sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!

Shut up there... Isn't it the naija girls we know?

Keep deceiving yourselves.

Ngozi123:


That's only because most white women believe in total gender equality. It's fine if you're into that but just don't be suprised to be sharing the chores/cooking/housework if you eventually get married to one.

One thing you should realize is when we say foreigner we dont necessary mean whites. Other ladies from African countries too can be deemed as a foreigner. I was so shocked when i saw a lady here ( she is from south africa), she said she had to travel down to another state just to get the ingredient needed to cook for her naija guy. This is definitely what a naija girl will never do. You will start hearing her saying, i am not a house girl, blablabla..

I don't know where you are ooh, but I can reliably tell you that Nigerian guys raised in European countries where a sizeable African community exist are marrying within the race , my friend got married the weekend gone; he comes from an affluent family snoobish and he married a girl from across the pond in UK.

Many Nigerian guys marrying outside their race either associate outside their race or are doing so for their legal documentation in their host country; the later being a marriage built on compromise it is bound to fail catastrophically.

Many Nigerian guys who I grew up with , who dated more white ladies and had long relationships with eastern and central European women are now dating black girls and are happy doing so; like one friend would tell me "if you come from a cultured family you'd realise that our values are very different" one of you would have to give up too much

@SINAJ ITS QUITE OBVIOUS YOU MY TYPE OF CHIC-(HARDWORKING & INDEPENDENT)-
THUMBS UP FFOR YOU BUT IT DONT CHANGE THE FACT....

FACT: @LEAST 65% OF THE TYPICAL NAIJA CHICX IS ONLI GAME IF A GUY HAS DEEP POCKETS SO YOU DONT BLAME NAIJA MEN IN DIASPORA FOR CHOOSING FOREIGNERS WHO KNOW YOU GOTTA WORK FOR WORREVA U WANNA HAVE



BTW..........................OMO I DE NAIJA & I MUST MARRY MY NAIJA WIFEY EEEH!!!!

Justcul:
Where i based here in germo, its hard to come accross nigerian ladies.. Cameroonians dorminate this place..

Na my side u dey sha....Na Munchen,i dey oooh..


Guten Tag
Wie geht's dir?

I also am in Germany. Have you every tried to talk to a Nigerian girl here? Dem go dey form like say na dem be God. How dem go come get husband? In fact there is one here, my friend. Na so so na German I want she dey talk. So wetin you want make Naija boys do
IMHO, the proudest of ladies here are the blacks. Annoyingly, if na oyibo guy? na so dem go dey shine teeth like wetin I no know.

jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters

most Nigerian girls are materialistic and liars... i rather settle for someone else shikenna

sinaj:


to ur first question Sir... I will not nd cannot be penniless in diz Life. My being in skul is not goin to b for granted. hence, m not jumping to any proposal of a man coz of money.


to ya second quest., My dream in life ix NOT to marry a wealthy man, but rather to make a name for my self!

nd m pretty sure m not d only gurl with diz kinda goal Sir.

u guyz should modify dat mindset of gurls being after your money plzzzz!

THANKS!

close your trash bin!!!

Dragonking:


One thing you should realize is when we say foreigner we dont necessary mean whites. Other ladies from African countries too can be deemed as a foreigner. I was so shocked when i saw a lady here ( she is from south africa), she said she had to travel down to another state just to get the ingredient needed to cook for her naija guy. This is definitely what a naija girl will never do. You will start hearing her saying, i am not a house girl, blablabla..

I think the person that I replied to was referring to white European women specifically. However, as a young Nigerian woman who was born in Europe, I don't think that there are many Nigerian women who are desperate for husbands- certainly not more compared to other African women. I think that the Op is just making a mountain out of a molehill here. It's not uncommon for immigrant communities to mix with each other over here.

Dayociro:
To give some points why Nigeria guys don't wanna marry Nigeria girls. I am currently in the uk, I date white and black girls, when I and the white girl are picnic for shopping, the white don't like to use your money to buy everything she wants, she is going to contribute from her wallet. but the black girls want you to do everything for them at all cost, they even request for money meaningless things. Moreover, Nigeria girls feel pompous and feel higher than their personality. So men feel reluctant to cope with that situation. If white girls love black guy, they did with their heart.
Thanks

YOU ARE VERY CORRECT, YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT

cococandy:


Do your female family members by any chance fall into this category of ladies with nothing but pucci to offer?

Let me guess no. All the boys ranting on this thread have saintly mothers and sisters who are not in that category but all other naija girls are.

That's why the whole world is leaving the black man behind. After years and years of leadership, you guys can't even own up to responsibility. Everything is wrong with the world except you.


A bad workman quarrels with his tools.

Typical as usual. Once you are hooked and dont have any meaningful counter- you start referring to female family members, mother blablabla..If my sister is waiting for a guy to do everything, i will simply tell the guy to walk out simple. You all want a rich ready made man as if your brother/father is rich and wealthy.

Everything is wrong with you naija girls but as usual, it doesnt stick into the head. You all come out hear forming and fronting but at the end of the day you are all but bitter.

seunny4lif:
Na my side u dey sha....Na Munchen,i dey oooh..


Guten Tag
Wie geht's dir?

Es geht mir gut, und dir?

Cos some girls lifestyle are not good, they shouldn't generalize it that all girls are the same. Where there is good, must be bad within.


Is well, God will see us through.

Chibaby87:
Cos some girls lifestyle are not good, they shouldn't generalize it that all girls are the same. Where there is good, must be bad within.


Is well, God will see us through.

So are you part of the good ones?

From your personal text, I saw "no love in your dictionary" so what in your dictionary

Chibaby87:
Cos some girls lifestyle are not good, they shouldn't generalize it that all girls are the same. Where there is good, must be bad within.


Is well, God will see us through.

"no love in your dictionary"... Na wah ooo

That was a question. What's your response?
Are they included or not?

Dragonking:


Typical as usual. Once you are hooked and dont have any meaningful counter- you start referring to female family members, mother blablabla..If my sister is waiting for a guy to do everything, i will simply tell the guy to walk out simple. You all want a rich ready made man as if your brother/father is rich and wealthy.

Everything is wrong with you naija girls but as usual, it doesnt stick into the head. You all come out hear forming and fronting but at the end of the day you are all but bitter.

Insidous:


And how is that a bad thing

So if she didn't work how will she eat... So all her entire life depend on the man right?

Use your brain.

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Well, I live in the Netherlands,had a german woman before but things fail apart, I don't want to marry any European girl @34, I think is time to get someone serious, but i'm also bit confused because of what i'm reading here about our sisters back home,some of our sisters here bring their local mentality from Nigeria,making it hard for us to cope with them.

THIS IS THE TRUTH. NIGERIA GIRLS HAVE ALL TURN TO RUBBISH AND RUBBISH HAS TAKEN OVER THEM.

THERE ARE NOT WORTH IT AGAIN, I SWEAR

First of all anyone can marry from anywhere, it is a matter of choice. However, it is easier to marry someone that you see almost every time or that is close to you.On the other hand, there are different factors that can lead to whoever you connect with such as the environment, your family background, your personality, Church,School and even your friends too can be of influence. It is very naïve of someone to now generalize that because Nigerian girls are materialistic and all that, that is why Nigerian men are not marrying them.
May I tell you that greater percentage of Nigerian men abroad are still marrying and would still marry Nigerian women.
It is easier for Nigerian men to be carried away or overshadowed with a Western love because we Nigerians are not groomed well in that sense but basically are taught to be respectful. Our parents show us their love in different ways but definitely not in a romantic way unlike the Westerners/foreigners.
Sex is also not a big of a deal to most Westerners/foreigners. Our men like easy or free sex.
Another factor is that the economy is favorable in the Western world compared to our harsh economy, therefore, ladies do not care much about present and future security because a lot of government aides /laws are available for them, perhaps anything happens e.g Child support, Unemployment, Food Link card etc
Level of exposure cannot also be underestimated. Attraction as well as the feeling that foreigners especially ‘Whites’ are better than Black pushes some men to fall into that situation. That is why you see that most of our men do not always marry the well educated amongst the Westerners/foreigners except a very few. Divorce is common after a while.
Some are desperately in need of changing their status(stay/papers). It is easier to lure them into that than to lure a Nigerian woman(Smarter).
An inevitable factor is family. Not everyone can deal with the extended family issues, so they settle for the Western woman/foreigner who might not have a large family.
Lastly some just naturally get admiration for the White folks/foreigners, not because of Nigerian women are these or that.

Men,stop complaining about a woman being materialistic because the ball is in your court.Don't spend if you don't want to spend, rather look for one of your caliber that is hardworking,focused,busy,disciplined with present/future ambition etc except your caliber is opposite of what i'd mentioned.

Dragonking:

Your zimbabwe baby get sister?

MY NIGGA . I AM AT YOUR BACK AND WILL ALWAYS SUPPORT YOU

To be safe marry a rich ass girl.

sonofananimal1:
THIS IS THE TRUTH. NIGERIA GIRLS HAVE ALL TURN TO RUBBISH AND RUBBISH HAS TAKEN OVER THEM.

THERE ARE NOT WORTH IT AGAIN, I SWEAR

Mehn guy, when it comes to naija women, you be serious misogynyst o.

Who break your your heart like this?

Cutehector:
We just wana hav mixd breed children which is so so cool...

No "we".

Wrong conclusion... Don't generalize okay?

sanmibukunmi:
There is no criteria you can use to try to bring foreign and Nigerian ladies 2geda. Nigerian ladies can't be compared at all with them.... The only aspect I fink Nigerian ladies will be preferred to a foreign lady is in the aspect of cooking local dishes and dts all. And to make matters worse just abt 50 percent of dm even know how to do dt.... Here is a difference dt I have observed between a Nigerian lady and a foreigner.
A white lady will break up with u for not having a good ambition.
A white lady will break up with u for not spending enough times with her privately ( note not abt monez)
But a Nigerian lady will break up with u cos
1- you are not spending enough on her
2- you are not spending an hour thrusting in and out of her Vagina.....lol
To me even the dumbest of the whites av ha better iq, composure, self esteem, respect and sincerity than a Nigerian....

MY NIGGA, YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT

cococandy:
That was a question. What's your response?
Are they included or not?

Like i responded, if i eventually find out that any female member of my family has nothing to offer( be it sister, cousin etc) i will tell the guy to simply walk and leave. Simple. No two way about it. It has been agreed that there are very few responsible girls but it is like 1 in a million.

You ladies want a rich and wealthy man. Is your father/brother rich/wealthy? Did your own mother wait for a rich dude before marrying and giving birth to you? Was your father stinkingly rich before she married him?

Justcul:


Es geht mir gut, und dir?

Danke,gut.....


Which side u dey?

charismatic1:
First of all anyone can marry from anywhere, it is a matter of choice. However, it is easier to marry someone that you see almost every time or that is close to you.On the other hand, there are different factors that can lead to whoever you connect with such as the environment, your family background, your personality, Church,School and even your friends too can be of influence. It is very naïve of someone to now generalize that because Nigerian girls are materialistic and all that, that is why Nigerian men are not marrying them.
May I tell you that greater percentage of Nigerian men abroad are still marrying and would still marry Nigerian women.
It is easier for Nigerian men to be carried away or overshadowed with a Western love because we Nigerians are not groomed well in that sense but basically are taught to be respectful. Our parents show us their love in different ways but definitely not in a romantic way unlike the Westerners/foreigners.
Sex is also not a big of a deal to most Westerners/foreigners. Our men like easy or free sex.
Another factor is that the economy is favorable in the Western world compared to our harsh economy, therefore, ladies do not care much about present and future security because a lot of government aides /laws are available for them, perhaps anything happens e.g Child support, Unemployment, Food Link card etc
Level of exposure cannot also be underestimated. Attraction as well as the feeling that foreigners especially ‘Whites’ are better than Black pushes some men to fall into that situation. That is why you see that most of our men do not always marry the well educated amongst the Westerners/foreigners except a very few. Divorce is common after a while.
Some are desperately in need of changing their status(stay/papers). It is easier to lure them into that than to lure a Nigerian woman(Smarter).
An inevitable factor is family. Not everyone can deal with the extended family issues, so they settle for the Western woman/foreigner who might not have a large family.
Lastly some just naturally get admiration for the White folks/foreigners, not because of Nigerian women are these or that.

Men,stop complaining about a woman being materialistic because the ball is in your court.Don't spend if you don't want to spend, rather look for one of your caliber that is hardworking,focused,busy,disciplined with present/future ambition etc except your caliber is opposite of what i'd mentioned.

i didn't want to quote u but s##t u so smart i just could not help myself...This how i know an eloquent lady..#bows#

With all these unnecessary rant from guys on this thread...90% of you will still send money to nigerian girls tomorrow morning

It's hard to take y'all seriously when you don't even know what you want talk less of what you need

Dragonking:
Like i responded, if i eventually find out that any female member of my family has nothing to offer( be it sister, cousin etc) i will tell the guy to simply walk and leave. Simple. No two way about it. It has been agreed that there are very few responsible girls but it is like 1 in a million.

You ladies want a rich and wealthy man. Is your father/brother rich/wealthy? Did your own mother wait for a rich dude before marrying and giving birth to you?

'if' being the operative word.

Meaning that there's a chance that they may not be in that category. But you felt so cool lumping other people into that group because you're sure they belong there.

martineverest:
op,d question should have been y Nigerian women are not marrying Nigerian mem in europe?
Nigerian men are as bad as useless I'm Europe
they are only looking for who to milk dry in Europe
most of Dem are gold diggers

I can see you are in Europe with worst English... So you are against men supporting the ungrateful girls?

Just correct your English first.

Jeromejnr:


Mehn guy, when it comes to naija women, you be serious misogynyst o.

Who break your your heart like this?

ONE WOMAN I WASTED ALL MY RESOURCE ON, EVEN ON TO HER FAMILY.

I DON'T REALLY WANT TO REMEMBER IT.