First and foremost, there are many 20+ girls who are still teens "mentally"- take your eyes off those balloons one minute- She is still a teen! Don't you get it?
She might lie about her age but...

Teens are officially humans from age 13-19. That phase seemed to have come at them unexpected and unprepared. That is observed the way they speak, comment, react and relate.

The stage kinda offers them the luxury of making choices, especially selfish ones.
I recently heard that the rate of selfishness among ladies and guys is like 5:3. I heard.

Therefore, most teenage guys quickly get past that selfishness perimeter, but ladies? Hmm!

The CRUX of the gist is the trace of that "my space", "me", "selfish", "my feelings", "my money" etc, time is very pronounced with a teenager and for some above 20. A thread like this will help you debunk if the chick is genuinely ripe or just "sun ripe", Lol! #so many sun ripe girls these days #

Aite...Let's highlight just seven...


1. How she relates with you is totally dependent on what her besties tell her.

This some times makes her indecisive and passive in her actions towards you. Today she tells you one thing, tomorrow, another. You can almost see a third party with a kid's gloves on.

2. She can't make any relationship work

She may profess how ready she is to make it work, but inside her is like a remote control, she just can't fit! At any slight disagreement in a "marriage-professed" relationship, she quickly walks away- returns to hibernate in "solo zone"!


3. A girl of excess fantasy with zero reality

I feel concerned when I see a "grown up" girl that should be seeing the part of Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift or Selena Gomez that has a dream and won't quit working until it achieves it. Instead, she decides to see the fancy and flexing part that wants to live in a mansion of gold with zero grey matter. I see!


4. Mexican Love movies often becloud her reasoning.


As earlier stated, she can be 30+, but if she thinks that the love story in those movies are real enough to inculcate it in her relationship, then; she is simply running on the Engine of a Teenager. The movies sef are even acted by teens! Hian!


5. At the early stage of your relationship, she frequently play simple and "naive" games to test your love for her.

Y'all know what y'all did... At least, before you ate the forbidden apple...


6. She dresses, makes up, walks, talks, speaks and acts like a "wannabee adult"

You can tell from her looks if you've got "the eye". I do not dispute the fact that there are many teens who negate this point. They are quite good, 75% good
On Naira land, you can decipher...


7. Highly Temperamental Displayed through Mood Swings At Important Moments


The funny thing is, she doesn't know why! You may call it snubbing you, ignoring your calls... All of these and more buttress my point.

There are just some things only age and maturity can bring.

Relationship is quite an adventure with her kind of partner in a boat.

I must add this, these young, inexperienced folks always think they're in love, especially with a much older guy. She is not for you guys to explore and deflower. If you snub my advice, what about Karma?

Why not let her go elsewhere or if you have the strength, you coach her aright?

Some of these teens sha...they're like Mamas! Abeg, run jare!

HNW!

Everyone of us was once a teenager so what's the big deal anyway ?

*singin* la la la la la la

Emusmith jur geh sense lyk two people..

super story

MsBliss:
Everyone of us was once a teenager so what's the big deal ?

and the point the op is trying to make is that you might still be one with the way you reason.

I guess every lady has one or two of this attitudes.

OmaBliss:
And those teenage girls will come here and bash d OP!

Lol. Are you one of them?

Princecalm:
and the point the op is trying to make is that you might still be one with the way you reason.

Who cares ??

ALKARULEZZ:
Emusmith jur geh sense lyk two people..

I hail thee, Oga!

MsBliss:

Who cares ??

don't make me to start believing you are one.

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NONSENSE

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mta003:
I guess every lady has one or two of this attitudes.

I know...Every guy has one or two attributes of girls but the difference...

emusmith:

I hail thee, Oga!

I prostrate give u bros

You go fear analysis

Just an educative thread, I dunno why it's causing a mayhem, internally and externally.

may01:
You go fear analysis

emusmith:

may01:

This one you dey smile so...you enjoy the thread?

emusmith:


This one you dey smile so...you enjoy the thread?

Yea, I just dey wait for the counter thread

may01:

Yea, I just dey wait for the counter thread

Lolz. I can imagine how "featherweight" the counter thread will be... NL girls, compose Counter thread? I hear!

emusmith:


Lolz. I can imagine how "featherweight" the counter thread will be... NL girls, compose Counter thread? I hear! :p

You'll eat your words soon

may01:

You'll eat your words soon

Hahaha...I'm hungry sef. I would love to regurgitate.

emusmith:


Hahaha...I'm hungry sef. I would love to regurgitate.

You just wait and see

Op, no be lie. You wldn't av said it better.
D points were spot on.thumbs up bro.

Dunno wen dey are gonna get sense.
D worst part is dat dey wanna marry so so early wit dia watery brain $ devilish attitude.
(Sole contributors to failure of modern day marriages)

#if person no mature shebi she go get gud attitude buh in dia own case.......

Mak God helep men ooo

may01:

You just wait and see

Olami90:
Op, no be lie. You wldn't av said it better.
D points were spot on.thumbs up bro.

Dunno wen dey are gonna get sense.
D worst part is dat dey wanna marry so so early wit dia watery brain $ devilish attitude.
(Sole contributors to failure of modern day marriages)

#if person no mature shebi she go get gud attitude buh in dia own case.......

Mak God helep men ooo

lol, bro...you harsh o

tosyne2much:
Emusmith, where art thou ?



You still dey dis country ?

lol as in eh.. D guy don disappear... Miss his frontpage topics... Nairaland is becomin more crazy