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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 11:39pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
sinaj:Shut up there... Isn't it the naija girls we know? Keep deceiving yourselves. 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 11:40pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Ngozi123: One thing you should realize is when we say foreigner we dont necessary mean whites. Other ladies from African countries too can be deemed as a foreigner. I was so shocked when i saw a lady here ( she is from south africa), she said she had to travel down to another state just to get the ingredient needed to cook for her naija guy. This is definitely what a naija girl will never do. You will start hearing her saying, i am not a house girl, blablabla.. 13 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sweetgala(m): 11:41pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
I don't know where you are ooh, but I can reliably tell you that Nigerian guys raised in European countries where a sizeable African community exist are marrying within the race , my friend got married the weekend gone; he comes from an affluent family snoobish and he married a girl from across the pond in UK. Many Nigerian guys marrying outside their race either associate outside their race or are doing so for their legal documentation in their host country; the later being a marriage built on compromise it is bound to fail catastrophically. Many Nigerian guys who I grew up with , who dated more white ladies and had long relationships with eastern and central European women are now dating black girls and are happy doing so; like one friend would tell me "if you come from a cultured family you'd realise that our values are very different" one of you would have to give up too much 8 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
@SINAJ ITS QUITE OBVIOUS YOU MY TYPE OF CHIC-(HARDWORKING & INDEPENDENT)- THUMBS UP FFOR YOU BUT IT DONT CHANGE THE FACT.... FACT: @LEAST 65% OF THE TYPICAL NAIJA CHICX IS ONLI GAME IF A GUY HAS DEEP POCKETS SO YOU DONT BLAME NAIJA MEN IN DIASPORA FOR CHOOSING FOREIGNERS WHO KNOW YOU GOTTA WORK FOR WORREVA U WANNA HAVE BTW..........................OMO I DE NAIJA & I MUST MARRY MY NAIJA WIFEY EEEH!!!! |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by seunny4lif(m): 11:43pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Justcul:Na my side u dey sha....Na Munchen,i dey oooh.. Guten Tag Wie geht's dir? |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by daimlerbenz: 11:45pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
I also am in Germany. Have you every tried to talk to a Nigerian girl here? Dem go dey form like say na dem be God. How dem go come get husband? In fact there is one here, my friend. Na so so na German I want she dey talk. So wetin you want make Naija boys do ![]() IMHO, the proudest of ladies here are the blacks. Annoyingly, if na oyibo guy? na so dem go dey shine teeth like wetin I no know. jerryunit48: 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by drnairalov: 11:45pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
most Nigerian girls are materialistic and liars... i rather settle for someone else shikenna 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by ultimate77(m): 11:46pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
sinaj:close your trash bin!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Ngozi123(f): 11:47pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Dragonking: I think the person that I replied to was referring to white European women specifically. However, as a young Nigerian woman who was born in Europe, I don't think that there are many Nigerian women who are desperate for husbands- certainly not more compared to other African women. I think that the Op is just making a mountain out of a molehill here. It's not uncommon for immigrant communities to mix with each other over here. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Dayociro:YOU ARE VERY CORRECT, YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 11:49pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
cococandy: Typical as usual. Once you are hooked and dont have any meaningful counter- you start referring to female family members, mother blablabla..If my sister is waiting for a guy to do everything, i will simply tell the guy to walk out simple. You all want a rich ready made man as if your brother/father is rich and wealthy. Everything is wrong with you naija girls but as usual, it doesnt stick into the head. You all come out hear forming and fronting but at the end of the day you are all but bitter. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Justcul(m): 11:49pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
seunny4lif: Es geht mir gut, und dir? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Chibaby87(f): 11:51pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Cos some girls lifestyle are not good, they shouldn't generalize it that all girls are the same. Where there is good, must be bad within. Is well, God will see us through. |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Jeromejnr(m): 11:54pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Chibaby87: So are you part of the good ones? From your personal text, I saw "no love in your dictionary" so what in your dictionary ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Justcul(m): 11:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Chibaby87: "no love in your dictionary"... Na wah ooo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 11:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
That was a question. What's your response? Are they included or not? Dragonking: 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 11:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Insidous:So if she didn't work how will she eat... So all her entire life depend on the man right? ![]() Use your brain. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
NgwaManNaija4LF:THIS IS THE TRUTH. NIGERIA GIRLS HAVE ALL TURN TO RUBBISH AND RUBBISH HAS TAKEN OVER THEM. THERE ARE NOT WORTH IT AGAIN, I SWEAR 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by charismatic1(f): 11:58pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
First of all anyone can marry from anywhere, it is a matter of choice. However, it is easier to marry someone that you see almost every time or that is close to you.On the other hand, there are different factors that can lead to whoever you connect with such as the environment, your family background, your personality, Church,School and even your friends too can be of influence. It is very naïve of someone to now generalize that because Nigerian girls are materialistic and all that, that is why Nigerian men are not marrying them. May I tell you that greater percentage of Nigerian men abroad are still marrying and would still marry Nigerian women. It is easier for Nigerian men to be carried away or overshadowed with a Western love because we Nigerians are not groomed well in that sense but basically are taught to be respectful. Our parents show us their love in different ways but definitely not in a romantic way unlike the Westerners/foreigners. Sex is also not a big of a deal to most Westerners/foreigners. Our men like easy or free sex. Another factor is that the economy is favorable in the Western world compared to our harsh economy, therefore, ladies do not care much about present and future security because a lot of government aides /laws are available for them, perhaps anything happens e.g Child support, Unemployment, Food Link card etc Level of exposure cannot also be underestimated. Attraction as well as the feeling that foreigners especially ‘Whites’ are better than Black pushes some men to fall into that situation. That is why you see that most of our men do not always marry the well educated amongst the Westerners/foreigners except a very few. Divorce is common after a while. Some are desperately in need of changing their status(stay/papers). It is easier to lure them into that than to lure a Nigerian woman(Smarter). An inevitable factor is family. Not everyone can deal with the extended family issues, so they settle for the Western woman/foreigner who might not have a large family. Lastly some just naturally get admiration for the White folks/foreigners, not because of Nigerian women are these or that. Men,stop complaining about a woman being materialistic because the ball is in your court.Don't spend if you don't want to spend, rather look for one of your caliber that is hardworking,focused,busy,disciplined with present/future ambition etc except your caliber is opposite of what i'd mentioned. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Dragonking:MY NIGGA ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by kesikeller(m): 12:00am On Jul 21, 2015 |
To be safe marry a rich ass girl. |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Jeromejnr(m): 12:00am On Jul 21, 2015 |
sonofananimal1: Mehn guy, when it comes to naija women, you be serious misogynyst o. Who break your your heart like this? |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 12:01am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Cutehector:No "we". Wrong conclusion... Don't generalize okay? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:03am On Jul 21, 2015 |
sanmibukunmi:MY NIGGA, YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 12:04am On Jul 21, 2015 |
cococandy:Like i responded, if i eventually find out that any female member of my family has nothing to offer( be it sister, cousin etc) i will tell the guy to simply walk and leave. Simple. No two way about it. It has been agreed that there are very few responsible girls but it is like 1 in a million. You ladies want a rich and wealthy man. Is your father/brother rich/wealthy? Did your own mother wait for a rich dude before marrying and giving birth to you? Was your father stinkingly rich before she married him? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by seunny4lif(m): 12:04am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by oribi(m): 12:05am On Jul 21, 2015 |
charismatic1: i didn't want to quote u but s##t u so smart i just could not help myself...This how i know an eloquent lady..#bows# 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by lovaleenny(f): 12:05am On Jul 21, 2015 |
With all these unnecessary rant from guys on this thread...90% of you will still send money to nigerian girls tomorrow morning ![]() It's hard to take y'all seriously when you don't even know what you want talk less of what you need ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 12:05am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Dragonking:'if' being the operative word. Meaning that there's a chance that they may not be in that category. But you felt so cool lumping other people into that group because you're sure they belong there. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 12:06am On Jul 21, 2015 |
martineverest: I can see you are in Europe with worst English... So you are against men supporting the ungrateful girls? Just correct your English first. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Jeromejnr:ONE WOMAN I WASTED ALL MY RESOURCE ON, EVEN ON TO HER FAMILY. I DON'T REALLY WANT TO REMEMBER IT. 3 Likes |
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