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Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by angieberry(f): 11:56am On Jul 07, 2015 |
I'm not claiming perfect or anything But I don't think I can ever hurt or treat any friend the way I've been done by some "friends" bukatyne: |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 11:57am On Jul 07, 2015 |
angieberry:everyone has ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by angieberry(f): 11:58am On Jul 07, 2015 |
That's true ![]() cococandy: |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
cococandy:Yeah, hopefully she reads them.. One can't live his/her life trying to be like others. . Wonder how she copes... It's well. .. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bukatyne(f): 12:33pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
angieberry: These friends of yours... Are they terrible to their male friends, boyfriends, teachers, siblings, relatives, colleagues etc. or are they terrible to only female friends? |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Miami11: 4:21pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Maybe she admires you and want to be like you Not so bad Unless she shows malicious intent |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Ewuro4: 5:15pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Hehe, I'm guessing OP never had a sister/cousins growing up? ![]() 'Mummy she's copying me' , 'I chose that first' 'mummy we should have different stores to shop' ' I want same as her and there's nothing you can do about it!' ![]() ![]() My best friend & I literally have identical wardrobe and meal choices, she changed her dairy to Almond because I did. nails, hairdo, cosmetics, underwear ( creepy eh) yes same. Surprise surprise.. She's not even Nigerian. 'Copying' and competitiveness are all female traits and shouldnt be alarmed when it starts. Some just express theirs to the extreme. So OP, If shes hurting you in any way then by all means tell her to slow down or cut her off. If she's not then maybe just keep her. Really life's too short to be wasted on irrelevancies. Good friends are diamonds and hard to come by. Or has she ever seduced your man? 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by lilmax(m): 6:19pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Women and their wahala,most find it hard to compete with men so they look for their own to do so ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
dsquare33: Best comment so far. Op, I think she admires you. If she's a frienemy or being competitive, you should know. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 9:52pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bukatyne: Madam can you categorically point out where I said I was the saint from my post? She asked a question and I answered based on my own experience. Abi you will not be happy until you call my name? Face your front abeg. I no call your name. No call my own. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 10:00pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bellong: Some things do not sound bad when you tell bae yourself first . Bae feels bad when he hears it from someone first. Especially when the person has added enough Maggi and curry to make it sweeter. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 10:03pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
veave: Ok.. I get you. But what is bae? ![]() ![]() ![]() Pardon my ignorance |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 10:12pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
cococandy: Anyhow you want it babe. I no get friend. I no dey find friend. I no even want be anybody friend. Dey your lane I dey my own. If circumstances warrants us doing anything together be it work, school, or church I try to do it well as a team. After that, to your tent oh Isreal. It doesn't mean I'm a snub or a dragon. Just don't have time for dem sey dem sey. If I have a burden that it's like it would choke me I'd rather run into the bush and scream it to all the trees and wild animals than to share. Friendship nor be by force. I say I no want. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 10:14pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bellong: Bae- before anyone else (normally use it to refer to someone you have feelings for or in love/a relationship with. Usually the opposite sex) |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 10:16pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
veave: Ok.. Thanks for the education. I am so old school I don't understand all these modern day slangs.. ![]() However, by your definition, I guess God is my Bae... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 10:19pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bellong: Okay oh. I will tell your wife. Let us see whether you will eat breakfast in that house tomorrow. ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 10:19pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Lol Friendship is not by force of course. But the problem is not always with the other ladies like your tufiakwa expression implied. Sometimes it's our fault too. That was my point. Anyway have a great day. veave: |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by veave(f): 10:39pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
cococandy: Okay. It's night here. Am going to bed. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 10:40pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
veave:sweetdreams |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 12:08am On Jul 08, 2015 |
veave: I don't eat breakfast as an unwritten rule. Your threat wouldn't work. Your definition says Bae means before anyone else. Meaning there are others but this personality comes first. In essence, God comes first before my wife. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by coogaluta(f): 3:58am On Jul 08, 2015 |
bellong: you must be really old! ![]() lemme guess..50? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 6:58am On Jul 08, 2015 |
coogaluta: Nah.. You are wrong. I am older than that.. Keep guessing |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by dsquare33: 5:18pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
EyeKandy:If her been caring is what endears her to you its okay but you should take precautions. The identity theft got me laughing especially when you are the originator of your style and somebody is copying and she does it as if she creates it, some ladies are like that, even when you are not familiar with them especially in office and neigbourhood and even in churches I guess she doesn't even know she has the vice ( low self esteem). I will tell you that you have an edge over her because she sees you as a role model now don't lord yourself over her because that would be pride. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by thelish(f): 11:16pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy:I have always liked u even while I was a guest here some yes ago. I like ur brilliant head n beauty. |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by thelish(f): 11:17pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy:I have always liked u even while I was a guest here some yes ago. I like ur brilliant head n beauty. how is ur home n hubby? |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 11:31pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
thelish: *Covers face like a school girl* Pls Don't make me shy. ![]() Thanks a lot. We are very fine ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 11:32pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
bellong:lie ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 11:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy: I am not of the indomie generation. Do you want me to tell you about the day to day account of the pearl harbour war as "witnessed" by me? I am learning old age from Senior Methuselah.. ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
bellong: I know. I'm 60yrs old too. ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Adaezeagu(f): 11:42pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Umunwanyi |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by bellong: 11:56pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy: You are still a young chic..... When you are close to 75, we can discuss your age.. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are You Comfortable With A Copy-cat Friend? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jul 09, 2015 |
cococandy: Bellong is not lying. He was in my class in the 50s. |
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