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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Hidorano(m): 3:11pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
No vex o...I don't even know if i should ask this question...if a chick whe dey respond well to the game here ask abt your gf...how will you respond to dat... I just dey skip the questn anytime they ask ni o...I thought dat if I say YES,my aim may not be accomplish....if I say NO, she may start to dey do shakara Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by abayo4luv: 11:30pm On Jul 14, 2015 |
**Xteddy**
I really commend your efforts bro...
i need your help on a particular issue. I met a girl in
my Church around February last yr. We are even in
same sub group... we started talking, I do call her
like 4 times a week then just to familiarize myself
with her b4 moving to other stages. I could count
the number of time she calls me. I invited her to my
house on my birthday in May, she came but she
doesn't spend much time as her Mom kept calling
her to check on her.
Due to this, so as to spend quality time with her, I've
asked on her out on three occasions which she
gave lame excuses. Most of her responses on
phone are monosyllabic like yeah, okay e.t.c Of
course she is aware that I love her and i'm planning
to date her. So she has been turning my gesture of
moving things past mere friendship with her. Then, I
went back to school but anytime I come home and
see her in church I'll just bone her.
Now, i'm back home fully, we are no more in talking
terms as before. We normally see each other on
sundays but boning tinz... I really love this girl. But I
wish to know if something could be done? or should
i move on? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Femistico(m): 10:52pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
kennboiy:The way he put it is kinda funny |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NLjona(m): 1:21am On Jul 16, 2015 |
I really need your help on this!!! We've dated for 5 months (Long Distance Relationship but we see each other often) At first it was all love in the air, well for the first 3 months. Things started changing after that.. She changed. Stopped calling,texting,caring and behaves non challant and even tlk abt her ex with me.. when I talk to her about it she turns it back to me like am acting too possesive. She made a lot of excuses about things and I felt like I was the one making efforts alone . On the fifth month,we had a major disagreement nd days later she used the "I wanna be alone" breakup line on me and I felt used. It hurts a lot.. Weeks gone by.. She occasionally text me bt I'm too angry to respond. She later asked for us to meet nd we talked things out and I accepted her back and right away she switched feelings cos she saw a friends (females) photos on my phone more than hers. I tried explaining things to her but she left at once and that day I tried texing her on social media and we chatted normally. But for weeks now we havnt texts or call and I'm confused cos one part of me wants to let go of her because it feels she's using me and the other still wants to try. She told a friend of ours that she wants to settle but I aint helping matters, which I don't understand cos she's to make efforts to make up if she really wants to...I'm so confused and sad about the whole issue.. Please I need ur advice on this.. Thanks!! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by josiah74(m): 4:12pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Hello there was this certain girl in my house I
really like her but she is generous to me. she
often comes to look mirror in my room and put
on attractive dresses dat got me moved,but I
just controlled my body.But is a friend to me
sha. And I like her so I want to know how I can
build a true friendship with her.hope to here
from you soon. Bros xteedy I need your help on this issue. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by josiah74(m): 1:56pm On Jul 17, 2015 |
Hello there was this certain girl in my house I really like her but she is generous to me. she often comes to look mirror in my room and put on attractive dresses dat got me moved,but I just controlled my body.But is a friend to me sha. And I like her so I want to know how I can build a true friendship with her.hope to here from you soon. Bros xteedy I need your help on this issue. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:26pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
josiah74: Don't make d mistake next time. When she comes around, comment on her dressing/outfit/hair or sth she has on..like a necklace ear-rings or sth. Ladies love wen we dey know we appreciate the considerable amount of time they spent in looking good; even if its not for us..lolz. Don't be scared, cos I can sense u av approach anxiety. U need to start gaming her, making her laugh, she is already showing u she is interested, if u waste too much time, u will end up being friendzoned. Ladies place we guys into different categories depending on how we act and react to what they do. You said u wana build true friendship..pls if u do...add some romance to it. Make her open up to u..its all easy..check page 9-12. Don't forget to appreciate n compliment her, act like u av been dating her already. A girl that goes out to meet a guy more dan once a week is not ordinary. Act fast. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:41pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Back n better...replying all posts asap. Miss u all...ma bosses. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:06pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
NLjona:. Nice one bro, but u don't av to be confused, sad, or feel angry becos of a girl. I av plied dat road before, I only ended being f^ked up n desperate. First thing u need to do is...free dis babe for a while...get ur act today. U r a bit desperate, I know u want things to work out, man, dts cool...but u need to apply some new techniques. Its gud to av pics of oda girls and u doing stuff, or even if its just d pics of girls, but u need to hide some...sometimes u need to lie to make a relationship/convo work. And don't take stuffs girls do too serious, she saw d pics, got angry n left..lol.. U could av txted her "...lols..mummy...u didn't need to get dat angry...u know ur my nbr 1...missing u alredy sweets..will call u later. And don't be angry to reply her texts, a girl texting u is a form of investment, feed on it bro. I must commend u cos u av really tried, I'd like u to make dis work, go for anoda date, set it up...don't be too logical dis time, like talking tins out, and talking abt d past. Just be romantic. Show her anoda side of u. Kiss her, play, laf, don't talk about things dat has caused a drift between u guys, if she wants to, tell her, its all in d past now, and u just wana make dis relationship work, cos she ur special to me, follow up with a hug, caress, etc, anything beyond d normal...trust me...dis girl needs a FXXXXk.....asap..u don't need to be angry or confused cos of her. Just know she is urs, and act accordingly. And don't over-react or react wen she does weird stuffs, just smile n continue, it so so hard to do...but I av learnt to master it. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:19pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
abayo4luv:. Re-strategize. Dts all u need. But its gona be difficult a bit cos u ve been boning her for a while. Anyways. Wen u see her next, just smile @ her, don't talk to her, den meet her later, don't tell her u miss her oh..dts a big NO NO. Just compliment her on sth she is wearing, tell her its been a while, den shift d blame on her. Tell her.." Long time (name)...been a while..u just fashi me like dat, am sure u ve met one alaji and sugar daddy..." Smile...wit a fun attitude. To get dis babe back..u don't need anything logical. U need to play on her emotions. From ur posts, permit me to say she got bored or sth. Its very important u follow dis pattern..stage 1...where u get to use homour n funny stuffs to get a chick attracted, den stage 2..u need to initiate rapport...den 3...u move on to whatever ur intention is. Am not saying dis is a golden rule..but its sth av known to work. u need to start all over subtly, hope u still av her nbr, don't rush it tho. Dts if u still want her bro. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 1:23pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Hidorano:never give a girl a yes or no answer. U need to be unpredictable. If she asks about ur gf..tell her..." Which of dem r u asking about".....a girl loves it wen oda girls like u. If u don't wana go dat route and u just wana play a little safe...den teller her " I just av lots of female friends we do stuff togeda, besties..etc...just girls who r very good close buddies with me"...cheers bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:05pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Some of us having limiting beliefs hindering us from meeting girls. If you do your best to attract girls, and u get some degree of success, den dat belief is not limiting you. Some guys r like " am broke, am shy, am too short, am not rich enuf, I don't own a car, I don't own a bb,iphone blah blah, I am not handsome..am not her type... The turning point is wen u can accept ur sef for who u are, and to hell with any girl who can accept those things about ur sef dat can't be changed..eg.height..run ur game, and package ur sef well even if dat means changing ur wardrobe, gettin a haircut dat fits ur face, visting the gym etc. The point is..u just av to overcome ur limiting belief. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:16pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
"A lot of girls r coming my way. Am the man...I will get a lot of girls, I av nothing to lose, and I don't give a damn about this one wey dey use me form.". When u deeply believe they r lots n lots n lots of girls out there, u begin to realise ur lantent powers. At this point, even ur behaviour and things u say to girls will change, u become a guy who gets d girls. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Stop treating her like a queen. She is not investing into u. She doesn't call u, send ur texts, initiate chats or act interested in d convo/relationship and ur still treating her like a queen: buying her stuffs and doing all d work. U r a maga ma guy . Only do stuffs for a girl cos she deserves it, u will notice she will do more or behave cool towards u. Reward good behaviour, not bad uninterested behaviour. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:33pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Stage 1 2 3..is so easy to follow. Try it out. It works wella. Stage 1..meet her/introduce or open, use humour and teasing to spike the attraction, stage 2, get to know her, compliment her @ dis stage, stage 3...go for ur goal. Maybe her nbr, xxxx, etc. Flirt with her, be confident, tell her " babe I like d way u lick ur lips wen u talk...its sexy..."...she will laf, say how...or sth..den explain..." I mean d way u lick d words out of ur lips wen u talk..+ plus d way u smile..its realy cute...(Den give her a nick name)...am gona call u...lipsie...mzcute..or any oda blah blah. What u r doing is flirting, and she will love it. She knows u already..u av done stage 1 and 2. So she won't act weird. Stage 2..is where u make her free n open wif u. By asking deep stuffs about her, u can transition from family stuffs, to her most embarassing moment...etc....eg...so r u like d first born or last babe...am thinking u r d last tho..u r too cute to be a first born..(smiley.)...she will laf blah blah, den tell u, u den recap her reply, den relate it to sth else.." Oh dts nice...so u r d last born..mummy's girl..no wonder, am d first tho...how many r u guys..like 10 abi?......... If u just ask "how many ar u guys" it will get her feeling like she is being interviewd. Dts wen convos go boring n stuff. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 2:37pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
So the point is...whatever she says, recap it a little, den use to transition into something new. Dat way...conversations won't get boring or monotonous |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by dasanchez1(m): 2:48pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx: I have missed unselfish post like this... well done boss.... 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by babadenno: 3:55pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
babadenno: Boss xxxtedyxxx Waiting for your response |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 7:11pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
iamfbanj: Asin ehn.... Bruv, are u joking? .. The girl doesn't want any relationship from any of u or her friends... That's OBVIOUSLY clear in ur story.. She's the type that loves fun (real fvcking NOT love making) ... If u shower her with love and sweet words, u're On Your Own.... She wants to enjoy it while it last, what more do u need...? U guys can complicate simple issue.. Bruv go out there and dig some oil, Come back here and give testimony... No dey reason babes like that.... They are not and will never be the same... #peace 69 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Fkhalifa(m): 7:51am On Jul 19, 2015 |
bro,what response could a guy give a lady asking questions on an intimate pictures she saw on her toasters phone? is it best to deny that she isnt her girl or tell her truth ?so as not to spoil his chances |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Widall: 8:05am On Jul 19, 2015 |
oga teddy ..i have dis colleague of mine that am squatin cos she hasn't got her on accomodation...we have been stayin in d same room for 3 weeks nw..i lack an idea on how to bed her cos i noticed she has totally friendzoned me..and she has a bf dat she is bangin she even told me...pls give me tips on how to bang her |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 5:53pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
JhyMedex: If you still need it, I got it. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 8:53pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Widall:1 week pass, 2 weeks, 3 weeks, ha bros why na? Start to show bf/lover potential but do it on and off then, You can try to make her jealous by bringing another babe home, note that this will only work if your guys rapport wella The best I can advise based on the limited info make baba OP take over or DJboosting/VJaykilling. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 9:53am On Jul 20, 2015 |
tr3y:Yea,! Still do... Gracias |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 10:48am On Jul 20, 2015 |
*** 3 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 10:49am On Jul 20, 2015 |
tr3y: Don't bring any girl home... She won't get jealous... She'll only start getting jealous when u begin to fvck her... 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 11:09am On Jul 20, 2015 |
Djboosting: That's is why I first said he should show bf potential first as in start acting like her lover.. which you have killed in the post above.. After she sees him from the bf perspective that is when she might get jealous.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 11:35am On Jul 20, 2015 |
JhyMedex: Well, PM me or drop your mail here. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 9:35pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
DjBoosting and Trey...I see u guys. Both suggestions will actually work, it all depends on if the guy's confidence. He has really wasted a lot of time with her. But all is not lost. Just do as u r told. Stop hiding the animalistic desire u av for her. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iwatch: 10:07pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
NLjona:dude... Fork that girl and fork her reall good. Thank me later. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by rapcy(m): 10:16pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
xxxtedyxxx:Hello Bros. I am bck again. So everything went well, untill recently 4 days ago. We was suppose to go to town for the salah brake(both of us to our family house). She wanted to leave early cause she wants to watch telemundo. I left her room to mine, so that i can dress but unfortunately i decided to check for my material that i will read during the brake. She finished preparing her stuffs walked into my room but I wasn't dressed. She got angry and started complaining that i am too lazy and she hates guys that are like that. I apologized to her and told her I was checking for somethin. To cut the story short we later left for town together but she didn't say a word to me in the car. She got to her destination 10 mins pass 5 for the pprogram which starts by 5pm to 6pm. I called her to ask if she got home safely she said yes. Since that day she has not called nor text me. I also did not call nor text her. This is the 4th day. What do you think? Should i call her or continue to shun her too. And less i forget i applied ur strategy of getting hawt girls to call me while we are together, she is sooo jealous and even warned me to stop chatting with them. Pls i need your advice. Cause i am going back to school 2mrw and so will she also. And her money is in my account cause she feels she will be spending it uselessly when its in her possession. So she will definitely have to call or come to my room. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by iwatch: 10:17pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Djboosting:thumps up. Like I met one damsel at first bank few days ago. Omo I tell myself say I must collect this babe number ooo. Luckily she initiated a convo and I took it up from them. We left the bank together and I followed her to go collect her number o cos her phone was switched off. Omo my own Na to look for possibility of forking her and move on. She is extremely pretty and light skin the way I like it but I am taken already so I just wanna chop and waka. |
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