histemple:


I almost didn't want to comment on this post for lack of words but your response was on point and factual too. Your generalisation might appear like an affront to women especially the few exceptions but you are very correct in my view. As a woman, it is easier for me to blame the adulterous man on the basis of sentiments but in all sincerity, Oluchi is a DEVIL
I'm just speechless. Our society has less moral values and it's fast going south. I have been thinking which planet both the woman and Akwusi came from. What an effrontery from a friend who should be ashamed, telling his friend to accept his fate.

onatisi:
there is more to this story. The man may be impotent and it may likely be an agreement between the man and his friend plus the woman . What bust the bubble was the underage the fake father wanted to marry off. In order to save the teenager the woman went to seek refuge and protection from the real father. How can someone have 5kids in a house and the man won't have even 1 if he is healthy .

ibedun:


The solution is to be unfaithful as well but marry we must.

zonax:



I have seen a situation in which a mans younger brother was the father of the elder brothers 3children from the elder brothers wife and they both only confessed when nemesis caught up with both of them (the younger brother and the elder bros wife),they both went blind same month and one is dead now.
Those children are still living now sha.
Na only woman know who impregnate am.

Teempakguy:
DNA test please.

onatisi:
amen oooo. They have finished that man , where will he start from ? The shame and ridicule he will face ? So he will start looking for a wife to marry then bear him children? There is something fishy about this story though ,how come the man wasn't even able to impregnate his wife ? Most likely ,the man is impotent and the woman just had no choice . There is something very fishy about the story. The 3 parties are still covering up the root cause of this issue

Eddygourdo:
take a chill pill oh. We haven't and we won't. the only message there was that I say that alot too. U should not take my text literally. haba

Teempakguy:
DNA test please.

Omotayor123:

oh, now I get.

Better to marry a reliable And trustworthy person.
Plus, don't go snatching babes from dudes as it my result to this.

My humble advice

cleric:


When some of us recommended that a wise man will always carry out a DNA test after the birth of each child, some called us names. The cost of a DNA test is minute compared to the real cost if it is discovered in future that you ain't the father. Be wise, be smart and get thinking.

ahamonyeka:
well that's true anyway.

nyabinghi:
[s]Someone said 83 percent of ndigbo are bastards[/s]