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Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Nobody: 12:50am On Jul 12, 2015
A lady around 27 years old nearly killed herself yesterday afternoon just because a male friend of hers invited her to his wedding.
On receiving the invitation she tried poisoning herself. But fortunately a friend came in when she was about to drink a poisonous substance and that was how her life was rescued. .

According to the lady she said that they used to be just friends and through out their friendship the guy never asked her out upon all the green lights she used to give to him. . #can you imagine this mumu . .

This dumb girl wants to kill herself because of a man. . Ok I asked the lady... why didn't you make your feelings known to him? . Since you've given him signals and he isn't responding, you only had two options
Which is:
1) is either you remove your mind from him and look for another person or

2) you approach him if you loves him that much. Or haven't you seen where a lady approached a guy? She couldn't reply me. . This lady wanted to kill herself over a guy that doesn't love her and doesn't even know she is having feelings for him. The worst part was that they where not even in a relationship, just friends. .

Infact I don't know how some women behave when it comes to choosing a partner nowadays. They just want to get married at all cost because of the society and age. . . Some will leave their current man who is still struggling to make things better for "them" to marry an already made man. And when you start having problems in your marriage you come out screaming all men are the same. .

If you at least use your head and use your eyes well you wouldn't meet the wrong men. . Please ladies, instead of looking for a man to marry you, use that time and look for a better job to enable u pay your bills. If a man comes... fine, if not then u live your life independently while you enjoy your money. . Marriage is not a gate way to heaven.
A lot of women would do anything to make a man put a ring in their finger...why? Because of what the society has to say. Some of you get married because of the society. Some rush into marriage because they don't want to be left out "after all their friends are getting married or already married." . African Mentality: A woman at 40 who isn't married is a failure. Who told you EVERYONE is going to marry? A single woman who lives fine and healthy is better than the married woman who her husband beats everyday.

My point is; If you want to get married get married because you have found the right one and not because age is no longer on your side thereby making u desperate or because people are going to mock you. Don't let what people say make you to make the wrong choice. The society won't be there with you in marriage o. . If you no marry dem go talk, if you marry and husband dey beat you dem go talk, if you no born dem go talk, if u born quick dem go talk, you born late dem go talk, you born only females dem go talk, you born males only dem go talk, you divorce dem go talk, you refuse to divorce to bear the beating and the emotional abuse dem go talk, you die in marriage dem go talk....they will come to your burial and eat rice and chicken when you are no more. .
And what happens next?
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LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU... .
The moment you start doing things because of YOU and not because of what people have to say the better for you. .

Good day ladies and gentlemen

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Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by stam101(m): 12:56am On Jul 12, 2015
That's the dream of every right thinking woman and besides which woman wants to remain single for life?
How she go do when rainy come?
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by LEvuls(m): 1:00am On Jul 12, 2015
Child bearing Tinz

















early to bed early to rise cheesy
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by cvibe2: 1:04am On Jul 12, 2015
ok
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by CUM4WHAT(m): 1:07am On Jul 12, 2015
LEvuls:
Child bearing Tinz

















early to bed early to rise cheesy
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Nobody: 1:07am On Jul 12, 2015
If that the o.p don reach to marry now,I would have dropped a comment. But as op still be jambite,lemme crossover to d next topic I see.


In other words o.p, ko kan e!
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by stam101(m): 1:16am On Jul 12, 2015
ahsekeena:
If that the o.p don reach to marry now,I would have dropped a comment. But as op still be jambite,lemme crossover to d next topic I see.


In other words o.p, ko kan e!


Settling down goes beyond facial look and being a jambite
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Beamborla(f): 1:28am On Jul 12, 2015
stam101:



Settling down goes beyond facial look and being a jambite
#rushes to check his profile# cheesy

You are not bad, either. Why not marry her?
Be a sisters keeper... make someone happy

I read somewhere that love is more of a decision and less of feeling grin


God bless you as you think this over and bless you more as you walk her down the aisle smiley
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by redsconsult(m): 2:02am On Jul 12, 2015
Beamborla:

#rushes to check his profile# cheesy

You are not bad, either. Why not marry her?
Be a sisters keeper... make someone happy

I read somewhere that love is more of a decision and less of feeling grin


God bless you as you think this over and bless you more as you walk her down the aisle smiley
bimbo u fyn no be small can u be ma friend
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by ayokellany: 3:25am On Jul 12, 2015
Beamborla:

#rushes to check his profile# cheesy
You are not bad, either. Why not marry her?
Be a sisters keeper... make someone happy

God bless you as you think this over and bless you more as you walk her down the aisle smiley

Ms you are a comedian.
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 12, 2015
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ahsekeena:
If that the o.p don reach to marry now,I would have dropped a comment. But as op still be jambite,lemme crossover to d next topic I see.


In other words o.p, ko kan e!
It doesn't concern u if m a jambite or not..Okay?
I posted wat I had exprienced.
M already a student in one a PRESTIGIOUS UNI.
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Beamborla(f): 11:24am On Jul 12, 2015
ayokellany:


Ms you are a comedian.
Mister, I'm beam.borla grin
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Beamborla(f): 11:25am On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
bimbo u fyn no be small can u be ma friend
What is the salad scale, pls
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Nobody: 11:29am On Jul 12, 2015
Donabydeco:

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It doesn't concern u if m a jambite or not..Okay?
I posted wat I had exprienced.
M already a student in one a PRESTIGIOUS UNI.



I'm just concerned that u are concerned about something that is none of ur business.



U are not eligible for marriage.




When its time to settle down,u simply pick a wife for urself. What's ur business?
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by tommychow(m): 11:55am On Jul 12, 2015
A few number of babes have fallen in love with me (wink) but they already set their minds on made men who are looking to settle down. Then it's a serious dilemma causethey know I can make them really happy (wink) but they wanna marry asap (angry).

That's my problem too cause I'm more drawn to women around my age; mature, outgoing and open about their feelings. Not young, childish, clingy, spoiled brats who are emotionally confusing and confused. Only good thing about them is, they not yet full blown gold diggers like females my age. Sweet yanz, swagger and your in.

OP, you should know all women live for society. They're weaker species and can't overcome social pressure.
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jul 12, 2015
ahsekeena:


I'm just concerned that u are concerned about something that is none of ur business.



U are not eligible for marriage.




When its time to settle down,u simply pick a wife for urself. What's ur business?

Okay ma.
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by redsconsult(m): 5:17pm On Jul 12, 2015
Beamborla:

What is the salad scale, pls
i resemble giogle
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by Beamborla(f): 6:51pm On Jul 12, 2015
redsconsult:
i resemble giogle
I meant to write salary not salad. pls, tell me the meaning of giogle
Re: Why Are (some) Women So Desperate To Get Married? The Thing Tire Me Oooo by redsconsult(m): 9:20pm On Jul 12, 2015
Beamborla:

I meant to write salary not salad. pls, tell me the meaning of giogle
ask google for the meaning

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