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6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by pressy09: 1:15pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Anybody who tells you that life won't change after you get married is lying... or they've never been married. Even if you've been living together for a couple of years, things change after the honeymoon. The first year of marriage can be hard, but if you know what to expect and you're prepared for it, it's a lot easier to tackle and enjoy. Here are a few changes you can definitely expect: 1. Your friendships You relationships with your girlfriends will change — especially if you're first in your crew to get married. 2. Your privacy expectations You may have to ask some friends to give you back their copies of your keys and tell your besties not to flop on your bed or dig through your drawers, even if they've been doing it for 15 years. 3. Holiday season Holiday plans are no longer assumed and may become more of a negotiation. You'll probably find yourself hosting more of them at your house in order to include everyone and keep the peace. For many couples, the first Thanksgiving and Christmas are political quagmires. 4. Your spending habits No more shopping on a whim for expensive items, you'll have to coordinate all of your financial matters as a couple. There will have to be a budget (hopefully a somewhat flexible one) and you have to be completely honest about your spending with each other. 5. Your bank accounts You're not financially "independent" anymore — you're half of a couple. You need to create a joint checking account and put each other on all of each other's accounts, not forgetting to change beneficiaries on existing paperwork at your office and financial institutions. You have to establish a savings plan and financial goals. 6. Your schedule Hopefully, the two of you are sharing household chores and responsibilities, but whether it's work or play, you'll be spending more time together. And you have two families you're obligated to spend time with and professional obligations you must attend as a couple. Even if you've been together awhile, how much time these things consume will double. Owner of Weddings in Vieques, a destination-wedding planning company off the coast of Puerto Rico, Sandy Malone has helped countless couples plan their big day since 2007. -Source:www.familyparliament.com |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 1:20pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
I just pray my future wife won't be telln me to close my eyes wen she wants to change or go hide in d bathroom to wear her cloth... 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by pressy09: 3:31pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Even if she say so,that will only be for the first night on your wedding day. Cutehector: |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
pressy09:dah wouldn't be cool... Sex will just be very awkward... |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 3:52pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: Lol so u wan see everything from the beginning? |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 3:54pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
MsBliss:she is my wife for cryn out loud! Why d heck won't she be confortable bein naked in front of me... |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by blackjack21(m): 3:58pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: So you're not intending to marry you GF? 15:58:18 Tue, Jul 14, 2015 |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 4:07pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
blackjack21:trust me. Any girl dat I will call my girlfrnd, I shall marry her.. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: She might act like that at first but aftEr a while she'll just get tiRed, she won't even know when She begins to walk around the house naked. |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by falconey(m): 4:09pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 4:12pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Ebiz12:abi.. A gurl I used to knw told me me likes walkn around her house naked ... Maybe sometimes in bra nd pants only |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 4:19pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
falconey:Patience is a virtue . |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 4:21pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:Nobi still you go see everything all through una married years? |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by blackjack21(m): 4:24pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector: OK. |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 4:26pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
MsBliss:na still me na... Who wan see am before Den wen we are all very old and usin walkin stick to walk, there will be sagged chests, wrinkled face, sagged flat bweasts, wrinkled skin.. Loool we will stay in our diferent rooms |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 4:33pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:Stay in which different room? Lialia o we must stay in the same room by fire by force. I no go gree make that one happen o |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 4:34pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
MsBliss:lol... It just happens.. |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 4:39pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:So after you Dan see all the fresh ones finish, who you leave d wrinkled once for? |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 4:47pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
MsBliss:lol sometimes I use to think wether grand papas and grand mamas do hav sex.. |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Alexas58: 5:38pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Will coment wen it reaches ftc |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:33pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:Lol Why don't you ask Granny ? |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Cutehector(m): 7:35pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
MsBliss:hahahaha ur nutty... |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by wisdomiskey(m): 7:35pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
freecocoa doesn't nid to worri about all dis coz sheeel nevva get married. Nobody wants an old fat cargo |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by b3llo(m): 8:54pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
They both will gain weight after Marriage. |
Re: 6 Things That Will Change After You Get Married by Nobody: 5:49am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Now I know |
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