By Bunmi Sofola
Dear Bunmi,
I am just 30 and have a high sex drive. I want it every day if I could get it, but my wife is happy with two or three times a week. Once in a while, she humours me by letting me have more, but I always have the feelings she does it for peace.
A few weeks back, her father had a stroke. He’s lived alone since he lost his wife three years ago and my wife had to go to the family house every evening from work. By the time she came back home, sex was the last thing from her mind.

In the meantime, our neighbour, who is a very good friend of ours, is a single mother of three. She’d jokingly complained of abstaining from sex due to no fault of hers. So when she called round and discovered I was alone, she went back to her place to bring me something to eat. I provided the booze.
One thing led to another and I found myself having amazing sex! She’s in her 40s but sexy and very athletic. Afterwards, she suggested I call in at her place from time to time for no-strings sex. She said it would solve both our problems and my wife needs never know.
I’ve taken her up on her offer and the nice arrangement is working for both of us. I mean what could be simpler and where’s the harm?
I love my wife and our beautiful children, but not getting enough sex is driving me up the wall. Could this be a way of solving my problem and my neighbour’s?
Donald, by e-mail.

Afterwards, she suggested I call in at her place from time to time for no-strings sex. She said it would solve both our problems and my wife needs never know.

5minsmadness:
Nice arrangement.
Still a sin though.
Then there's the issue of STIs.
And getting caught by either your wife or her husband.



Singing:
To be a man¶
To be a man is not a day's job¶
Eh kke kwe kwe¶¶

Islie:



But you didn't talk about when the woman needs the man and the is unavailable..... Like those midnight sexing and stuff.


Am sure the man is slipping from his wife step by step

5minsmadness:

. Sure he is.
There's also the issue of the neighbor falling in love with him. You know how ladies can become emotional after a while.