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How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Have you ever experienced any of these fears when
you want to approach a girl...
Fear of rejection.
Fear of embarrassment.
Fear of the unknown.
Fear of what the girl might do if we start talking
to her.
Fear of admitting that you're AFRAID.
...and about 100 other fears when you have to talk
to a girl.
But, what exactly IS fear?
And why is it such a problem?
And what can be done to overcome it?
Well, let's start with what fear is, then we'll
move on to some techniques to get past
I once heard a great definition of FEAR: False
Evidence Appearing Real
In other words, the things that you feel fear
about are usually not real. It's usually just
"false evidence".
You also might think back about the last 10 things
you felt fear around. Now, ask yourself... Did any
of those things come through
In most of the cases, you'll find that the fear
did NOT come true.
I heard once that something like 98% of the things
that people fear and worry about never come true.
I've found this to be true in my own life as well.
Fear is an emotion, or an emotional state. It's an
amazing and wonderful emotion... cos it can help
save your life in certain situations.
At times you just need powerful, motivating
emotions like FEAR to help you buckle up and
overcome challenges.
When you feel fear (especially if it's a response
to real physical danger) you'll notice that some
AMAZING things happen.
Your eyes open up wider so you can see better.
Adrenaline pumps into your body. Your heart beats
fast to deliver blood to your muscles. And some
other processes like that are triggered.
The PROBLEM is when you experience fear at times
when there IS NO real physical danger. You know it's quite possible for us to imagine things and create mental images that aren't really there. And I'm sure you know exactly what the problem is with this... it can IMMOBILIZE you at critical times. Have you ever seen a girl that you'd like to meet, but you just couldn't walk over and start talking to her? What was the problem? Usually, it's fear. Fear that she'll get upset, or fear that she'll have a boyfriend... or fear that she'll embarrass you in front of others... or fear that you won't know what to say to her... And, of course, when you feel that strong fear emotion, it just FREEZES you and makes you totally ineffective. So, what's the solution? Well, there are several ways to overcome fears. One way is to do the thing you fear. If you do the thing that you fear, and see that nothing bad will happen, then you eventually overcome it and become programmed not to feel fear anymore. For instance, if you're afraid to approach women and talk to them, I would say... just DO IT. Go talk to at least 1 girl today and see if she will respond to you negatively (if you don't act stupid and do it the way I teach.) Other ways to overcome your fear when it comes to approaching women include: - Learning how a woman actually thinks. - Learning how to approach girls using the same types of words and body language confident guys use. - Learning how to use subtle, unobtrusive skills to attract and captivate women. - Using mental preparation to be completely ready for anything that might happen. ...and there are several others. I have spent a lot of time in my own personal life learning about and figuring out how to get past these fears and other psychological obstacles with women. |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by ibrams(m): 10:02pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by naijaboiy: 10:02pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ok. |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Ajambele |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by kennboiy(m): 10:10pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
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Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Princecalm(m): 10:16pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
even the fear you are writing a ten paged article about won't make people to read this and that is to say 1 of every 10 people that view this thread will read till the end. |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Cutehector(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Hector u can do this mehn.... Ur d man! Yes I am the man ![]() Hey zealot4me ![]() |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by missbehave247(m): 10:36pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Be very careful about heartbreak, cause I know it will be ur next. "How to overcome heartbreak" |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by DrObum(m): 11:30pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
Why long posts full NL these days ![]() Na project proposal ![]() |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by stam101(m): 11:34pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
People are looking for ways to create ideas and make money,u are here teaching us how to overcome fear of women when we can actually have a thousand of dem with money. U no know women? 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by amakabaybee(f): 1:01am On Jul 14, 2015 |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Cutehector(m): 1:04am On Jul 14, 2015 |
amakabaybee:lolz... Yo.. I like dats smile.. Wats good |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Nobody: 1:16am On Jul 14, 2015 |
wooooooos ![]() |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by amakabaybee(f): 1:17am On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: You haven't slept? |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Cutehector(m): 1:18am On Jul 14, 2015 |
amakabaybee:naah I hvnt shexhawt... Am kinda coding... Dd u get my mail? |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Nobody: 1:21am On Jul 14, 2015 |
@op, why all this long post? When you make money, all this "approaching girls" talk shall be a thing of the past 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by amakabaybee(f): 1:21am On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: No No No.... Shez hawt is history... I always hated that moniker.... Btw you're derailing... |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Cutehector(m): 1:23am On Jul 14, 2015 |
amakabaybee:jeex ok can we go to derailers paradise please... Wana knw why u deactivated.. |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Cholls(m): 1:46am On Jul 14, 2015 |
my brother how can i approach money abeg help me bcuz those yeye girlz dey smell moni like a dectective dogs. |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Lawalsuleiman(m): 3:34am On Jul 14, 2015 |
feel the fear and do it anyway |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by kazmanbanjoko(m): 6:15am On Jul 14, 2015 |
Kk 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by devonpaul(m): 6:32am On Jul 14, 2015 |
stam101:The obsession about Women largely being impressed by money is myopical. Its a poor orientation. There are wife of rich guys who elope with hustlers. Truth is having money to splash on women works but then, if other ingredients are lacking, she"ll basically look for it elsewhere even if it comes from the shoe cobbler next street. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Ojim07(m): 6:37am On Jul 14, 2015 |
!Money z my language now and nt galz lolx |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by stam101(m): 3:57pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
devonpaul:u dey on point broda |
Re: How To Overcome Fear Of Girls by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
stam101: Soro niyen, oya mi lenu
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