Would you feel disrespected if this happens to you?

If a friend comes over to see you than she and your housemate (male) who is friends with your partner goes out to get dinner but they stayed longer than it should have taken.

1 week later in a hot fight with your partner he mentioned that your friend and the housemate in a bad way, telling you about their "washing" while they went and got dinner the other time; that's why they stayed too long because they were "washing" in the car park.

You came and asked the housemate if it was true that he "washed" your friend at a common car park when she came for a visit, he denies the whole thing but is texting your partner why he has to tell you. You let the whole thing go but some how you can't shake the feeling of disrespect off.

I don't know for someone reason should I feel hurt or disrespected or just gross out. Like I don't really care they are both adults but I don't know. Now I just think she comes over just for my housemate and not to actually "visit me".

The question should be, is it supposed to be my business?

And my answer is NO



I don't even know what respect has got to do with this

Lol

Washing


Pple and their use of funny terms...

Expression ability is not too good, but not minding that.........your Housemate is living his life and your friend enjoying the stuff...so why disturbing urself?
Advise is meet ur guy and enjoy ur life too. Let them be. They re adults.

hmmm maybe you guys are right but I just can't shake the feeling off.

hahaha lol I know right I had to use "washing" lol

LilMizzGood:
Would you feel disrespected if this happens to you?

If a friend comes over to see you than she and your housemate (male) who is friends with your partner goes out to get dinner but they stayed longer than it should have taken.

1 week later in a hot fight with your partner he mentioned that your friend and the housemate in a bad way, telling you about their "washing" while they went and got dinner the other time; that's why they stayed too long because they were "washing" in the car park.

You came and asked the housemate if it was true that he "washed" your friend at a common car park when she came for a visit, he denies the whole thing but is texting your partner why he has to tell you. You let the whole thing go but some how you can't shake the feeling of disrespect off.

I don't know for someone reason should I feel hurt or disrespected or just gross out. Like I don't really care they are both adults but I don't know. Now I just think she comes over just for my housemate and not to actually "visit me".

You're just a little jealous. No shame in it, happens to the best of us.

LilMizzGood:
Would you feel disrespected if this happens to you?

If a friend comes over to see you than she and your housemate (male) who is friends with your partner goes out to get dinner but they stayed longer than it should have taken.

1 week later in a hot fight with your partner he mentioned that your friend and the housemate in a bad way, telling you about their "washing" while they went and got dinner the other time; that's why they stayed too long because they were "washing" in the car park.

You came and asked the housemate if it was true that he "washed" your friend at a common car park when she came for a visit, he denies the whole thing but is texting your partner why he has to tell you. You let the whole thing go but some how you can't shake the feeling of disrespect off.

I don't know for someone reason should I feel hurt or disrespected or just gross out. Like I don't really care they are both adults but I don't know. Now I just think she comes over just for my housemate and not to actually "visit me".

wtf are you talking about aren't your housemate and friend adults? do you feed or pay either of their way in life? are you secretly your "friend's" mother?

instead of taking issue with your house mate and friend, you should take issue with your man who insulted you by connecting you with your friend and housemate's slutty ways

BuddhaPalm:


You're just a little jealous. No shame in it, happens to the best of us.

no it's not jealousy.

25omega:
wtf are you talking about aren't your housemate and friend adults? do you feed or pay either of their way in life? are you secretly your "friend's" mother?

instead of taking issue with your house mate and friend, you should take issue with your man who insulted you by connecting you with your friend and housemate's slutty ways

huh I don't understand a lot of what you said.

LilMizzGood:


huh I don't understand a lot of what you said.

i didn't type a parable. it was pretty straight forward.

I don't know like I said all of you guys have a point but again because I am a upfront person I just think if they liked or just want to be washing buddies, she should not use "visiting me" as a I guess a path way to see my housemate. she should just be upfront when she comes over and just say I am here to see your housemate.

I mean if she just done it like that it wouldn't have much impact on me as it is now, founding out from my hubby and than my housemate denying about it while texting my hubby "why you have to tell her" like really.

you get caught out just come front with it and admit it.

Bottom line is both should just be upfront and not playing hankey pankey like I am some type of fool.

After stressing myself all day looking for my daily bread,I will now come and give myself headache because I want to understand the gibberish the o.p wrote up there?! impossible!




Some people just can't write cohesively.

lol,you should really try using *sex* cos that's what they do,have sex.we're mostly adults here amd we get trust me.wash sounds soo funny,lol.
ok for your question,I don't want to join d bandwagon and say mind your business which u should do anyway.but I think you should talk to your friend about it,I think she's thinking what you're thinking(that you'd think she's using seeing you as an excuse to actually see your housemate)..let her know its ok,so she'd stop shaming herself and sexing at the park,I mean that's just low.

LilMizzGood:
Would you feel disrespected if this happens to you?

If a friend comes over to see you than she and your housemate (male) who is friends with your partner goes out to get dinner but they stayed longer than it should have taken.

1 week later in a hot fight with your partner he mentioned that your friend and the housemate in a bad way, telling you about their "washing" while they went and got dinner the other time; that's why they stayed too long because they were "washing" in the car park.

You came and asked the housemate if it was true that he "washed" your friend at a common car park when she came for a visit, he denies the whole thing but is texting your partner why he has to tell you. You let the whole thing go but some how you can't shake the feeling of disrespect off.

I don't know for someone reason should I feel hurt or disrespected or just gross out. Like I don't really care they are both adults but I don't know. Now I just think she comes over just for my housemate and not to actually "visit me".

sowie....yhu studied in togo??
Omg!!!
This shit is just like a new born baby tryna talk....
Pls explain in one word

Update:

sowie....yhu studied in togo??
Omg!!!
This shit is just like a new born baby tryna talk....
Pls explain in one word

you know if you have nothing nice to say, just Zap off!

ahsekeena:
After stressing myself all day looking for my daily bread,I will now come and give myself headache because I want to understand the gibberish the o.p wrote up there?! impossible!




Some people just can't write cohesively.

Did I made you suffer? No one held a gun in your head to read or comment on this.

Some people wants to read grammar and big big English when they don't even understand simple English.
How the heck you think you will understand grammatical English when you don't even understand the simple one?

LilMizzGood:


Did I made you suffer? No one held a gun in your head to read or comment on this.

Some people wants to read grammar and big big English when they don't even understand simple English.
How the heck you think you will understand grammatical English when you don't even understand the simple one?

What is grammatical english bikonu





I don't even understand what u wrote sef.


Please,leave me abeg.

OP, i get your point. its not jealousy you felt, its just that you didnt think or cant believe your friend was that kind of girl that would let a guy bleep her in a car at a car park. yea i think she has lost all respect you had for her. hmm just dont take her serious anymore

you shouldn't feel disrespected .it should rather be that of concern especially if your housemate is a player. if she likes him what's the biggie? just get her to confide in you, advice her and be happy she's happy. abi