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Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by 989900: 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
The OP is so correct. 'Rich' though is relative . And some confuse getting laid with getting married. This got me cracking though: "My ex-gfs have also accused me of cheating ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Twisterz: 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
checks the op profile, sigh.... but op u re female |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Qweenedo2(f): 1:36pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
So what do you want the single rich guys to do now....... Become poor or commit sucide. The next article will be PAINS OF A SINGLE POOR GUY.... 3 Likes |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by BKings: 1:36pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Andrew114:Lazy man. How did you pass your WAEC? 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Alexebo(m): 1:37pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
i dont belive.......buh op if d pain is much 4 you,here is a way out ......LETS CHANGE PLACES (simple) |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by josyvic: 1:37pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
HMMMM |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Mizmycoli. There's a big difference between being liked and being loved. Someone who likes you may not love you and the one who doesn't like you may fall in love with you. Confusing huh! ![]() |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nnemuka(f): 1:38pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
show me a rich humble guy and i will show you a pregnant virgin. Rich guys are mostly arrogant and their orientation about girls sucks...... 3 Likes |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by sweatlana: 1:39pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
@gudrated u are right. It's such an irony , rich guys are more likely to end up with a bad woman compared to poor or average men. Guys get married as soon as you start working. Don't wait until you are rich cos it's usually detrimental. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Dude... these points are not exactly valid in my opinion. is everyone in Nigeria "poor"? there are "rich" working class or even ajebo ladies all over the place and some are even there in that very same "foremost multinational oil company" where you work; so mingle with people whose social status matches yours. Haba. 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by beyoncausme: 1:40pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
till we get the money.....
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Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
I concur with all that the OP has said. I'm a living testimony...and I'm not even rich yet! ![]() |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Forward1(m): 1:42pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Number 2 is my challenge. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Alexebo: ![]() ![]() ![]() i am not complaining. I am only saying that we also face our own unique challenges 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
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Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by xp17(m): 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
dechandel:you see ![]() ![]() ![]() I need to turn in my resignation asap, no more work, because it seems the broker the better chances of getting em ladies. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Patented: 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Well said OP. everybody has their own pain. Good luck in your search have a friend with similar issues |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by afuye(m): 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
[size=18pt]THEN GIVE ME YOUR MONEY AND BECOME A BROKE NIGGA! IT IS WORSE TO BE POOR INSTEAD. SO NO EXCUSES, YOU CAN ALWAYS GET A GOOD GIRL DEPENDS ON WHO YOU ATTRACT AND YOUR PERSONALITY ![/size] |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Nnemuka: The average Nigerian girl hasn't exactly proved us wrong sha ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by fejikudz(m): 1:44pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
number 9 point. Very correct |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by bidexbaby(f): 1:44pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Nice one, ladies of nowadays are after money ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Nnemuka:This is one of the points I raised, I think in number 9. many ladies, like you, just assume all rich / comfortable guys are arrogant and egoistic...sigh |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
They're usually emotionally and psychologically messed up and they think money can fix everything. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by goodgate: 1:45pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
bettercreature:The OP has ego issues and is no where near rich,Women are attracted to successful guys so i just do not know what he's saying. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
whizqueen:WOMEN EYE DONE TEAR REACH THERE YANSH NOWADAYS, IF THEM SEE YOU WITH TOUCH LIGHT PHONE, THEM GO KNOW SAY YOU GET ANOTHER BIG PHONE SOMEWERE. NOWADAYS TOUCH LIGHT PHONE NA SWAG OHH 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by jonadaft: 1:46pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
gudrated:op you murdered it ![]() sometimes, i get fed up... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by MizMyColi(f): 1:47pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Liking precedes Love. I agree with you though. It's not confusing really, especially when you understand that it's part of daily human relations. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by maryhaam(f): 1:48pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
gudrated:hmmmmm.......class and it's challenges,true attimes. |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
YourMain:same assumption I talked about in numbers 9, 1 and 2. People judge you before even giving you a chance. Confidence is often mistaken for arrogance. 4 Likes |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Op, i hope you'll be able to to handle PMs from ladies them for creating this thread? Btw, why is every claim-to-be-rich naija guy attribute his riches to being an employee of the major oil firms? Does it mean no guys from other fields/firms/enterprises are as rich as the oil niggurs? 3 Likes |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by chinnyonwu(m): 1:50pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
OP is deluded.
Story for Sango and Thor 1 Like |
Re: Daily Pains Of A Single, Rich Guy by sharon763: 1:51pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
[quote author=gudrated post=35543651]It’s funny to me when I read online, especially in Nairaland that all that is required to get a Naija gal is money! People exaggerate the influence of money. Many guys automatically assume that once you display some cash, gals will automatically trip for you like mad. While it may be true to some extent (I have experienced that), it is not always the case. I am not particularly stinkingly rich but I am a very comfortable bachelor working with one of the foremost multinational oil companies in Nigeria. I can afford the basic things of life with ease and with enough to spare. I also have friends & colleagues who are very comfortable and face similar challenges I and others face. Any rich, single guy will possibly identify with some of the challenges I am about to outline, if not all. Some of the challenges are as follows: 1. Many girls automatically assume that you are a player – Drive a nice car, wear good clothes, smell well and live in a comfortable house and many gals automatically tag you out as a player. ![]() ![]() 2. Many think you have a girlfriend – You walk up to a girl, chat her up and start off a conversation. You become her friend and eventually ask her out. She tells you to your face that she knows that you already have a girlfriend, and possibly a fiancée. She tells you that it is virtually impossible for you to be single with your current status. For goodness sake, what does my financial status has to do with my relationship life ![]() 3. Some girls are just interested in your money – Yes, many rich guys can testify to this. You meet lots and lots of female fraudster – we call them runs girls. ![]() 4. You spend more for your girlfriends – Girlfriends who have rich boyfriends expect their guys to spend more for them. You will find out that your broke male friends spend far less for their girlfriends ( and the girls appear to be contented), but in your case, your girlfriends expect that you ‘prove’ your love by spending your cash on them. If you don’t spend lavishly, you risk being tagged as ‘stingy’ ![]() 5. Fine girls tend to play more ‘hard-to-get’ with the rich guys than the broke ones – YES! You heard me right. It’s surprisingly ironic, isn’t it? Fine girls tend to play hard to get with the rich guys because they want to been seen as decent and not after money. Many atimes, it’s just sheer pretence. ![]() 6. You become paranoid. You find it hard to know who really loves you. You also tend to think the girls in your circle are only around because of your money. You beome confused and it gets difficult to settle for a choice. It seems best to have settled for someone before you ‘made’ it. ![]() 7. You may actually meet fewer number of good girls – You heard me right. You find out that you meet mostly bad and extremely extroverted girls. This is because the richer you get, the more isolated you may become. You drive your car, meaning that you do not meet ladies often in the bus or park. You do mostly online transfer meaning that you also miss out on ladies who visit the banks. You also are too busy to visit near-by higher insitutions where you can meet various chicks. We often live in very secured estates where everybody minds his/her own business further isolating us from meeting the real, ‘good’ gals out there. We tend to hang out in bars and clubs where you meet the highly extroverted, possibly bad gals. Gals in church are possibly worse-off too and not much better. Sigh…. ![]() 8. You spend more than others to get a gal others would easily get with little cash – Another sad truth. Standards are set for you. While the not-so-rich guys will think twice before spending even less than 5k on a girl, you find yourself spending comparatively more for a gal. Due to your class, you have minimum standards for yourself, and you find it hard to go below it as it has become part of your lifestyle. First impression matters a lot for women. When you take a lady on a date within your ‘minimum standard’which may be very ordinary to you, she may become carried away with the lavishness. She often steps up her game so as not to appear cheap. ![]() 9. Your true personality is often buried beneath your financial strength ![]() ![]() 10. You find out the real, hard truth that money can not buy true love. Of course, money plays a very big role as it can fuel and sustain true love but money can hardly get you true love. Money can get you a beautiful woman, but it can’t get you a decent, faithful and loyal girl. Ever rich, comfortable or even upcoming guy out there should focus more on building a personality that is attractive to ladies. I have been poor and loved by a lady unconditionally before. I am comfortable and have been hurt by a lady recently. I have been both poor and rich in my life. From my experience, I can very well say that [b]LIKEABLE PERSONALITY COMES BEFORE MONEY. Av u tried going for a normal girl instead of those classy ladies...am single too tho 1 Like |
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