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Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by fashmania(m): 7:23am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Think of your checklist for the "perfect man," he's kind, gentle, handsome and hardworking, he has a good job and he's respectful of your choices, right? Should you add a good cook too? Because, according to Harris Interactive, 32 percent of men adore cooking, and 46 percent enjoy it when they have th e time. A lot of men take pleasure in cooking, and women can reap the benefits of that. Whose “Job” Is It to Cook? Although many modern couples have made progress when it comes to avoiding gender stereotypes, historically, because of legal and cultural practices, combined with time-honored religious and educational practices, women spent centuries in charge of the household. In Victorian time, an ideal women was even called “the Angel in the House.” Women stayed home and took care of the entirety of the cleaning and coking. Eating out was a rare treat. Even though sixty years ago, American women began heading off to the workplace in droves, it’s been hard for families to move away from the idea that housework and cooking are women’s work—even though she may work outside the home as long as or even longer than her mate. Modern couples need to have conversations about the equal distribution of household responsibilities. Men can absolutely cook—either on a rotational basis with their wives or girlfriends or in exchange for the women of the house performing some other household chore or errand on a regular basis. You can always cook meals together, too. Does a Man in Your Kitchen Threaten You a Little? On the other hand, many women grew up with mothers who did most or all of the cooking. Perhaps their fathers grilled on days with good weather and were in charge of the annual Thanksgiving turkey, but that was about it. Realizing your spouse or partner wants to step up in the kitchen can be a bit of a shock at first. Perhaps you enjoy it for a meal or two, but eventually you start to feel that the space you defined for yourself with your rules and techniques is being steamrolled over. However, if that’s the case, you’re looking at it all wrong. Don’t focus on what the man in your life is doing to your kitchen, be thankful you are getting to do something else. The Sexy Amateur Chef Being able to rely on your boyfriend or husband to cook at least half of the meals in your house can prove to be a relief for the modern busy woman, and there’s nothing sexier than being given a chance to relax at the end of the day. Don’t discount your contribution if you’re a stay-at-home mom, either. Watching the kids all day and taking care of the house is more than a full-time job, so your husband can absolutely pitch in by doing the cooking. More women should absolutely place “pulls his weight around the house” on their list of “perfect man” traits. While some women may feel like one of their talents is being usurped when a man does the cooking, others appreciate the break from the kitchen. All in all, sharing the cooking benefits you both, and it gives you a chance to try new dishes you might have never made yourself. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Cutehector(m): 7:24am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Hmmn... Me dat I like food... And she works 8 - 5pm.... I won't even disturb her for food, she will be d one complaining why don't I eat at home... |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Nairalander01: 7:25am On Jul 08, 2015 |
k |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Nobody: 7:26am On Jul 08, 2015 |
I like em |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by naijaboiy: 7:26am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 7:27am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Gosh,i love guys dat cook good food |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Cutehector(m): 7:30am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:think like a man, act like a lady movie don dey shack u for brain |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:coz yo cant cook.... Gosh! |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Pineapp: 7:33am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Men who cook are exceptional in everything because from the kitchen,the art of management is learnt.... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 7:34am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Cutehector:dnt see anyfin bad there,its being romantic,yea and av seen that movie.its a really nice one |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 7:35am On Jul 08, 2015 |
LueDaveLOVESYOU:i can cook better than u |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by doskie(m): 7:38am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Captainswag225(m): 7:42am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:dont mind them guys, cooking for your woman is fun, the only problem is that we cant do it everyday. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Nobody: 7:45am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:in ur widest dream far apart from da reality... Can you make Shrimp Lo Mein, chiitlin, radish cake, cous cous, scrambled toasted eggs with blended yogurt sauce? Bet u cant xo hw u beta than me. What about baked oat with salmon leaf, jollof pampered rice, naked beans with pepper,..... Cmon indomie gal |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Olofintoto(m): 7:50am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Captainswag225:seconded. 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Kingsasian(m): 7:51am On Jul 08, 2015 |
To be frank, I love cooking. I don't need to wait for any lady to do my cooking and I hope to continue doing it even in marriage. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by whiteybankz(m): 7:59am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:Then com n love me ooo…hehe |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by eyeon(m): 8:03am On Jul 08, 2015 |
I love cooking; and if she doesn't love cooking, then she wount taste my cookies... Cooking is worth it. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by chuks34(m): 8:06am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Olofintoto:thirded |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by eyeon(m): 8:06am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:Thanks, they mustn't know that you love me. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Gurgle(f): 8:11am On Jul 08, 2015 |
If its more practical then I should allow him to do it. sometimes the man is even a better cook than his wife self but to be honest it would irritate me if I were sitting at a table allowing my husband to serve me..taaa I would rather he help with other chores like cleaning or ironing to allow me to have time to cook Just thinking about it I cant stand it at all 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Enegod(m): 8:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Men don't cook! |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:44am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Captainswag225:thank u jawe,i am not asking it everyday,buh at least once in a while |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:45am On Jul 08, 2015 |
LueDaveLOVESYOU:wait first,are u a caterer,or did u study hotel management in skool |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:45am On Jul 08, 2015 |
whiteybankz:lols,naughty you |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by kingkoboko: 8:46am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Women luv men wey sabi cook. A woman who cant cook shud b humble enof 2ask her 2teach her how2. Read d complete INDIA VS NIGERIA match story here: www.IndiaVsNigeria.com |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:46am On Jul 08, 2015 |
eyeon:lols,they wont know,it would be between the both of us |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Captainswag225(m): 8:48am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:thats great, once in a while shouldnt be a problem for any gud and loving husband to cook for his woman. |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Nobody: 8:50am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:me momma used to be wen she was jobless |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by whiteybankz(m): 8:53am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Bibidear:Abi na, it's you that said it o, so now exhibit it o |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:54am On Jul 08, 2015 |
LueDaveLOVESYOU:shay u will marry me,when shud i come to pay ur dowry so u can cook all these 4 me. Lol |
Re: Men Who Cook: What Do You Think, Ladies? by Bibidear(f): 8:54am On Jul 08, 2015 |
whiteybankz:lols,no wahala |
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