obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be.

delishpot:


Craze woman. Is she from your place? Canvshe be forced to answer the summon?
This should direct your decision

obiksam:


She is from delta. The spirit give time to answer If she didn't answer nor withdraw her statements or apologize the spirit will strack her and if her family did not come the spirit will still continue.

delishpot:


That na for who believe all that na. Abeg, better to sue her to real court than all that spirit ish.
If she believes in it then summon her.
To me sha, I will leave her to her stupidity.

hugogerrard:
Summon her. This drama worths an explanation to the elders

obiksam:

Copied. But to sue her the welfare will gave her the children because they are not above 6 years.
To leave her to her stupidity and foolishness i think is the best even his mother have told him to leave her.
Thanks

delishpot:


So she did not abandon them kids? You took them from her and dont want her to have them. In your post you said she dumped them and left so she clearly will not want them even if welfare gave her the choice.
But OP to be fair, was the wife treated well? cos I have seven a lot in this world to conclude just anyhoe about people o

obiksam:

Nor matter what so ever she has no right to sens such sms to his mother, rrather she would have sent it to him. she abandon the kids. yes of cause she is been treated well, and his mother have never had and issue with her b4 so is surprising.

delishpot:



Well, if she was treated well then I feel the guys pain But dont tell me that no mater what so ever the mans mom had done even if the mon was wicked abd directly involved in this whole scenerio she should just ignore even when it has lead to the failure if her marriage and the seizure of her kids? If I was a woman and such happens to I will do same.
Anyhow sha. If the guy was a good husband and she decides to be a biatch and leave her kids and marriage, good ridiance to stinking rubish. I just feel sorry for the guy for investing his time and effort into the woman annd also for the kids caught up in her wicked and selfish act.
Like I said, I do not believe in such summon jaz. If the juju is so powerful let it make shecow run mad. Anyone that tries to summon me dey waste time. Better and sure result if you attack me physicaly than summon me walahi! I nor go come and nothing go happen. Thats why I said if she believes in it, and you so much want to make her say sorry. If her sorry will change anything that is; then summon her. If not better go and give her physical hot slap and end it there no time.

Good one

I will not 100% judge the woman now until we hear her iwn side if this story cos I have seen and withnessed a lot of things where marriage is concerned. My eyes don see plenty.

cococandy:
She's out of line calling your mom a witch.
Regardless.
But that's a symptom of a disease.

What's the disease? That's what you guys need to treat to prevent further occurrence of such in future. Your kids shouldn't grow up disrespecting their grandmother and that's what will happen if she continues like that.

What does she (ex) want from you and your family? If she left willingly, she will be happy to be out of your lives. Not unhappy and raining abuses from your family on the other side. You know what she wants and details that the we don't. But if you don't ,Figure that out and you will probably resolve the matter permanently

Meanwhile who's taking care of the little kids?

obiksam:


I Tire ooh, he is taking good care of the two kids by himself. I dont see any reason why she should sent such sms

obiksam:
Her wife left him 4 months ago leaving him with his two children, he have tried talking her back home but she refused rather than ranting abuses on him, So he decides not to call her again, suddenly his mother received an sms from her calling her a watch that she should confess and she also sent him same sms calling him and his entire family watchs.
He called the father in-law to warn her daughter to stop such act since she dose not want the marrage. But she continued sending rude sms to his mother. Now he wants to summon her at CHOKO NA EZE in Nbaisi Imo state for her to come and defend her sms why she should call his mother witch.
House kinded advice what should he do. Summon her or just let the fool be.

EggovinMma:
A nd what if the woman is actually a witch?

chimkaire:
U dey mind am? Some peeps are consoling him already with "she's craving for attention"

chimkaire:
how do U want me to believe you You aint a witch yet you are taking her to "someplace sinister" emmmmmm...how una take dey know the way to such places, biko? She's suddenly crazed out now she aint with you yet you claim she "abandoned" the kids and right now, you are jittery about Welfare cos they will grant her custody of the kids? What do take peeps on here for Una don win, anything else...? Silence the woman na e remain okwaya?

EggovinMma:


My mind drifted to the bolded. If she noticed any diabolic foul play, she better stay off! Those diabolic Imos can be mean o.

chimkaire:
how do U want me to believe you You aint a witch yet you are taking her to "someplace sinister" emmmmmm...how una take dey know the way to such places, biko? She's suddenly crazed out now she aint with you yet you claim she "abandoned" the kids and right now, you are jittery about Welfare cos they will grant her custody of the kids? What do take peeps on here for Una don win, anything else...? Silence the woman na e remain okwaya?

tearoses:
She is looking for attention
Ignore her

obiksam:

To summon her is for her to come and speak how the mother in-law bewitched her, when you face some hard times no body will show you such places just wait. Yes for her to abandon her own kids on a slight provocation for 4 months now and suddely send such sms. so there is a good chance that she will as well abandon them again or kill them in a slightest provocation so is better that the kids stays with the father.

EggovinMma:


Was expecting that from nlders anyway.
If the wife is running away from her matrimonial home, despite the stigma she may face as a single mother, there's certainly something that is really that bad going on.If she calls the in law a witch, then she may be.Some are witches!