delleby:
"Blackett post Why not? What's wrong with it? What _idiot gets married and starts a family without having money? How many days ago was it that a man abandoned his family? For what reason?

Money! "

Well said, but we both know that the family you just mentioned isn't capable of managing a family with 3 children, how much more 6. i I know it wouldn't have been easy for them, but they, especially the husband should have cut his coat according to his available material. I'm not disputing that money isn't necessary, O Yes it is. but shouldn't be a pre-requisite as such.

Blackett:
You and I both know it's a prerequisite.

When you say "cut your coat according to available material", what's the available material here?

Money!

delleby:


Like I said earlier, money is very necessary in marriage but using it as a prerequisite is what baffles me. However, its not possible for both parties not to have a source of income. Pls read my initial post about a sister of mine. The guy in question was actually well employed in a multinational company o.

delleby:
There's something called a scale of preference. If after explaining about a sister who got dumped by a guy who had a good job jst cos of not being gainfully employed and receiving a fat salary herself, all I can say is that its a pity. The lady herself is a graduate with prospects so y limit d requirements to having a job.