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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by marieolae(f): 9:23pm On Jul 02, 2015
You are fine grin
vickerz:


is there average? its either fine or ugly nah

look my pic abeg, u be fine boy nw, u suppose know nw
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

Lol...but the hustle is still the main thing boss. cool
Hahahahahaha na lie , na fine I wan fyn naaaa lol
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 9:24pm On Jul 02, 2015
icedbeatz:
Hahahahahaha na lie , na fine I wan fyn naaaa lol
hehehehehe.....guys wey don hammer no need to fine again.

But e for good sha,,cos e go make them almost complete. cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 02, 2015
saasala:


I cannot agree with you more on this. And your analogy confirms you are one witty fellow. Though not much witty, I still find myself a victim of this. I would implore you to start a thread on this topic; the lord knows you will hit fp. Was I a girl, I would propose marriage to you right away.
cheesy cheesy
Don't worry, I will make the thread. wink
On the subject of wittiness, I'm not an expert, think of me as a senior. cool
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 9:27pm On Jul 02, 2015
marieolae:
You are fine grin
Vickerz shey you don hear grin
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 02, 2015
NiRfreak:
brilliant analogy,logical analysis .from your post u appear intelligent
grin grin
I love that.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jul 02, 2015
marieolae:
You are fine grin
lol, ok ! hope u no dey whine me?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

hehehehehe.....guys wey don hammer no need to fine again.

But e for good sha,,cos e go make them almost complete. cheesy
if 50 hammer come fyn any nigga wey hammer must fyn.
* your girlfriend will most times have this insecurity thing like you are cheating on her and complains or whines about the number of female friends you have like you should get rid of them but at a time cheddars na the sure thing meeeehn then looks de follow like twitter.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jul 02, 2015
How do you know OP?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

I was never expecting you to make so much sense.

Nice one! smiley

yeah...& these r the exact words u tell urself every morning looking in the mirror
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 02, 2015
1bkaye:
How do you know OP?
op is dishing a true confession and most niggas can relate to them and you might too.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 9:44pm On Jul 02, 2015
runnazz:


yeah...& these r the exact words u tell urself every morning looking in the mirror
Ok.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by flinton(m): 9:50pm On Jul 02, 2015
topemirates:


My oga, u sef dey here??lol
Lol Emirates! I dey my broda, seems I will be heading back to BY, I juz got a job there
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jul 02, 2015
story story
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by sarmiie(m): 10:26pm On Jul 02, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue


Lol... tongue
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue


Lol...

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Horlufemi(m): 10:34pm On Jul 02, 2015
chudidonas:
I was expectng this and it is spot on.

Once you're handsome, every girl believes you have a girlfriend and you're automatically a cheat.
If you're handsome, even the cheap girls you know their story will want love and commitment from you immediately you say Hi to them. Lol

True.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by DIOSHEYI(m): 10:57pm On Jul 02, 2015
chai..............loneliness
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by myked(m): 11:11pm On Jul 02, 2015
Spot on! "Those that are not extroverted end up without a babe they can call their own sometimes". .... OP correct dieeee wink [color=#000099][/color]
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by cupidhero(m): 11:21pm On Jul 02, 2015
Being a black Adonis sucks!! No one believes you are single and you can't even convince a girl who is not too beautiful that you actually do like her.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lobolintin(m): 11:47pm On Jul 02, 2015
Like seriously. .. .


Am heavily I mean heavily good looking .. And at times I dry for been handsome, at times I thank God also for creating me this way.....


Babes run away alot of times , feeling and never believing you are single and lonely
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:
some fine boys are cheats.
true.... cheesy
its we wowor guys that are more caring and we know how to make a woman special.That is why ladies be chasing after we wowor guys cool.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jul 02, 2015
Teempakguy:

Please, don't be. grin
cheesy
Sorry for the late reply. I was suddenly overcome by a nasty fever. embarassed I have been bed ridden since then. In fact, I still am. sad

Honestly, you are very right. cool smart guys are the way to go. If only more ladies realized this. wink

My back! embarassed


It's a bit too late. I can't unflatter myself now can I ?

Awww poor baby. Hope you get well soon. At least you get to stay in bed all day lol tongue

No worries. Loads of girls coming your way wink

What's wrong with thy back ?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 12:05am On Jul 03, 2015
misspicy:
some fine boys are cheats.
I'm not a cheat and yes, I'm fine.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by xp17(m): 12:07am On Jul 03, 2015
Minet16:

11: They are surrounded by ugly girls: Chai na this one dey pain pass, i no no why ugly girls no de stay one place when dem see fine guy, broke or not. but as OP said, The beautiful girls will hardly come around. The one wey dey pain pass be say those ugly girls go kon upload the fine boy pix come write 'BOO OF LIFE' weda u de date dem or not, please guys avoid those kind girls o, dem sabi spoil parrol, infact their website
WWW. WORWOR4EVERGIRLS.COM

#@MINET16
boss, wait till real conji hold you, na then you go no the value of ugly average looking babe. One of My home boiz would always say" na them dey good to take nourish blood pass"

Em be like MTN , always available . grin grin grin


Seriously, definition of beauty varies from one individual to the other. My Queen might be your thrash, vice versa.



@naijaboiy

No10. They got small dick and most often re less than 5mins kinda guys. This make em become introvert and They don't engage in physical kinda relationship, most of just stick around the internet to keep online babes, but in reality they ain't nothing. Most babes would rather go for the tough and the rugged guys on Jean and T-shirt, than those on tie and suit

Now you know why babes can't keep off that particular guy you think you re good looking than grin grin grin
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by berryice(f): 12:08am On Jul 03, 2015
Lol yall re so funny,no girl will belive dah,same with a guy too...little did they know dah.....cute people are the loneliest cos everyone think they have someone*too bad*

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by tochstorm(m): 12:22am On Jul 03, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue
null error 404 i agree with the op. infact in my street i have only one friend and some if classmates as friend.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by MrOODS(m): 12:55am On Jul 03, 2015
Toks2008:


searching for a sx mate or wife?

You can read well. Can't you?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by korel(m): 1:23am On Jul 03, 2015
true talk bro......especially du gossip part....buh lonliness...noooo....ah dnt have a gurlfwend shaaaa....buh ugly baes no wan free pesin.......every minute of du day na so so dem dey disturb me... :'
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Aystarz: 3:11am On Jul 03, 2015
IlekeHD:
90% of Nigerian men don't know this struggle.

Lmao!!!
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by chubbyswit(m): 3:54am On Jul 03, 2015
i am handsome but have not experienced any of these or dont do any of those things lolz grin tongue
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:44am On Jul 03, 2015
naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours. wink


You ain't lying bro....Even,most handsome guys has lost interest trying to get just a gurl to date.

The average or not good looking guys keep dominating,while the good looking is being rejected
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Emeskhalifa(m): 4:57am On Jul 03, 2015
chudidonas:
I was expectng this and it is spot on.

Once you're handsome, every girl believes you have a girlfriend and you're automatically a cheat.
If you're handsome, even the cheap girls you know their story will want love and commitment from you immediately you say Hi to them. Lol
u so on point sir. Alotta girls wouldn't even wanna believe ur single

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