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Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by bigv(m): 2:11pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Hehe, you just exhibited a character trait of a kid. Just imagine. How old are you? 32? fowowe411: 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by zubbynize(m): 2:19pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
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Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Koolking(m): 2:20pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: At 32 years he does not have an accommodation of his own but has N600k in his account, perhaps to pursue his career. Right now he is either squatting with friends or living with parents/relatives who provide for his wants and needs. Maturity shows responsibility. Ability to pay your bills. Sometimes lending a hand to younger ones or extended family. This automatically prepares us to the demands of building our own homes. If he's a guy with the sole responsibilities to his survival, N600k is nothing after 30 calendars to get another pay check. Marriage at this stage will compound his problem. Let him be. You don't take a horse to the river and forces it to drink. Your advice will mean nothing if he has the conviction that he is not ready. 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by abbeyty(m): 2:25pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
All these kids saying 600k is too small haven't saved 10k of their own b4 ohh. Guy you can still get married with your stable salary but dont start having kid like a pig 4 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm:build the house first n marry b4 u r 38yrs.Dont fall for that marriage thing now! When u marry now b4 building dat house, possibility dey say that Eve or Sarah fit give u wrong advice. Try build that house quick b4 u start feeling lonely like Adam lol |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 2:27pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Koolking: Right now, he is staying at mini-flat with one of his school mates: whether they joined money together or not to pay rent, that is what I don't know. although his current salary is 115k or more, but one of the things that baffles me much is that he always claim he can't use his hard-earned money to settle for any relationship at this time: he said he prefer to leave a better children behind to the world when he is gone than leaving a better world for his children when he is gone. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Spells(m): 2:30pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Op since ur friend is old enough to f*ck, u n him are old enough to knw dat nobody gives a f*ck, una wahala na una own oh |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 2:32pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Spells: He is my 'senior friend' though, but remember, nobody is an island of knowledge. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by 2goodbobo(m): 2:36pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Why take panadol for for headache your friend don't even have? he said he is not ready to marry get until the girl is gainfully employ. you can come seek for advice when he tells you he is ready to marry. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by fromnigeria(m): 2:38pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
. boboLIL: |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by gabazin080(m): 2:40pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Nicepoker:coward like you. do I look like I care or fear being banned afterall have got a better life offline unlike you that your life is based upon nairaland. That's why you don't speak the truth because you fear getting banned |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by fromnigeria(m): 2:43pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
You have spoken well, More worse is the fact he has not even gotten any reasonable advice so far. bigv: 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 2:51pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
jaybee3: You mean he should be 35 before getting married? From the look of thing, her mother is not helping the matter. The worst part of it is that anytime the guy refused to pick her call, my line is the next, only for her to be putting pressure on me to convince her son to get married. The scenario is really frustrating me ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nicepoker(m): 2:54pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
gabazin080:even a simple joke can't get down well on u. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by jaybee3(m): 2:57pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: I wouldn't want to get into using an age baseline approach since circumstances will always be different. The major reason why most men marry early is so they don't feel pressure to continue working to support their family at later stages of their lives. Marriage is an individual thing and one needs to feel ready before venturing into it He needs to be mentally and financially ready to take that life changing decision. The mum is not going to be the one in the marriage so it's best if she takes a chill pill. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by laudable: 3:01pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Your friend is out of his mind, a man of his calibal without a wife is incomplete and not wise, means he is very stingy cos he wants his wife to struggle too to support the marriage. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by lharstborn(m): 3:02pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: Dude..me thinks your friend friend should: 1. Delay getting married for at least a year (he will be 33 by then) 2. Within that one year break,he should get his own place,(a decent mini-flat in a decent area will do),furnish it up to a moderate level(rushing up an apartment no be moin-moin o,especially in Lagos). 3. Encourage and assist his gal to finish her schooling and fashion designing training,and if need be go for her NYSC(during this period she would av maybe gotten a clientele base who will be patronizing her,that's an added advantage as means of income is now doubled when they both eventually settle down). Parting shot..its imperative your friends know that whether he's very okay financially or not,marriage involves the grace of the Almighty,if the gal is truly his missing rib,once they get married every other issue will fall into place..but they can only fall into place when the necessary parameters are met i.e shelter,feeding,financial comfort. Goodluck to your friend!! 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by elilistic(m): 3:02pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Y in a hurry, 32 is stil a baby, u ar supoz 2 stil b under ur parents. Y on earth wil u think of setlin down with jst 600k? Try n wait till 50yrs at least by den d moni must increased 2 600m 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by dapotemi: 3:03pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Well Mr OP,you are a very ambitions man..Everything you have achieved within two years shows that you are a very prudent manager of resources.I know people who earns more than that and yet nothing to show for it except booze and clubbing..Now take a leap of faith,you can actually settle down (depending on the kind of woman u want to marry),if she's understanding,prudent and hardworking/smart.I'm glad u love her,you actually need alot of that to overlook alot of her shortcomings..Even if you wait till 40 years,u might not even have up to a million naira in ur acct..From experience,alot of people who married late usually regret they do,imagine a 60 years old man still having kids writing junior waec..What about the uncertainty,you think Nig will be better tomorrow,FORGET IT! Have a strategic plan of one year,frm your 115k per month u can save another 800k if marriage is WHAT YOU WANT!By feb next year,get an apartment (you DONT need a two-bedroom flat,the other room will be empty nd ure indirectly inviting squatters which u dont need for now.Go for a mini flat,its just you and your wifey and even with a baby you're still good to go).By july next year,settle down..Just Plan,time wait for no one...You might never be Dangote!GEJ said something during his sentforth party from aso-rock and i quote "Those happy people you see out there are not necessarily the richest"..most importantly,talk to God,he will direct your steps...#Peace #TeamExperience 6 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by hedonistic: 3:06pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
To be a man is not a small something oh. May God open our eyes to see that there is unlimited riches floating about in the air around us. All these pakoro scrounging for peanuts is not what life should be all about. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by gabazin080(m): 3:06pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Nicepoker:alright. Sorry bro. am just angry because I returned from a week ban this noon. so I don't like to hear jokes or wanting to be friendly with the mods again. Hope we are cool now. Cheers |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by kennytidistar(m): 3:09pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
he doesn't need money to marry fact number 1 since he is gainfully employed and has a well paid job and his to be wife is learned as well, if truly he is a good manager, let me set his wife up and manage her and he fashion dream, he might be surprise he will have no reason to earn salary again if he is really brilliant as you claim fact number 2 if he truly love the lady and plan to marry her why wait for her to get a salary scale job? is he the owner of the company he is working with presently? confused people called themselves brilliant plenty for naija. 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Ephemmm: 3:09pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
dapotemi: Good! This is one of the most versatile responses I have read on this subject matter so far. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by jashar(f): 3:10pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Na lie jor. No be money hook am. E no like the girl. 600k is more than enough to get married. Work on your budget and stick to it. People that earn less are happily married and leaving their lives. 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Nicepoker(m): 3:12pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
gabazin080:no probs bro. The funny thing is that. When u get banned that's when u can come out with the best comment on every topic that make FP. |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by damilareoye: 3:20pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
you mean 600k? ... even, 200k worth are settling down. 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Koolking(m): 3:20pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ephemmm: He knows what he wants. He is not commiting any crime by avoiding marriage at 32. Maturity is also doing things at your volition and convictions, not necessarily being talked to |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by laudate: 3:24pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
zicoraads: Guys, read the post again. Nothing stops the chap from renting a house and living there. This is someone that has bought 2 plots of land already in Osogbo. He already has a job, too. He is earning over 100k. There are people who earn less than that and are already married with a stable family. So what is he waiting for? He also has 600k in his account. He obviously does not love the babe. He only loves her capacity to earn money. Ok, if she gets a job now, and they get married.... does it mean he will divorce her, if she loses her job? Or if the organisation she is working for, decides to fold up or declare bankruptcy? ![]() N.B; This is a girl that is already doing fashion design courses oh. I am sure she will be able to fend for herself using that skill, if she is hardworking and determined. bigv: Bros, you are too correct. This your response is one of the best that I have read so far, on this thread. Abeg, collect one bowl of 'isi-ewu' and one chilled bottle over there. The drinks are all on me! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by VickyRotex(f): 3:24pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
eleko1: Be like sey you wan chop pankere this afternoon ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by laudate: 3:25pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
dapotemi: Thank you, jare! Your comments are one of the most sensible ones I have read in a long time! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by Chibby90: 3:31pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Op ar u sure ur frnd was nt that guy that won who want to be a millionaire last nite, |
Re: With 600k, Should He Settle Down For Marriage At The Age Of 32? by abiola708(m): 3:39pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
dapotemi:BEST RESPONSE EVER READ SO FAR.......LEARN ALOT FRM DIS POST (Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass.....its about learning how to dance in the rain) 1 Like |
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