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Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 9:42pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:What are you on about? I didn't bring nothing to you. I was passing jejely and you decided to follow, talked and we realised, my yam's not the kind you can afford, how is that my fault? The product's not the problem, you just can't afford it. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 9:44pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: If a non believer doesn't get you, how can you speak his own language ? When you are a believer ? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 9:44pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Haba, sista. I called, you answered. I say I no buy again, na fight? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 9:46pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
My dear, I already alluded to the fact that I don't argue with non believers, because we share contrary views, however, I did state that those non believers must have some sort of yardstick to govern themselves, I am not to speak on their behalf. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 9:46pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:You no well. No be fight, no buy as that one no be problem, but no talk say the yam not good. That's all. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 9:49pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: you be like him, no? to catch a monkey, better be prepared to become an ape! even christ wined & dined with unbelievers - something the pharisees particularly felt nauseous about. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 9:52pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Oya come. Na play I dey. I go buy. Siddon here first. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 9:53pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:I don tell you say you no go fit pay, I no dey sell give you. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 9:54pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: You still don't seem to get my own point, being that, if you agree with me that women should marry more intelligent men so they can easily submit to him , are you not in turn agreeing that, women have to still submit to their men but intelligence (which I keep telling you shouldn't be the yardstick) has to be the propelling boost for submission ? In a case where the woman is more intelligent, that means ,the man has to do the submitting ? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by babygirlfl: 9:54pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
cococandy: The bolded says it all. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 9:56pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Na small pikin eyes you dey use . Nwanyi, come nearer first. Put your hand inside my pocket ....What is that you feel? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 9:58pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: where did i say women shouldn't submit? i am the staunchest disciple of submission. go to the previous pages and see my early rejoinders. i am a fan of submission - why shouldn't a woman submit to her hubby? who chose him for her? if she's not ready to submit, she has no business in marriage!
in a case where the woman is more intelligent; the marriage is doomed! i said that earlier. the man's ego would always get in the way even when he knows she's more intelligent. this is why i said a woman should never marry a less-intelligent partner. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 10:00pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:Abeg leave me, I no want, carry dey go. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Coogar, if I get you well, what you keep saying is intelligence, a yardstick for nothing but individualism and hence cant be the force of submission to her husband. This is sad, if intelligence is the whole and all, that means the headship is dependent on the said intelligence. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 10:01pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: I want to buy the whole basin. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 10:03pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: of course..... mention one institution or kingdom where the dullest individual in that institution was made the head. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:04pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: Then I don't think we need to argue any further, because all this intelligence talk only boils down to the hurt it does to her ego which shouldn't be the man's business ,if she was dumb enough to marry a dumb man. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:06pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: Institution ?..... Marriage ! That's where aa man can still be head even when he has the IQ of a sick house fly |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by babygirlfl: 10:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
FrancisTony: The bolded is so true. Reminds me of one of my friends who claims to submit to her husband. Yet when he wanted them to move back to Nigeria, she vehemently refused. When they wanted to build a house, the husband wanted it to be in the village but she refused and said it should be built in a city near the village. These are the two instances of the two big decision I know and on both occasions, she had a say and they still live in the UK and are currently building in a city. So you can tell for yourself whose decision they took. To my darling friend, she is submissive. If I go with her definition of submission. I would be much more submissive than her . I have since concluded that it is one of those things people do as the please and not as they say. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 10:07pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:Person don already buy am, nothing dey again. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 10:09pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: and you can bet that the woman he married even possess a lower IQ......perhaps that of a kwashiokored pubic louse. nothing pleases women more than a super-intelligent partner. women get orgäsms for intelligence, leadership skills, authority, etc. why do you think most nigerian women would gladly sleep with their pastors even when they are married? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 10:14pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Buy wetin? Wetin be dat tin wey shoot out like bazooka for dia? Nne, bia ka m gote iji, biko. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by Stillfire: 10:14pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
The English language is very clear on what submission/being submissive is. We should not add jara into it that the wife can have a say etc. That is no more submission o. You people better call it something else and stop deceiving yourselves. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:15pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: LoL Well, we can always agree to disagree, but i maintain my standpoint ,which is, intelligence isn't the whole criterion for submission. A more logical explanation would have been on the primordial existence of man over women,hence the presiding advantage, that in itself doesn't speak of individual intelligence ,except you wanna say the intelligence lie in the existence (then we can conclude that men are smarter) you and I know that isn't true 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 10:17pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:Rapu'm aka jor. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by dinachi(m): 10:17pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Naira land ladies are quick to shout slavery if you ask them to submit to the authority of their husband but they submit everyday to the authority of their bosses in the office! Many will go out of their way to please their bosses, a thing they can never do for their husbands. There is a growing satanic programme to derail the authority of men in the homes. Submission has to be total or it is entirely useless. Just like @ cougar said, do not marry any man you cannot bow to and submit to. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:17pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: Thank you for this input |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 10:21pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: and who says men aren't smarter overall? of course, the smartest person in this world would be a man - that does not mean you will not find hundreds of millions of women that are smarter than men. the primordial existence also backs the man to be the smarter being. God said that much when He cursed eve. He said because eve allowed herself to be deceived by a stranger(serpent), her love would always be for her husband and he shall rule over her. God was convinced the serpent would never have been able to deceive adam. adam had spent a considerable length of time alone before eve was made & no serpent bothered him. why did the devil choose eve? because the devil was sure the woman is intellectually vulnerable. case closed! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by PreciousBro: 10:22pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
We all know that being submissive is in the context of marital institution, and that means Man has the authority over his wife" This is simple na lol Why are we fighting. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 10:22pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Mbanu. Ka m gote the whole farm sef |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 10:23pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
PreciousBro: that is if we assume the wife chose carefully to marry an intelligent husband. if he's a dullard, she would not submit to him. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by Stillfire: 10:25pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
@Coogar, you say women argue their points with 'my intuition told me, bla bla.' What about men nko that argue with the line 'I'm the man/head, so he feels he's making sense' without providing any cogent reasons for his decisions? You know how our parents argue with the line 'I am your mother/father, don't argue with me' nonsense. Most people do stuff like that when they know they are losing an argument. |
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