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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by maureensylvia(f): 8:01pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
Mamas I'm in tears, I just hope I should bring it here even if its nt d right section, my mum is d only person I talk to bt I can't tell her this I just saw 2unused and one used condom in dh's pocket, I'm down, so so down.

I know how you feel dear, be sure before you conclude ok? I wish u d best
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tchiwinnie: 8:05pm On Jul 09, 2015
@mumsgirl27, thanks again for d details abt d baby bed.
@modath, do u hv any idea how much it ll cost @dosunmu? Do u also think i cld get it at oshodi market? cos i heard most things u ll see at idumota are also at oshodi.
E b like say team january wan make noise pass team 'this year'. Mk we chill o, make these our mamas answer their roll call first b4 we begin ours. lol
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by marcjane(f): 8:31pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
Mamas I'm in tears, I just hope I should bring it here even if its nt d right section, my mum is d only person I talk to bt I can't tell her this I just saw 2unused and one used condom in dh's pocket, I'm down, so so down.
pls calm down
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cutiereborn(f): 8:32pm On Jul 09, 2015
@Iffffffy, Hugs & love.... I am sure whatever it means will be cleared.
God is ur strenght.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 8:44pm On Jul 09, 2015
tchiwinnie:
I dont think there s any cause for worry @ all. Abt ur dh, pls try to b calm for nw. Pretend u didnt even see it.Until later when u decide on wot 'action' to tk. I m sure mamas who hv had similar experience ll gv their input. #huggss#
I put it beside me for him to see when he comes in, on getting where I am, he just shouted that he saw it in his table at office and forgot to dispose it, see lie from d pit of hell, ve not uttered a single word since, I don't know what to do, my heart is soo broken
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 8:45pm On Jul 09, 2015
maureensylvia:


I know how you feel dear, be sure before you conclude ok? I wish u d best
d lie dat came out of his mouth concluded it already
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 8:45pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
Mamas I'm in tears, I just hope I should bring it here even if its nt d right section, my mum is d only person I talk to bt I can't tell her this I just saw 2unused and one used condom in dh's pocket, I'm down, so so down.

Swthrt, pls just b calm 4 d sake of d baby.the action to take depend on hw best u handle issues.
If u ar d type dat need 2 confront d situation b4 being calm,then I wil suggest u do it but nt wen fuel up wit anger.
If u ar d type dat can bottle up issues n stil act normal,i wil suggest u let it b 4 now until u ar ready 2 talk abt it.
Pls u really need 2 b calm just 4 d baby.
I knw no excuse can be given 4 used n unused condom dat wil sound logical.
Am sure u knw ur customer n d best way 2 approach issues

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 8:53pm On Jul 09, 2015
missmalachi:


Swthrt, pls just b calm 4 d sake of d baby.the action to take depend on hw best u handle issues.
If u ar d type dat need 2 confront d situation b4 being calm,then I wil suggest u do it but nt wen fuel up wit anger.
If u ar d type dat can bottle up issues n stil act normal,i wil suggest u let it b 4 now until u ar ready 2 talk abt it.
Pls u really need 2 b calm just 4 d baby.
I knw no excuse can be given 4 used n unused condom dat wil sound logical.
Am sure u knw ur customer n d best way 2 approach issues
said he saw it in his office table, didn't know who put it there, and dis is someone ve never denied his right for once even if nt comfortable wit it, d day I still had my. Leg surgery, he still asked for it. Despite d pains, I allowed him, d tears are really flowing, I'm wounded
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 8:54pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
I put it beside me for him to see when he comes in, on getting where I am, he just shouted that he saw it in his table at office and forgot to dispose it, see lie from d pit of hell, ve not uttered a single word since, I don't know what to do, my heart is soo broken

@ this point its difficult 2 say anything on dis matter but pls just b calm 4 d baby's sake.
Der is no enough reason 2 justify cheating but just see it as one of those challenges facing marriages n decide 2 come out of it stronge.
Pls handle it wisely

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nkkystel(f): 9:00pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
Mamas I'm in tears, I just hope I should bring it here even if its nt d right section, my mum is d only person I talk to bt I can't tell her this I just saw 2unused and one used condom in dh's pocket, I'm down, so so down.
Hmmm... Our men! Nne just take it easy biko for you nd the baby's sake.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 9:03pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
said he saw it in his office table, didn't know who put it there, and dis is someone ve never denied his right for once even if nt comfortable wit it, d day I still had my. Leg surgery, he still asked for it. Despite d pains, I allowed him, d tears are really flowing, I'm wounded

I cant tell u I unstd ur pain or hw best 2 handle it but I can assure u dat everything will normalize.
Am certain anyone dat wil wnt 2 gv u advise now wont start by blaming ur hubby cos dat wil only fuel ur anger.everyone wil only concentrate on ur health n dat of d baby wc is d most important.
Excuses will not do great justice 2 ur feeling now neither will saying d truth by dh help u in anyway.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
said he saw it in his office table, didn't know who put it there, and dis is someone ve never denied his right for once even if nt comfortable wit it, d day I still had my. Leg surgery, he still asked for it. Despite d pains, I allowed him, d tears are really flowing, I'm wounded
I want you to listen to me . right now the only relevant thing that should be your priority is that bundle of joy whom d Almighty has bestowed on u as ur comfort. I understand that you feel so betrayed and bliv me I know how it feels because I have had a firsthand experience. My love I will advise you to ignore it now that you have confronted him and pretend like it never happened until you feel you are strong enough to confront the issue the right way. And as long as he isn't abusive, don't ever think of separation as a solution . I need you to be strong for yourself and d baby. I am sending my love, and hugs to you right now.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 9:50pm On Jul 09, 2015
nkkystel:

Hmmm... Our men! Nne just take it easy biko for you nd the baby's sake.
thanks
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ozycy: 10:05pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
thanks
my dear, please just take it easy and try to be calm for your health and that of your baby. Am sure your heart is still boiling, just give yourself some time so you can be able to think right and take proper decision on how to resolve this. Na beg I dey beg you Biko.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 10:07pm On Jul 09, 2015
missmalachi:


I cant tell u I unstd ur pain or hw best 2 handle it but I can assure u dat everything will normalize.
Am certain anyone dat wil wnt 2 gv u advise now wont start by blaming ur hubby cos dat wil only fuel ur anger.everyone wil only concentrate on ur health n dat of d baby wc is d most important.
Excuses will not do great justice 2 ur feeling now neither will saying d truth by dh help u in anyway.
thanks much, I'm trying to calm
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 10:09pm On Jul 09, 2015
ozycy:
my dear, please just take it easy and try to be calm for your health and that of your baby. Am sure your heart is still boiling, just give yourself some time so you can be able to think right and take proper decision on how to resolve this. Na beg I dey beg you Biko.
thanks much, really appreciate, I'm trying to calm
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 10:13pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
thanks much, I'm trying to calm

That will be nice.pls do tak care of u
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 10:21pm On Jul 09, 2015
chinma414:
I want you to listen to me . right now the only relevant thing that should be your priority is that bundle of joy whom d Almighty has bestowed on u as ur comfort. I understand that you feel so betrayed and bliv me I know how it feels because I have had a firsthand experience. My love I will advise you to ignore it now that you have confronted him and pretend like it never happened until you feel you are strong enough to confront the issue the right way. And as long as he isn't abusive, don't ever think of separation as a solution . I need you to be strong for yourself and d baby. I am sending my love, and hugs to you right now.
thanks, I came here to seek solace cuz u people are like my family, and I got it. I'm trying to calm, bt its nt easy, just not easy, its a rude shock

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jennifer89(f): 10:52pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
thanks much, I'm trying to calm


Nne it is not easy. that's marriage for you. when u think all is white and stainless your trust and sacrifices gets crushed in between the rock. sis, we all have our challenges with our hubby but as a virtuous woman that you are approach the situation calmly, I'm sure his heart is not at rest. just be strong for ur lo coz ur state may affect her too. may God give u the strength. it is well.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lovinam: 10:59pm On Jul 09, 2015
Amen! Na "generational" bed e don be. Have u made a choice? See the difference in price acc to mumzgirl. Na so dem take chop my money den o. Lol
tchiwinnie:
No mind me o, was joking. I pray God grants ur friend her heart's desire.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lovinam: 11:09pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy( d only mama I count 123 to write her name). You know we got ur back real good. Right now I will tell you to stay calm. My major concern is our precious lil one. This matter will be sorted out when the right time comes. You are hurt, dh is confused. This is not the time to talk about it. Stay calm for the sake of your baby and also to avoid saying things you might regret. I will say give him the benefit of doubt. You might be shocked at the real story. It might not be what u think. We love u and loads of hug to you. Please try and get some sleep tonight. Play music to calm yourself

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 11:41pm On Jul 09, 2015
@iffffffy as a man, i am touched. pls be strong and consider ur state now and allow time heal u. pls dont argue wit him. soon he wil break and come on his knees b4 u. Its not easy but ur Love 4 him and ur home wil conquer. God is ur strength. (Prouddad Speaks)

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 11:47pm On Jul 09, 2015
Iffffffy:
said he saw it in his office table, didn't know who put it there, and dis is someone ve never denied his right for once even if nt comfortable wit it, d day I still had my. Leg surgery, he still asked for it. Despite d pains, I allowed him, d tears are really flowing, I'm wounded

I don't knw wat 2 say 2 u but pls calm down 4d sake of ur health n dat of ur baby...God is ur solace..

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nefertitiram: 12:32am On Jul 10, 2015
shocked

I enter the thread today and this is what i see.
.

Haaa. Iffffy please i got one word for you. Ignore. For the sake of my god-son. It is well.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Tallgirlslim: 2:16am On Jul 10, 2015
Two things @ iffffy

- There is no problem that is uncommon to man..

- God has provided you a way of escape.. (Your priceless baby who will never cheat on you and love you unconditionally)

Please cry if you must, empty your tear ducts before the Lord. Then get up and raise your head high because as terrible as it seems, you will get over this incident.

Don't fight with him, he's probably killing himself with guilt n confusion. When he does come to you for mercy, please forgive him. 30 years down the marriage you will be glad you forgave him for that indiscretion.

Most importantly, do not be bitter, never let bitterness open a doorway into your life for the enemy to exert his wickedness.

As a family our hearts are heavy for you, because we love you, pls find some comfort in this.


Every blessing!

Tallgirlslim.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by marygold(f): 3:47am On Jul 10, 2015
@ iffffffy,please calm down and pretend it never happened.In the course of this my pregnancy,I saw a lot of whatsapp chat between a lady called Titi and my hubby,I always read the chats and smile,sometimes I will respond on his behalf and after her response,I delete without my hubby knowing or seeing the chat.
I was waiting for an opportunity to come and let me deal with him in my own way,one day he asked me what his BB I'd password was(because I know most of his passw)and I told him his password was TITI. @ so so and so location,my hubby was dumbfolded,he asked me to repeat what I just said and I told him same thing,infact,like say make ground open and consume him that day,I told him all he has been doing and how God is watching him in 4D and me I know say I kuku get mouth.My hubby turn new leaf kia kia and since then,its me and him o.So in summary,just apply wisdom please na their way be that.

Team july,how are we ooo.For me,the contractions no be here oo.Lossing my mucus plug already but I still have few days to drop.God will see us through.Ameen.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by HARMYMY(f): 5:40am On Jul 10, 2015
Iffffy pls take it easy. Life is always beautiful wen Apple and Blackberry werE just fruit. I want you to believe their is nothing new on heart. Just erase the incident on your head for the shake of lil one who will never cheats on you and compare you with any one on earth. Pls dear let bygone be bygone as their is time for everything. When the time comes you can challenge his authority but for now allow guilty con sense to disturb him...

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by HARMYMY(f): 5:42am On Jul 10, 2015
HARMYMY:
Iffffy pls take it easy. Life is always beautiful wen Apple and Blackberry werE just fruit. I want you to believe their is nothing new on Earth. Just erase the incident on your head for the shake of lil one who will never cheats on you and compare you with any one on earth. Pls dear let bygone be bygone as their is time for everything. When the time comes you can challenge his authority but for now allow guilty con sense to disturb him... May God grant everyone peace of Mind Amen

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:09am On Jul 10, 2015
Iffffffy:
thanks, I came here to seek solace cuz u people are like my family, and I got it. I'm trying to calm, bt its nt easy, just not easy, its a rude shock
I know it's not easy but believe me everything will be alright.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:12am On Jul 10, 2015
Iffffffy:
thanks, I came here to seek solace cuz u people are like my family, and I got it. I'm trying to calm, bt its nt easy, just not easy, its a rude shock
I know it's not easy but believe me everything will be alright .

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cutiereborn(f): 7:22am On Jul 10, 2015
Good morning Mamas in the house, vigilante & my fellow truck pushers!
Its my Birthday 2day so, Senior July Mamas a perfect gift will be a supernatural Birthday mate!
@july Mamas, supernatural childbirth all the way.
#teamseptember4testimonies#

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iffffffy(f): 7:42am On Jul 10, 2015
marygold:
@ iffffffy,please calm down and pretend it never happened.In the course of this my pregnancy,I saw a lot of whatsapp chat between a lady called Titi and my hubby,I always read the chats and smile,sometimes I will respond on his behalf and after her response,I delete without my hubby knowing or seeing the chat.
I was waiting for an opportunity to come and let me deal with him in my own way,one day he asked me what his BB I'd password was(because I know most of his passw)and I told him his password was TITI. @ so so and so location,my hubby was dumbfolded,he asked me to repeat what I just said and I told him same thing,infact,like say make ground open and consume him that day,I told him all he has been doing and how God is watching him in 4D and me I know say I kuku get mouth.My hubby turn new leaf kia kia and since then,its me and him o.So in summary,just apply wisdom please na their way be that.

Team july,how are we ooo.For me,the contractions no be here oo.Lossing my mucus plug already but I still have few days to drop.God will see us through.Ameen.
thanks

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