Phboy1:
I am a 33 years unemployed graduate and i have a girlfriend of 32 years and we have been dating for 3 years now. She is putting pressure on me to marry her and i have just yielded to her pressure by putting the wedding for next month. I m really scared if love is enough to keep our marriage since both of us are unemployed at the moment and i m just managing a room accommodation. some months i earn upto 15k from sale of shoes while some months i dont get upto 3k as earning and this money can hardly sustain me as a bachelor let alone getting a wife. please i need your candid advise so that i dont make the mistake of my life.

JeffreyJamez:
It's a dicy situation.... but me thinks that if she agreed to marry you knowing your circumstance, [s]then she truly loves you and wants to be with you no matter.....
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...but then again....32?..........bleh!!

EggovinMma:
O Lord! Desperation at its peak! Seriously, what's the fun in staying unemployed and not doing anything? As a woman, hungry no go fit catch me oooooooooooooo. FOR WHERE? To fry akara dey To sell moi moi dey To sell food fir market dey To sell fruits dey To carry OKIRIKA dey Ti move from hostel to hostel sell womens stuff still dey.


NA 8 NL LAZY GURLS NO GET MONEY AT ALL .

armyofone:
Love is never enough. Put that marriage on hold and get a job, both of you.
Work/job first before marriage.

Dyt:
The woman nagging you now for marriage will nag you out of it but who knows
That might be your break through

Bobo
I no no oo
I can't even relate with your problems at all
Cos when I was jobless, the least I had on mind was never a relationship not to talk of marriage

O boy
The Lord is in your case

raayah:
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you can both go to court or church to get married. No spending. Just you and your girlfriend. She is aware of your situation and still wants to marry you. Do it the easy way and cheap way.

She will come to live with you and maybe you can work find jobs together.

The only advice i have is for you not to have kids until you are financially stable. You dont want to bring your kid into this world to suffer.

Adufetohposh:
There is no way they won't have kids, d lady @ 32 is desperate to be a mum hence her reason for pushing for marriage despite knowing the guy is not financially stable!



Op frustration will set in, Regrets and all.... But I'm not GOD so I can't tell d future, but I will advise u to get a job first.

Tallesty1:
33 and unemployed Like seriously are you waiting for manna to fall from heaven??

Forget marriage now if u don't wanna die of frustration.


Go out and get busy bro.

Phboy1:
I am a 33 years unemployed graduate and i have a girlfriend of 32 years and we have been dating for 3 years now. She is putting pressure on me to marry her and i have just yielded to her pressure by putting the wedding for next month. I m really scared if love is enough to keep our marriage since both of us are unemployed at the moment and i m just managing a room accommodation. some months i earn upto 15k from sale of shoes while some months i dont get upto 3k as earning and this money can hardly sustain me as a bachelor let alone getting a wife. please i need your candid advise so that i dont make the mistake of my life.