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My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by intercom: 12:27pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Please what are the effects or dangers if you mother Inlaw to be (MIL) does not really appreciate you coming to marry their daughter, allthough they have not come out rightly to stop you, but you could see it on their welcoming actitude. and this is due to you present financial position for now. Will it be right for me to go ahead or i should stop and plead with them to give me sometime to go and get all the money that will be needed for the marriage and the wedding plains and will come back to continue with the preparation. Pls great minds advise me |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by Wendy80(f): 12:48pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
U don't need to 'go and get' money you don't have just to please your MIL. Do things within your means and pls make sure your wife to be is on your side cos if she's on her Mum's side or an 'Omo mummy' then u are in for a long rough ride. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by snakebeat: 1:18pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
What was ur expectation before now? That's d way it is man, na strong head poor men take dey marry for this country na. U were expecting her to welcome u with open arms? Just go ahead with the marriage plans my brother, as time goes on things will improve, & when the money start raking in, ur MIL will be ur best pal. Don't let her attitude deter u, that's the way women are. But hope her daughter is on ur side? ![]() |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by efemenaslectura: 1:36pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
snakebeat:bad advier Kontinu op you better get the kind of job that will sustain your and your wife because even if she's not omo mummy she'll start hating you and everything you do begins to piss her off. Remember the line between love and hate is very thin. Love can metamorphose to hate when the money is barely enough to live a decent life compared to when she was with h her parents God should now finish you let one baba alaye be flashing money in her eye then come back and tell me whether she'll still do surulere with you Yorubas say omo tani ishe wun ko so fun mi whi likes poverty and suffering when someone is flashing a luxurious life to your face in the midst of God will do it instead of you talking about marriage you better make that money then come back and tell me whether dangote needs to do anything to make his mother inlaw love him. Infact the respect will naturally come. Sit down there and be talking about marriage when you've not yet sorted out yourself forst 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by efemenaslectura: 1:48pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Wendy80:op if you follow this advice I pity your life I will tell you what no married woman will tell you. Infact they won't even admit it but it doesn't change the fact that it's true First of all How many rich men do you see their wives disrespecting them and talking to them anyhow whether in public or private? ![]() the meaning is that the level of money you have will determine the respect your wife or your inlaws will give you. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
if its too obvious, tell your fiance you want to hold on a while. |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by snakebeat: 2:55pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
efemenaslectura:Are u suggestin d op should make money like dangote before he marry? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-in-law (MIL) 2 Be Does Not Really Welcome Me Even @ 3 Months To Weddin by efemenaslectura: 7:07pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
snakebeat:no! But at least he should make the kind of money that will be enough to take care of the responsibilities of being a married man without borrowing or begging |
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