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Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by RiffRaff: 8:27am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Dont ruin your family or ur friendship... Just stop visiting that place or anything that will make u and ur friends wife be alone. Dont tell anybody... Lie to your friends wife that your wife stumbled upon your message and gave you hell. That gives u an opportunity to stop recieving her calls or replying her chat till she get common sense. So it aint happening. You need to handle this with wisdom.... Save up ur chat, infact get a call recorder to save conversation sef for future evidence.. Put it in a remote storage online so ur wife no go stumble on it. You have to protect yourself too and your family from this drama. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by jkingx(m): 8:27am On Jul 08, 2015 |
For claiming you don't know what to do and looking for advice here, I think you are nursing the idea bro. That is assuming of course that it's not another cooked up story. I strongly believe there is a way you'll make a firm statement and she'll know are serious. As a woman, she's read you and know you interested that why she is still trying to help you make up your mind. Tell her you'll tell your wife and show her your messages and subsequently, tell her husband if she still bother you. Run bro! Run! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Segunbills(m): 8:28am On Jul 08, 2015 |
delishpot:this is the best thing to do. keeps you on a safe side. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 08, 2015 |
kilode100:. Oh! Lawd! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by grandstar(m): 8:28am On Jul 08, 2015 |
waleadex: It wnt rk she believes that he wont tell her friend as that will wreck his friend's marriage she is smart 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Just be careful the way you go about it, it's a really difficult situation I must tell you coz I've been there, I never wanted to tell my friend at first so as not to break her home but he was disturbing me so much and I finally told my friend about her husband making sexual advances at me, she broke down in tears and stopped talking to me till today saying I'm a threat to her family. That was how I lost my very close friend . Just think carefully before you make any step, and be somehow prepared to loose your friendship with her husband. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by victorazy(m): 8:29am On Jul 08, 2015 |
falconey: Pray for what or disgrace her by telling her husband and his wife. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by xeeco: 8:29am On Jul 08, 2015 |
My brother, that woman wants to destroy what you have laboured so hard to build for your life. You can't go through this alone PLEASE tell your wife. I am a fellow responsible man like you, I cannot gamble with my destiny over some confused "slut" sorry to use that word. Allow your wife to caution her on phone anytime she naked such calls or send text message ehe will park out completely. At the level you are going, you may sleep with her or she may blackmail you be wise! Be smart! Observe caution! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Heroesworths(m): 8:29am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Tell your wife. Show are the messages and whenever you are going to her place let her accompany you. The whole lust will die a natural dead as long as you did not fuel it. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Nobody: 8:30am On Jul 08, 2015 |
CertifiedFreak:.... oti oooo I didn't read of him complaining of "monotony" ooooooo |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by dannewlife(m): 8:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Borrow a leaf from Josephs encounter with Potiphars wife in the Bible. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by wallbuilder(m): 8:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Your friend has trusted with his wife, do not betray that. You must be wise to disengage from her. Confide in your wife.You should have done that long before now.It appears you have been enjoying the flirting or else how did you manage to hide those texts from your wife. Next time, try to nip things like this in the bud. Don't allow them to grow to this stage.Sin has 5 stages: planning stage, design stage, implementation stage, maintenance stage and imrpovement stage.You have completed the design stage on this one, in the slightest chance you will implement thsi evil but you can terminate this process and thats what you have started doing.Go ahead terminate it and run away from her like you would from death. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by macfriet: 8:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
waleadex:Doing so would make the woman implicate him in order to end his long standing relationship with her husband. I think he should keep avoiding her without sny threat. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by eyeon(m): 8:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Tell them and free your mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Ricswagger: 8:32am On Jul 08, 2015 |
kilode100:so u are supporting women who cheat in marriage? na im be say u fit comit adultry be dat nah |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Themandator: 8:32am On Jul 08, 2015 |
I don't believe the story but in case it is true, then your best bet is to warn her, sternly or else risk exposure... Don't give her details of how you going to do it. Then if she continues, arrange her exposure with her husband. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by dipotech: 8:33am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by falconey(m): 9:48pm On Jul 07 oh brother! The devil want to get you through her..........let's pray! (Quote) (Report) 4 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by waleadex(m): 9:50pm On Jul 07 Hmm..save her messages and warn her in a reply never to make such advances any further. Let her know that upon further advances you will tell her hubby and your wife too. That way I think she can let you be. (Quote) (Report) 28 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by joganut(m): 9:51pm On Jul 07 gbese re oooo.... ur story be like movie..... i will advice u do somtin drastic fast b4 ur friendship turns sour... (Quote) (Report) 5 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by santakris(m): 9:52pm On Jul 07 Hope your friend is not on nairaland? My advice: Don't try it. Stay firm on your decision. (Quote) (Report) 18 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by delishpot: 9:52pm On Jul 07 Save her sms and other messages. You may need it to clear yourself from her trap one day. Better yet, tell your wife to warn her for you. Your wife should claim she saw her sms on your phone and she should quit disturbing you. (Quote) (Report) 12 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Pineapp: 9:53pm On Jul 07 I just hope your wife is an understanding woman cos you need her to handle this effectively.. (Quote) (Report) 2 Likes (Like) (Share) Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by ArchEnemy(m): 9:53pm On Jul 07 Threaten her verrrry well Bro. Tell her you are going to report her to her husband Some woman wanna fry dodo with your destiny; don't allow that[/quote] All the pieces of advice given to you as quoted here are very good bro, however, let me add this that whenever you are going to meet her make sure your wife is with you or you don't go at all. Likewise pray for God to strengthen you so that you don't fall for this. Remember Joseph in the Bible if you are a Christian. God bless you bro.[b][/b] |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by victorazy(m): 8:33am On Jul 08, 2015 |
grandstar: Smart ke! I think the said guy "OP" is enjoying the stunt if not I wonder why he never expose the promiscuous woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by MrsAnyanwu(f): 8:34am On Jul 08, 2015 |
The world is just evil,how can dat same body u took a vow with,u want to still use dat vowed body to giv ur husband's friend, why is d world just evil? Op pls don't sell ur birthright for a morsel of bread,God bless(singing my woman, my everything, patoranking nd wande coal,d black is d devil)....... |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Cateyes07: 8:34am On Jul 08, 2015 |
free2ryhme:Don't mind dis guy, if we are to interpret his last phrase "Am not myself anymore"it suggest he is given the woman advances a thought, already building up interest, blow the alarm now before it degenerate to crisis and murder, tell your wife and your friend now because a woman who could do this with her husbands friend can kill 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Sparkles003(f): 8:35am On Jul 08, 2015 |
lemme go a bit spiritual with my answer . The bible say if your eyes cause you to sin cut it off or you FLEE. Since you already know her intention towards you. Your first step is to take it to God in prayer,than you stop every avenue she might create to be alone with you,always take your wife along whenever she fakes her illness episodes tell your wife that she has to follow you as witness so that in case anything happens(death)she be your witness or if you can limit your association with your friend to pubic outings no more home visits. if you tell your wife.you have only ended up sowing the seed of DISTRUST for you in her heart. if you tell your friend you have destroyed any trust.love.e.t.c he has for his marriage that is if he trust you more than hiz wife |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Akinz0126(m): 8:35am On Jul 08, 2015 |
@op please do not disclose this to your wife because she might comfrot her in an open field.she might even go to the extend of disgracing her in public which could escalate to the real wahala because 1 of the greatest thing women detest is for another woman of there caliber to make a drastc move towards their Man that's when the real women would show you what they can be upto.my own contribution and recommendation is this:Talk to your friend about it and if he's the type that trusted his wife,you guys should set a little trap for her ie your fwnd should feign that he's on a job mission with him out of town that's when your friend would know what his wife has been upto. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 08, 2015 |
vjsmiles:. Lmao......hahaha 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by DanielPop(m): 8:37am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Ah the devil has come knocking.....but LAWWDDD!!!!!! you must runnnnnnnn!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by PStacks(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2015 |
mkpikpub: Life is short. Enjoy all you can while you still can. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by delman88(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2015 |
MY BROTHER I ADVISE YOU TO FLEEEEEE!!!!!! NEVER YOU GO TO SEE HER ALONE NO MATTER WHAT. AND WHENEVER SHE IS AROUND AND YOUR WIFE IS ALSO, PLAY ROMANCE WITH YOUR WIFE IN FRONT OF HER. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by maxmyluv(m): 8:39am On Jul 08, 2015 |
The earlier u tell ur wife the better. Women knows how to handle this kind of case easily. If u tell ur friend and he chooses to divorce his wife, later u will be blamed for it. In the first place ,why are u hiding it from ur wife? U be mugu if u cannot tell ur wife things like this. I command u to tell ur wife if u truely love her. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by KingAfo(m): 8:39am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Your friends wife is a No-No. Any married woman na No sef. Don't be a snitch. |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by kilode100(f): 8:39am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Ricswagger: Isn't Adultery for adults? 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by kliq(m): 8:40am On Jul 08, 2015 |
mkpikpub: Record your next conversation with her and hold on to that. Women |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by kilode100(f): 8:41am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Re: My Friend's Wife Is Making Life Difficult For Me by dani3(m): 8:41am On Jul 08, 2015 |
the Lord is your strength. devil want to use her to destroy your happiness but he will surely fail. please don't tell her husband but tell your wife she has the right to know so she can help you confront that shameless woman. 1 Like |
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