling every beautiful girl a who're. I'm sure you wouldn't agree with that too. ![]() |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Chai! This will be difficult. ![]() naijaboiy:In the same vein, being a mentally gifted person, is a gift of nature, which, by the way is quite desirable and exquisite. People often think that people with advanced cognitive abilities are able to do anything they want just because of their gifts. However, people often forget that intelligence does not make you a God. You are also a weak, frail person with your own setbacks and problems. We will not analyze these setbacks together. 1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.people tend to objectify brainiacs, ![]() Imagine. ![]() 2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.yeah . . . in this case, it would be the opposite. Nobody cares about you. Nobody therefore talks about you. They only know you exist when their math textbook starts displaying Greek. 3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.yeah, in this case, the envy comes from other less intelligent academics. They cannot believe you are so smart. Without reading, you top the class. While they . . . spend an eternity with their legs in the water bowl. Only to get behind you. Eventually, envy must come. They will also feel insecure around you. They will also shun you. 4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.if you are intelligent and you are not lonely . . . . ![]() ![]() Hardly anyone understands you, the ones that do are green with envy. And usually, brainiacs embarrass themselves in public every time! It's inevitable. No one gets their jokes, or even their grammar sef. ![]() 5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.I remember one time like this when my mom said, "you can even cure cancer!" And I was like . . . ehn ![]() They also expect you to perform at peak levels every time. Whether you are sick or not, whether you are depressed or whatever, they don't care. If you lack behind, they will say . . . he has started moving with those olodos. ![]() 6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.one word . . . FRIENDZONE. ![]() 7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".this also happens to intelligent guys . . . any girl that gets attracted to you becomes overly possessive and clingy. They are also usually bad mannered and not-that-hot. One is happening to me right now even. She calls me day and night and always wants to know my position and momentum at every point in time. ![]() 8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.some peeps are incredibly witty! Myself included. People like this are considered arrogant because they cannot be beaten in an argument. They cannot be corrected, they cannot be coerced. Simply because they have the reply to every statement. Hence they are considered stubborn, ungentlemanly, and arrogant. Even among the girls, no one will want to hold a conversation with you because they know you will eventually embarrass them and make them look like fools. Their excuse? "He is an arrogant sonofab*tch" 9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.some people embrace their gifts squarely. They begin to believe that they are the normal human specimen. However, in the process, they begin to look down on lesser brained peeps. Forgetting that every human has their part in the greater scheme of things. Becoming too confident in one's mental prowess can lead him to view others as objects and animals. [10) share yours.you know, I think that every gift has its own share of problems. Whether aesthetic beauty, mental agility, or sense of humor. It is these strengths and weaknesses that define who we are, ![]() Cc: Lalast.iclala.cc yourmain ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by czarr(m): 4:09pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
prettythicksme:..not all of them are broke ooo ![]() ![]() ![]() BTW is that u on ur dp?? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by donifez(m): 4:09pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
You couldn't have said it better OP. |
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