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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Emeskhalifa(m): 4:59am On Jul 03, 2015
Same reason why I have been single all this while angry
The beautiful ones won't even accept the "I am single" at all.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by TDstarr: 6:53am On Jul 03, 2015
prettythicksme:
most of dem are so so broke!!damm na only to beg money cheesy cheesy cry i gat dem as friends.
nor vex...but I am a cool handsome guy you can add me on Facebook...I love money more than anything...am not broke and can't be..hate begging people for 1naira..i rather be the one giving out...pls don't generalize..i also have handsome friends too who drive nice cars
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 03, 2015
LOLzzz, I can relate to this in an amusing way. Its one thing to be a handsome guy, its another to be a handsome guy that "allegedly" looks like a girl, according to some eyes.
I was about boarding a flight on Monday and when I got to the last check before the waiting lobby, where 3 immigration guys sat, one said, "ah, mo shebi obinrin lon bo"...lol. I just smiled.
I've heard that a million times. But most times it genuinely sounds like a compliment to me, or rather, I enjoy it, except when I sense it meant to connote I COULD be gay, in which case I'll wish they bring their sister for testing... am not fat, I don't have boobs cus e don turn to chest after plenty press-ups, neither do I walk like a girl. And am a womanizer at that...ah!

P.S. Na Ghana I fly go ooo, no be America or London oooo. Osheeeyyyy.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by raphroye: 8:35am On Jul 03, 2015
@op, av we had this discussion before is like u knw what I'm facing everyday bcuz of my handsomeness.... and no be me say make den ugly oooo
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by midephresh1(m): 9:03am On Jul 03, 2015
0.P zz so on point......nd dey think we are players too.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by toliamy: 9:11am On Jul 03, 2015
you re right op, many of us are broke and cheat. I was once a broke handsome dude but no one knew it cos of my handsomeness, innocence and deceitful face,am quite and dont talk much in public except when am in the mist of my friends. i have multiple girlfriends and some do help me out for some cash and foodstuffs even without asking and sometimes LONELINESS knows me by name, for months i may not have any girlfriend because i have taste and am very choosy but i dont say it out cos no one actually believes me that i dont have anyone except my close pals... The most annoying part of my life is, people judge me for my appearance without getting closer so i created a phase for myself " am not what my face use to be" lol..
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by maxy097(m): 9:18am On Jul 03, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Keep giving yourself hope. grin lipsrsealed
Wowo Is the new fresh joor
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by JurassicPark: 9:31am On Jul 03, 2015
naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours. wink


"fine boy" tag: ..from your close friends, colleagues down to okada riders and bus conductors will at some point call u dat, whether they mean it or not grin the nxt thing, everyone @ d bus station turn around to stare like 'who's he referring to?'

May God bless all the fine guys with good money grin #TGIF

*i'm loving this weather, wbu?*

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Geenickel(m): 9:42am On Jul 03, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue
Oya, ugliness no b sin shaa... Ayaf quoted u shaa
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lovechyld101(m): 9:47am On Jul 03, 2015
When u realize fine boy doesn't pay bills me i just have plenty female friend as possible
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Geenickel(m): 9:50am On Jul 03, 2015
naijaboiy:

Yea,,not all may apply to every guy. But at least one.

Some of the points listed are also personal experiences.
Erm... Oga naijaboiy..... Y is it that among all the cute looking guys that commented on your thread, na only ur dp get beta number of likes.... #NairalandersNoDeShowLoveOsad'
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Geenickel(m): 9:53am On Jul 03, 2015
VictoriaBee:

See what he wrote.

Seriously? Are they hoes?
I know he meant he's.
*his* not he's...... Lol....
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by topemirates(m): 9:57am On Jul 03, 2015
flinton:

Lol Emirates! I dey my broda, seems I will be heading back to BY, I juz got a job there


R u serious? That's cool..
And as u go resume bk with those bayelsa babes, na #Godwin lol
Congrats Bro!
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by belac: 10:04am On Jul 03, 2015
So true, only the handsome dudes knows how this point apply......I'm not bordered when I see some people disagreed, even babes.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by flawlessT(f): 10:14am On Jul 03, 2015
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Minet16(m): 10:22am On Jul 03, 2015
flawlessT:
grin


lol babe, you de feel me ba?

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by missyruq(f): 10:37am On Jul 03, 2015
Seen.. Evn at dat, mk dem swear say they no dey enjoy being lk dt
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by mrcute(m): 11:02am On Jul 03, 2015
am single as they said, I don't know y
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 11:27am On Jul 03, 2015
missyruq:
Seen.. Evn at dat, mk dem swear say they no dey enjoy being lk dt
We still dey enjoy am o cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by charlesikhalea(m): 11:29am On Jul 03, 2015
I agree with 1,4,5,6, but one thing u didn't mention is the fact that gay guys won't also let these guys rest, when u look good & u take care of ursef u become a target for gay guys & also chicks have u just for fun cos they believe u already have like 7girlfriends so they try not to really like u beyond sex, they just want to look at ur face when the action takes place, or showcase u to their friends...... But at the end of the day make do with what u gat, these fine boy attributes can open some pretty cool doors

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 11:35am On Jul 03, 2015
xp17:
boss, wait till real conji hold you, na then you go no the value of ugly average looking babe. One of My home boiz would always say" na them dey good to take nourish blood pass"

Em be like MTN , always available . grin grin grin


Seriously, definition of beauty varies from one individual to the other. My Queen might be your thrash, vice versa.



@naijaboiy

No10. They got small dick and most often re less than 5mins kinda guys. This make em become introvert and They don't engage in physical kinda relationship, most of just stick around the internet to keep online babes, but in reality they ain't nothing. Most babes would rather go for the tough and the rugged guys on Jean and T-shirt, than those on tie and suit

Now you know why babes can't keep off that particular guy you think you re good looking than grin grin grin
Lol,,i disagree jare.

Big dick no be by face o grin
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 11:38am On Jul 03, 2015
Geenickel:

Erm... Oga naijaboiy..... Y is it that among all the cute looking guys that commented on your thread, na only ur dp get beta number of likes.... #NairalandersNoDeShowLoveOsad'
lol,,me no sabi o cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 11:43am On Jul 03, 2015
berryice:
Lol yall re so funny,no girl will belive dah,same with a guy too...little did they know dah.....cute people are the loneliest cos everyone think they have someone*too bad*
Yea right smiley
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by flinton(m): 12:58pm On Jul 03, 2015
topemirates:



R u serious? That's cool..
And as u go resume bk with those bayelsa babes, na #Godwin lol
Congrats Bro!
Lol tanx man
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by czarr(m): 1:22pm On Jul 03, 2015
marieolae:
undecided undecided
wetin..?
I lie?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by missyruq(f): 1:28pm On Jul 03, 2015
naijaboiy:

We still dey enjoy am o cheesy
wink
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by robosky02(m): 2:35pm On Jul 03, 2015
prettythicksme:
where have u been dear?miss u too cheesy


my system crashed just got it back

how you doing
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Donlexino(m): 3:51pm On Jul 03, 2015
ManOfList:

Your sentiments makes absolutely 0 sense cool
Why must you quote the full write up?are u high on sm weed?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jul 03, 2015
The write up is totally true. I know someone who is disliked by many because of his handsomeness. He's quite shy among strangers but many mistake that for pride.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by berryice(f): 1:59am On Jul 04, 2015
naijaboiy:

Yea right smiley
ya ya
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by berryice(f): 2:04am On Jul 04, 2015
Lmao,some guyz here just saying they re cute nd all, but I just peep nd don't say anything .......lol
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 7:48am On Jul 04, 2015
NigellusHosan:
A topic after my heart...
*I'm in tears, i thought i was d only cutie living this....


But
I'd rather b cute n av only a mirror on d wall as my only friend than ugly with a million friends...

Besides we only associate with fellow cutes.

You wish tongue

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