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What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Brian2015: 9:54am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Hello ALL, I am looking for advice: I have been to my doctor and done some tests, I can not father a child. My wife and I are desperate to have a family and I have been considering donor sperm. Will people know that this is not in actual fact my biological child? any advice or help will be greatly appreciated thanks |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Irises(m): 9:55am On Jul 15, 2015 |
chai 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 9:57am On Jul 15, 2015 |
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Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by viceldo(m): 9:57am On Jul 15, 2015 |
visit prayer house 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by DuchessLily(f): 10:06am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Adoption is not a sin sir Adopt a child or two, it might open way for ur own miracle biological children . Pray and have faith in God. He is still in d business of performing miracles 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 10:07am On Jul 15, 2015 |
i think with prayer things can still be done. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by gabazin080(m): 10:09am On Jul 15, 2015 |
bro I want you to know that doctors are not GOD. I will advice you fast and pray to God for miracle. after all Sarah was 90 when she gave birth to Isaac and Hannah also had kids after people have written her off 4 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Dyt(f): 10:12am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Adoption sir Well dunno much about donors 1 Like |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 15, 2015 |
I will like to pray with you.
Call me on: 07034551515.
You will see the wonders of God. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Please go to a Sperm bank. People will not know unless you tell them. 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 10:19am On Jul 15, 2015 |
What is wrong with all these prayer warriors?? Will you please move to the Religion section. Annoying set of human beings! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by viceldo(m): 10:35am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Phema: for the fact that you're not prayer full dn't mean that someone shuld'nt gat dat in ur skull 13 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by 5minsmadness: 10:43am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brian2015:. What is the actual diagnosis? Oligospermia? Azospermia? Also have u been to Nordica? |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by kukuruku156(f): 10:44am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Phema: Exactly..... I know of someone who also got medical reports that he couldn't father a child. He and his wife moved to a different state and adopted a baby. Two years after they had their own biological kid. Only the couple's parents know the first child isn't theirs. Do what you feel will make you and your wife happy and make sure you're totally prepared to love that child (or children) as your own if you decide to go through sperm bank or adoption. Rooting for and wishing you the best 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by MARKone(m): 10:48am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brian2015: Go for the donor sperm, artificial insemination, that way eye brows won't be raised, and ur wife can feel a little sense of fulfilment. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Cutehector(m): 11:00am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brian2015:what's ur problem? I thought I've sent u mail already sayn I can help u. |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 15, 2015 |
viceldo: Take your unsolicited prayers some place else! He needs advice as regards sperm donation and you're here speaking in known tongues! Didn't your bible say there is time for everything? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by southernbelle(f): 11:14am On Jul 15, 2015 |
of course you can use a donor, no one else has to know except you and your wife. the resemblance shouldn't be an issue, that can always be explained away; lastly keep the faith, nothing is impossible. cheers ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by ogogoromasta: 11:16am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Go 4 deliveranze dere iz notin God cannot do ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by misspicy(f): 11:39am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Wow |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 11:42am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Have you tried alternative means of increasing your sperm count or you have no chances of doing that. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by julietchic(f): 11:43am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brian2015: Man proposes but God disposes. calm down and talk to God( if u are a believer).Continue wt ur confession ( if u have any), God never sleep or slumber... He is the same God yesterday (Sarah), today (me),and for ever( you and etc...). Am TTC for 4years now and I have faith. I have my confession and am not loosing hope,...I meet a sister here and she told me about God gives her a son without seeing her flow 6 years ( she had not seen it up till nw? since 2008 and she had a son December 2014. y won't I serve this God? y won't I have faith in Him? Right nw I has been feeling somehow since this week and I claim that am pregnant. i will confirm it next week and come back to testify. I cover my pregnancy with the blood of Jesus. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by omoelesa(m): 11:50am On Jul 15, 2015 |
And Me Dey Here My Wife Just Got Pregnant I No Too Hapy. |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 11:55am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Is your Doctor your God? He did tests and the results were not favourable. With my little knowledge tests are used for diagnosis to reveal a problem and then treatment begins. Change your doctor and go to a specialist that can offer fertility treatment 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by coogar: 11:59am On Jul 15, 2015 |
Brian2015: your doctor could be talking trash! confirm from 12 other doctors. if the diagnosis is consistent, adopt a child! 1 Like |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by edwife(f): 12:01pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness: 5mins are you a doctor or a health practitioner?I asked because you seem to have a broad knowledge about things like this. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by MARKone(m): 12:13pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
omoelesa: hey! congratulations ![]() ![]() |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by 5minsmadness: 12:33pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
edwife: Medico-legal ma'am. I own a string of NGOs in Abuja and Lagos, some of which cater to things like this... Believe the ownership thingie at your own risk ![]() But the op should answer my questions. I may be able to prefer some advice. |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by gazilion: 12:50pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kukuruku156: But how come you are aware of it if it's only the couple's parents that knew they adopted ? @ Op, as being adviced. Adoption is not a sin. The earlier the better. Even while adopting keep trusting God for your own miracle. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by BeeCool15: 12:58pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
And there are still some who clamour for male birth control systems other than just condoms like here -http://thenakedconvos.com/men-birth-control-measures/ As if guys don't have enough problems with infertility already. |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Seek expert opinions from other specialists. Use Google to search for any sperm bank around. You are not alone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What To Do - I Am A Man Who Can't Have Kids by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
Your story will change 1 Like |
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