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Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Richy4(m): 1:40pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Op you knew a lot about this your friend. Haba!!!! Anyways the standard of living might differ in some state i guess. So if you think the amount will sustain your friend and the girl,( oh and don't forget the baby might show up next year and it could be twins.) by all means go for it. But don't let your friend to be in a rush and do something he might regret tomorrow. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
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Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 1:42pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
free2ryhme: He is actually working in Lagos at present: VI to be precise. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Lagos is not a "friendly" environment to start a family if your 'pocket' is not buoyant enough. In other words, your friend should look very well before leaping. A contract staff with just 600 thousand naira should not be too quick to add more responsibilities on his shoulders unless he has other sources of income. 2 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by pickabeau1: 1:43pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by fowowe411: 1:44pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
bigv:You don't come online and start venting your frustrations on others.. If you can't advice then just pass..... Kids on nairaland these days 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
devour129:WHY |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by gonzaga: 1:45pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
"He is 32 years of age now, and he is in love with a lady of 26 who was her junior while in Polytechnic." This line sounds like a comment a graduate from Ire poly would make...lol |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by freeage7(m): 1:46pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Hmm! Na u abi na ur friend? I smell foul play, anyway dats ur wahala. Tell him to wait till d 600k turn 600million, better still 6billion. With 6billion in his account, the likes of Dangote, Otedola, ifeanyi uba, Elumelu, Asari Dokubo, Ayiri, Bola Tinubu and the rest billionaires will attend the wedding. Afterward he can visit the moon for his honeymoon. Wetin u think? 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by budav4fem: 1:46pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
he should work for 3-6 month,during that process he should get his own apartment flourish it and start to plan for his marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Sweetlemon(f): 1:47pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
The guy has good prospects. That's the most important thing. Let him sha just get decent accommodation first. 2 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 1:47pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
bigiyaro: |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 1:49pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Abugab: You are right. 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by yorubadelta(f): 1:51pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
africanusvu: |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by demiawise(m): 1:52pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
jaybee3:thanks |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by adonbilivit: 1:52pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
amnesty7:who does that? if his dad had waited to be wealthy before getting married he(the op) would have still been In primary school. he should be fair to his dad na...I am sure the old man wants to see his grandchildren |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by abbey621(m): 1:53pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
This is simple, marry someone who has a job! Your salary alone is not enough to take care of a family so do the smart thing and marry someone that's an asset and not a liability. Forget about the crap about love, love comes and goes, trust me you don't want to marry a liability! 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 1:54pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
devour129: Why? |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: Lol. Now I know it's you , admit Already! |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by benjaminiyke(m): 1:55pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Abugab:Seconded! The poster should comply with your advice. Marriage should be all about compatibility,understanding and communication...forget love,even that fades away. Your comment is very helpful. 2 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by free2ryhme: 1:59pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: He shld rent an apartment first then he shld tell you what he has left to pursue the wedding 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by demiawise(m): 1:59pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
benjaminiyke:3rdconded lol. Nice advice man, I love your opinion. God bless you. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by DocHMD: 2:00pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Is that child really yours? A Peace of Mind DNA test will tell you the truth. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 2:00pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Eyekandi: Imagine! if it is me and I come here online, will I be crucified for that? Remember, this is anonymous site, I can never be ashamed of airing my situation online. Who knows, whether I am the one sitting besides you or even your younger brother? The situation is as real as death |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Koolking(m): 2:03pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: BTW, Op, this is you, not any friend. If it's not you directly, then you are in the same predicament with the original writer. That makes this thread C&P. Marriage is a mean to an end, not all there is in life. Marriage is not fulfillment and happiness. These are choices that are within us. For a dude who work hard to save N600k without accommodation (privacy) of his own, then the dude is immature and the thought of marriage is a misplaced priority. The picture you painted approves that you are still living under your parents and are confined to whims and caprices of parenting. Leave marriage for now and concentrate on your career until you are matured to marriage. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: Lol, well, I've read some good advice here and he sounds like a sensible man, so let him read and Goodluck to him |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by namdo(m): 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Nnaaaa you are right. if you must marry now it must be nwa ji kwa small- it is best. Otherwise further first but try and get it done before age 36. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
It is. You just need to have a multiple stream of income. And a determined xter.. What's 5million kwanu?? 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by anukulapo: 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm:While it is good to look before one leaps, he can't be too sure that he'll be able to sustain anything. No! not even assured of life itself. If he waits long enough and eventually gets what he wants (employed partner and more money for himself) let's say at age 39, does he think that life will wait for him? Him go see say old age no easy to train children. He will surely regret not having children earlier by that time (especially after he understood that money would have come anyways). 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by efonat(m): 2:07pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
[size=30pt]Bros u dey go far o. Ask am how much be pampas and baby food alone.[/size] Yomieluv: |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 2:08pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Koolking: So at 32, he is not ripe for marriage in your own thinking? If you know how many calls I receive from his parents especially his mother per week you wont be saying this. However, if I am the one and I post it online, will I be crucified? I will never hesitate to post anything bothering my mind online because nobody knows my username except from me. I am here to source for better way of advising the guy: he is older than me and I believe he is ripe for marriage. From previous comments, I have even seen two nairalanders who claimed they are in the same shoe personally. You can drop better suggestion if you have any. 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nicepoker(m): 2:10pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
gabazin080:u will be banned for life soon. |
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