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Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
This question have.been bothering me and I dnt really know how to get answers to it. I have noticed that in this society married women/mothers place their kids above their husbands. Maybe am not able to get the point cos am not yet married with kids. But it still doesn't make sense The husband come first bfr the kids, you aren't the sole owner of the.baby so why should a.woman shift her attention from.her husband just because of a kid that belongs to both herself and her husband That is why I have also noticed that mothers tends to take all the glory in raising and bringing up kids, you see several messages on mothers.day, several pictures taken with mummy and so on which isn't always so on fathers day. No single father's day topic on NL frontage Some mothers even downgrade their husbands infrnt of the kids . You distance yourself from your husband in the course of being a good mother to your kids that is why some men end up cheating cos there isn't love in the family no more, unlike when Twas just you and ur husband with no baby yet. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
the love for their kids is for the kids... |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by falconey(m): 6:11pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
nature. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Dharniel:Meaning?? Do u know some women now see their husbands as a mere sperm donor? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by donholy28(m): 6:16pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
No love on earth is greater than a mother's love |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
rockstarB: explaining that my opinion is going to flood this e-space, and i'm not ready to type long... |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by chibwike(m): 6:24pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
they carried that child in their womb for nine months |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
chibwike:Some father would.be.glad to do same if Twas possible |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by miblolo(f): 7:03pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Thats because most men do not treat their wives after marriage,as suçh women turn to their kids as source of happiness. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by miblolo(f): 7:03pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Thats because most men do not treat their wives well after marriage,as suçh women turn to their kids as source of happiness. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by naijaboiy: 11:27pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Hmmm...I wouldn't like my wife to neglect me and transfer all her love to my kids. I would also avoid anything that will make such a thing happen. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by falconey(m): 11:32pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: she can't transfer all but the kids are taking most of it. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by naijaboiy: 11:48pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
falconey:I think I can. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Candyness(f): 11:51pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
rockstarB: “Sometimes when you pick up your child you can feel the map of your own bones beneath your hands, or smell the scent of your skin in the nape of his neck. This is the most extraordinary thing about motherhood - finding a piece of yourself separate and apart that all the same you could not live without.” |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Gurgle(f): 11:51pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
if I were behaving like that it would be because the guy had been maltreating me all this while and now I at least have someone to share my life with in the house so I would just start ignoring him and concentrate on my children if he was a good guy I would try and split my attention |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by falconey(m): 11:52pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
naijaboiy: really? Please do tell. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by naijaboiy: 11:58pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
falconey:Tell what? Is it not possible for you to make your wife love you as well as love your children at at the same time? The reason why so many men don't get love from their wives after marriage is because they neglect their wives and abandon all the responsibility of taking care of the kids on her shoulders. When the children are growing up they see all these things and tend to be closer to their mums. I won't let that happen in my own family. My children will love both me and my mum unconditionally. It's very simple. I wouldn't neglect my family. It's not all about providing the money for their upkeep. A man has to be there for them too. And I won't slack on that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by falconey(m): 12:09am On Jul 27, 2015 |
naijaboiy: I believe 80percent of men have this great concept but work takes most of our time. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by naijaboiy: 12:15am On Jul 27, 2015 |
falconey:Well i'm not going to be among those men that will allow work get in between I and my family. To each his own. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 1:31am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Its a special bond......words can express it. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by scribble: 3:30am On Jul 27, 2015 |
miblolo: What she said. If you want your wife's love, your mistress has to be like the air you breathe. Invisible to all. |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Dollyak(f): 3:33am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Because husband come and go but your children will always remain your children, so the saying goes in my ends. The world is fvcked up so whatever. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by roldee(m): 4:03am On Jul 27, 2015 |
This will not pass me buy Thank you |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Nobody: 4:51am On Jul 27, 2015 |
The bond between parent and child is greater than that between man and wife |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:07am On Jul 27, 2015 |
rockstarB:hmmm,okay |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:08am On Jul 27, 2015 |
falconey:u re vry correct here |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:09am On Jul 27, 2015 |
donholy28:I'm telling ya |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:12am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Gurgle: |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:12am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Gurgle:yeah,correct woman |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:13am On Jul 27, 2015 |
falconey:good point here,and well said |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by suzzy16(f): 10:16am On Jul 27, 2015 |
Rainess:yes dear |
Re: Why Do Mothers Place Their Kids Above Their Husbands?? by Gurgle(f): 12:17pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
suzzy16: you understand am |
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