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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by valentboy: 7:03pm On Jul 14, 2015
tongue grin This film was directed by who?
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by maureen546: 7:03pm On Jul 14, 2015
Super story

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by 240naija(m): 7:04pm On Jul 14, 2015
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Atlantian: 7:05pm On Jul 14, 2015
Oil & Gas firm as in Palm Oil and Cooking Gas selling shop ?

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by valencia25(m): 7:05pm On Jul 14, 2015
Let them continue to select na.







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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jul 14, 2015
sonofananimal1:
grin grin I KNOW YOU MUST OPEN THAT SMELLING MOUTH OF YOURS.

JUST ONLY 1 SO FAR
And you are this miserable? Continue misbehaving. By the time the mumu that is dating you opens her eyes and dumps your unproductive a$$, boko haram go receive your cv.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Princephelar(m): 7:07pm On Jul 14, 2015
Leave dem ooooo. Na dem tym. To ba wa ya dem go dey holla online say make dem fix dem up...


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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:09pm On Jul 14, 2015
humilitypays:
Very true all what u said but still bro, we need to pity and pray for our sisters too cos its not easy for them to make that decision.

You know, so many guys appear to be men of vision but they see nothing at the end, so don't blame the ladies at timescheesycheesy

I am sure if ladies can see d future of guy, they won't mind dating that dirty, ugly broke guy walking the street today destined to be great tomorogringrin

And what if the vision never materializes? was she married to the guy or his possible success? Are theer not ladies of great achievements whose husbands are never even rich?

What defines success in life?is it the amount of cash in bank or the fulfilled career? Those who changed the world with ideas,and inventions were not rich and i guess a typical Nigerian lady would have given up the founder of coca cola,Dangote when he started with selling sugar and salt in small scale and bill gate will not appeal to Nigerian ladies especially when he dropped out.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 14, 2015
koyyes:

And you are this miserable? Continue misbehaving. By the time the mumu that is dating you opens her eyes and dumps your unproductive a$$, boko haram go receive your cv.
simple question: you dey frustrated?

Yes or no, simple.

She can't dump me now,
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Youngpo413: 7:10pm On Jul 14, 2015
ashmanpolo:

True life story bro
what a coincidence.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by activelyA(f): 7:16pm On Jul 14, 2015
She is just being d girl dat she is
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:18pm On Jul 14, 2015
Atlantian:
Oil & Gas firm as in Palm Oil and Cooking Gas selling shop ?

Lol don't mind them,that is why many men fool them.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:24pm On Jul 14, 2015
Dindondin:

They are girls without perseverance.
They don't qualify to be a girlfriend not to talk of wife. They lack perseverance in everything. even when they marry rich men, any small challenge ll show their true colour

very right my friend.

The unfortunate part is that even if the ones who claim they can cope gets into an affair with you,they will virtually make you drop your vision to start looking for a paid job.This was why i wrote this sometime ago.

Blame it on the ladies


This title leaves so much to ponder over and what exactly are we blaming on the ladies?

Do you know that ladies should take the blame for the low drive in our Nigerian
men?

Do you know that an average Nigerian lady would rather prefer to marry a man who is an employee of a “well established” company rather than to say yes I do to a man who is still struggling to be an employer of labor.

It is amazing how an average Nigerian lady will go all out to kill the zeal of a young and promising entrepreneur simply because of the fear of the unseen,she will advice him to take up a job just because she is more interested in having the assurance that there is a regular in-flow of
cash either for her selfish gains or for the sake of the children.

Ok I guess you will be saying in your mind ”this guy don come again” so do me this favor and lets do this real life testing..

If you are a guy who is still searching for job simply call your lady on the phone and tell her “honey wow! guess what? I have gotten a business idea I want to start” and please observe her response.

Wait for another week and call her again but this time say “Honey you won’t believe I got a good job” and also observe her response.

And for those who are already working,simply call your lady and tell her “honey I have decided to quit my job to start my personal business” ..i am almost certain you are in for a long sermon on why you should not.

Some ladies are even kind enough to ask you to get a job first then probably raise the money for the business as though they are so certain that all the money you earn monthly from the hopeful job will be saved for your intending business and unfortunately by the time you start a job
you intend spending just few years,you will wake up after 20years to discover you are still stuck up in same job because the employers we have are pretty smart enough not to allow you space for yourself and you will even have to lie in order to attend an interview for another job offer.

Please don’t get it twisted…as a man,there is absolutely nothing wrong in taking up a job if that is what rocks your boat but I am simply laying emphases on some Nigerian ladies who lack vision,those who are mediocre and those who just believe that getting by is more important in life
than attaining a potential maximum IN YOUR CHOSEN CAREER.

Our ladies must understand that just as we have men who are ok with a paid jobs and depend on the employer to gain promotion and more take home pay,we also have men who are visionary,men who would rather want to be an employer of labor rather than be an employee,men
who will stop at nothing to achieve their dreams and men who will later become the Dangotes and bill gates of today and eventually become a owner of a company many see today as well established.

I have seen ladies leaving their relationships and marriages simply the man in question made it a duty to pursue his dreams rather than bow to the pressure of looking for a paid job and such men have been tagged stagnant,lazy,visioness by the women in their lives while the men who work in blue chip companies or “well established companies” are seen as the real deal,the hard-workers and the ones who are truly ready to raise a family and more absurd is the fact that many married ladies will not even mind leaving their marriage to be carried away by men with regular paid jobs.

The unfortunate fact most Nigerian ladies fail to understand is this…A man of vision will always achieve his goals in the long run and only death can stop such and if you take everything away from a man of vision, he will always rise again.

Another man on the other hand might just be lucky to be employed in a well established organization but unfortunately,if such job is lost,the lady
will be left with the stark reality that this guy is only the type who must get a job at all cost before his family survives and will not mind just any job just to get stipends to bring home to the family.

This is my point ladies…the choice remains yours but please do not stress our men who are visionary,determined and result oriented. Allow them pursue their dreams.Get a life for yourself,get financially independent and allow this man space to actualize his dreams.

As for the man, just as I wrote,there is absolutely nothing wrong if getting a job is your passion,go ahead and reach the zenith of your careers.

But for those who are determined to be employers of labor or self sufficient,please do not allow any woman talk down on you or make you dump your dreams but no matter how long you persist in achieving your dreams,you must realize that you must also have somethingdoing that pays the bills no matter how small it is.

My candid view.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by daben1(m): 7:24pm On Jul 14, 2015
ashmanpolo:
Some Corpers around my area passed out like two weeks back so I was at one of my Favourite Pool side, chilling out that day. I started conversing with one of the Corpers. The first thing she asked me was, "where do you work?" see Jamb question.

Firstly, I wasn't even thinking of wooing this bae cos she got a bracelet on her left leg and that's a huge turn-off for me.

I told her I was an applicant, still job-hunting. Next thing this girl started advising me to focus on my job-hunting and stop toasting girls. That she's not in for jobless guys like me for now. I just taya.
Okay I told her to give me her number to at least get more counselling, "for where?" The girl messed me up 'jakajaka'

This morning, I saw her in front of our company gate, a popular Oil and Gas firm. She was holding a CV and she was so wowed. She was like "what are you doing here?" I work here
"Jesus, for how long now?" Seven years.
"But...."
I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"

big bro! Please can i get a place for my I.T in the company? I'm studying geology, thanks.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by DJEhimond(m): 7:25pm On Jul 14, 2015
OP should have writtten 0 to 9 and tell her to unscrambled it. Lots of them out there. Stewpid pests!
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 14, 2015
Lolz thunder break your waist, where this idiot from come sef, oloriburuku,u actually have nothing 2say other than admiring ma pix, anyways ure just showing yourr level of stupidity...and acting like your foolishness is a virtue I don't argue with idiots they'll just lower me to their level next time try come up with something meaningful....don't try quoting me again
sonofananimal1:
BY THE LOOK OF THINGS.

HE BE LIKE SAY YOU BE BROKE GIRL, SEE YOUR CLOTH AND SLIPPERS, SHOE WERE MECHANIC DONE REPAIR FINISH.

GO THROWAWAY THAT SHOE JORR
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by daben1(m): 7:26pm On Jul 14, 2015
Sassybae:
Lolz.....chei op can lie....sounds more like one of those nollywood movies sha
if it's true now, you'll start praying to be his baby mama... smiley
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jul 14, 2015
Lolz yu be mumu, go look 4something sane to say nd stop sounding like a madman here....don't quote me again
wtfCode:

now u're sounding like a seriously broke bit.ch.
I quoted cuz u're one of them lazy gals...sassy my foot!
Bae ko bae ni...mtcheew.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by DECOtech(m): 7:31pm On Jul 14, 2015
ashmanpolo:

I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"


God will continue to bless you.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jul 14, 2015
Lolz grin
daben1:
if it's true now, you'll start praying to be his baby mama... smiley
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jul 14, 2015
Sassybae:
Lolz thunder break your waist, where this idiot from come sef, oloriburuku,u actually have nothing 2say other than admiring ma pix, anyways ure just showing yourr level of stupidity...and acting like your foolishness is a virtue I don't argue with idiots they'll just lower me to their level next time try come up with something meaningful....don't try quoting me again

grin grin LOLZ. I DON JAM PURE ORISIRIS GIRL,

CALM DOWN grin grin

NO VEX, I JUST DEY ADMIRE HOW YOU UGLY REACH LIKE THAT. grin grin

MEN! YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLY UGLY

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Jarus(m): 7:35pm On Jul 14, 2015
ashmanpolo:
Some Corpers around my area passed out like two weeks back so I was at one of my Favourite Pool side, chilling out that day. I started conversing with one of the Corpers. The first thing she asked me was, "where do you work?" see Jamb question.

Firstly, I wasn't even thinking of wooing this bae cos she got a bracelet on her left leg and that's a huge turn-off for me.

I told her I was an applicant, still job-hunting. Next thing this girl started advising me to focus on my job-hunting and stop toasting girls. That she's not in for jobless guys like me for now. I just taya.
Okay I told her to give me her number to at least get more counselling, "for where?" The girl messed me up 'jakajaka'

This morning, I saw her in front of our company gate, a popular Oil and Gas firm. She was holding a CV and she was so wowed. She was like "what are you doing here?" I work here
"Jesus, for how long now?" Seven years.
"But...."
I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"




The story looks made up, I must confess.

Reasons:

1, People hardly go around in hard copy CVs again, especially for an oil company.
2, The co-incidences appear too precise to be true.

But it is not impossible it is true.

However, the substance is not lost. It is very annoying when ladies think you want to toast them at every talk initiation. I get irritated at that habit. Not everyone that initiates talk with you is toasting.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by deife(m): 7:38pm On Jul 14, 2015
grin
ashmanpolo:
Some Corpers around my area passed out like two weeks back so I was at one of my Favourite Pool side, chilling out that day. I started conversing with one of the Corpers. The first thing she asked me was, "where do you work?" see Jamb question.

Firstly, I wasn't even thinking of wooing this bae cos she got a bracelet on her left leg and that's a huge turn-off for me.

I told her I was an applicant, still job-hunting. Next thing this girl started advising me to focus on my job-hunting and stop toasting girls. That she's not in for jobless guys like me for now. I just taya.
Okay I told her to give me her number to at least get more counselling, "for where?" The girl messed me up 'jakajaka'

This morning, I saw her in front of our company gate, a popular Oil and Gas firm. She was holding a CV and she was so wowed. She was like "what are you doing here?" I work here
"Jesus, for how long now?" Seven years.
"But...."
I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"


Epic! grin
ashmanpolo:
Some Corpers around my area passed out like two weeks back so I was at one of my Favourite Pool side, chilling out that day. I started conversing with one of the Corpers. The first thing she asked me was, "where do you work?" see Jamb question.

Firstly, I wasn't even thinking of wooing this bae cos she got a bracelet on her left leg and that's a huge turn-off for me.

I told her I was an applicant, still job-hunting. Next thing this girl started advising me to focus on my job-hunting and stop toasting girls. That she's not in for jobless guys like me for now. I just taya.
Okay I told her to give me her number to at least get more counselling, "for where?" The girl messed me up 'jakajaka'

This morning, I saw her in front of our company gate, a popular Oil and Gas firm. She was holding a CV and she was so wowed. She was like "what are you doing here?" I work here
"Jesus, for how long now?" Seven years.
"But...."
I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"


Epic! But OP, your signature na die!
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 14, 2015
wtfCode:

now u're sounding like a seriously broke bit.ch.
I quoted cuz u're one of them lazy gals...sassy my foot!
Bae ko bae ni...mtcheew.
LOLZ. grin
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 14, 2015
wtfCode:
now u're sounding like a seriously broke bit.ch. I quoted cuz u're one of them lazy gals...sassy my foot! Bae ko bae ni...mtcheew.
LOLZ. grin
THAT BABE UGLY DIE OHH. SEE HER BAG FOR HAND,
I STILL DEY ADMIRE HOW SHE TAKE UGLY
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by M4gunners: 7:44pm On Jul 14, 2015
Cutehector:
Dis story seems fake to me
Let assume it's fake, but not far from the truth. In fact is not fake. That is how nigeria girls of nawadays are. I go save will explain it better to you.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by doskie(m): 7:49pm On Jul 14, 2015
Cutehector:
Dis story seems fake to me
even me.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by VitoCorleone: 7:50pm On Jul 14, 2015
1 million likes for you man.

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 14, 2015
Lolz I don jam madman...who send you for me 2day.... undecided. You have nothing to say sha......
sonofananimal1:


grin grin LOLZ. I DON JAM PURE ORISIRIS GIRL,

CALM DOWN grin grin

NO VEX, I JUST DEY ADMIRE HOW YOU UGLY REACH LIKE THAT. grin grin

MEN! YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLY UGLY
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by doskie(m): 7:54pm On Jul 14, 2015
ashmanpolo:


Monkey, my problem is the manner at which they go about it. Idottt (no ofeinse)
baba forget levels.

which oil coy you dey work makr we investigate this matter sef.

how far. watin you read. watin you dey do for the oil company?

you tink say na ganja breed full nl abi?


abeg park you aeroplane for airport make we see road pass


no level.
Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by kazmanbanjoko(m): 8:02pm On Jul 14, 2015
Ok

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Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by mozay2015(m): 8:03pm On Jul 14, 2015
correct man

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