I always tell men one thing.

Never go to any home you are related to the man to stay, you will have problems. People that are related to the wive's usually have a smooth sail.

There's practically little u can do to live peacefully with her or change her as it is. Your best bet is to leave the house and do your job hunt elsewhere. When you succeed, I bet she would be the first to start saying nice words and stuff

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Take your worries to God almighty, He alone can see you through. There is nothing lalasticlala and ishilove can do, the best they can do is to take this to the front-page.


What you passing through is just a little of what Joseph in the Bible went through, read that portion of the Bible and find hope.

coolestrogue:
Take your worries to God almighty, He alone can see you through. There is nothing lalasticlala and ishilove can do, the best they can do is to take this to the front-page.


What you passing through is just a little of what Joseph in the Bible went through, read that portion of the Bible and find hope.

hmmm... Thanks.

D only advice I ve 4 u is 2 leave dat house asap,b4 u land urself in a bigger mess

pretydiva:
D only advice I ve 4 u is 2 leave dat house asap,b4 u land urself in a bigger mess

Move to where?

She's actually right, it's her husband's house so she can do and undo, so you have no choice than to adhere to her rules. She obviously doesn't feel Comfortable with your presence in her house that's why she's acting up, and it will look very wrong if you keep complaining about her or reporting her. If you can't tolerate her behavior, you should probably leave that house. To live peacefully with her, you should get ready to swallow a lot of shit and I don't know if you're ready to do that.

Young man, she doesn't want you in her house. You should have listened to your mother and not gone there. My advice is either you quietly accept anything she throws at you or you leave her house. End of story.

You either take it or leave! No bargaining

hor=HungerBAD post=36128420]I always tell men one thing.

Never go to any home you are related to the man to stay, you will have problems. People that are related to the wive's usually have a smooth sail.

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You got it so right. I lived with two blood brothers not uncles in lagos and abuja. Their wives were so so wicked. They would not cook on time, wouldn't even give you when they did. If they did, na old soup them go give you.

Was a hellish experience, but thank God for admission to the university. Another annoying thing, your confused brothers will never believe you.

I have since regrettably lost my eldest brother and I am in charge of the kids at the moment. The stupid woman is currently living in poverty with one hustler in madalla zuba now.

What a nolstagic evocation this your post got me into. But nevermind, I am stable now. Thanks

It's a pity u are living with a difficult woman. Try and record your conversations. Someday u may need it to vindicate yourself. For now, try and keep calm.

Do you have a room to yourself? Focus on Ur job search.

Spend more time in your room (Internet) or on the street looking for a job

If it gets too uncomfortable, pls leave to your mother's house

angieberry:
She's actually right, it's her husband's house so she can do and undo, so you have no choice than to adhere to her rules. She obviously doesn't feel Comfortable with your presence in her house that's why she's acting up, and it will look very wrong if you keep complaining about her or reporting her. If you can't tolerate her behavior, you should probably leave that house. To live peacefully with her, you should get ready to swallow a lot of shit and I don't know if you're ready to do that.

I don't expect such actions from a woman who once lived in our house peacefully without any problems. A good Christian that she claims to be should never do things like this.

angieberry:
She's actually right, it's her husband's house so she can do and undo, so you have no choice than to adhere to her rules. She obviously doesn't feel Comfortable with your presence in her house that's why she's acting up, and it will look very wrong if you keep complaining about her or reporting her. If you can't tolerate her behavior, you should probably leave that house. To live peacefully with her, you should get ready to swallow a lot of shit and I don't know if you're ready to do that.

I advice that you dont get yourself involved in such short sightedness. You and your husband (God forbids though) can loose the so called house and everything in a jiffy. Imagine that!

If u don't leave now on ur own, expect to leave by force with accusations of attempting to sllep with ur uncles wife hanging over ur name.

Staying in the village with mum while u network ur contacts on fone wherever to get a job is better than d indefinite and unappreciated house help u have signed for.

You better get a house of your own ASAP otherwise you'll continue getting disrespected. It's her house just like she rightly said. You don't know whether her and your uncle paid 50/50 house rent to warrant that statement. Afterall na you go their house them no invite you.


Go and get a place to stay have your privacy and respect and stop this entitlement mentality of its my uncle's house.

Kx:
If u don't leave now on ur own, expect to leave by force with accusations of attempting to sllep with ur uncles wife hanging over ur name.

Staying in the village with mum while u network ur contacts on fone wherever to get a job is better than d indefinite and unappreciated house help u have signed for.

If I were you...I would just report her to my uncle...and if my uncle turns deaf ears...I'll pack my things and leave his house..

No you can't live peacefully with her.
Just hurry and get a job and move out Biko.
She's obviously troublesome.
If you even have another place to stay while you search for a job, move there.
Before someone will say you're scattering their marriage because that's what reporting her to her husband will be like.

Maybe she did not approve of your stay to start with and your uncle went ahead to invite you over.

Then what are you still doing there?
If you are not welcome, LEAVE!!!!!
Simple!!!!

1st of all, this sounds like those nollywood movies which features Mama G and Osofia.
2nd of all, disobeying ur mum by not listening to her advise alone has landed u in deep shit to regret.
3rd of all, why should a grown man like u go sit in his uncle's plc?
4th of all, young man get ur ass together and go hustle in d street, are u a learner?

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You can't and won't please her! When someone hates you do heaven & earth, they'll still demand for your head.
If you don't believe ask GEJ & North......
Best bet.....
You didn't go for holidays, don't sit and watch tv go out in the streets even if you're not yet working once it's time your uncle comes back from work head back home

Just pray for direction and wisdom... Not easy living in someone else's house.

Hahaha!

I just laughed because I am experiencing similar thing. Had to move to my uncle's house for proximity to work. It has not been a pleasant experience, in fact this night she sent the cook to tell me that if I come later than 9pm kitchen has closed.

Hehe! Fuuuck your food, I care less. Not when my mum & colleagues force me to eat.

The woman answers my greeting with her nose, utter words loosely, will tell the cook to not keep me dinner (how many I dey chop sef) and all, yet I never challenged her or told my uncle. But I made peace with myself 2 months ago that she can't make me unhappy.

I anticipated her attitude before coming but my dad insisted. Right now I have given her the space she needs, don't even light her cooking gas or watch TV. I am just solo and it makes sense.

All this is for a time, I won't be here forever. So OP respect your self, no be your papa house, women can be very funny. Not watching TV or enjoying other things won't kill you.

BTW, my uncle is such a pleasant angel.