Hello guys,sorry if wat am about to say would make me appear naive,...maybe it does..there's this great girl am dating,we are both into each other,she's cute,amazing and all,the thing is i never asked for a visit but she wants to visit me,well,depending on the type of guy i am(timid)i dont really get visits from girls,the thing is how can i host a wonderful visit to her?what are those things i could do to make her enjoy her stay?.pls guys i really wanna try removing the sex part for now;am nt really a sex freak,and i dont want her to feel like thats what our love for each other is all about...pls i'll love to hear great answers.thanx NAIRALANDERS in advance..

Maybe introvert will know

You've gat to Know what Kinda Things she Likes. Does she Likes movies? What Kind? Is she an outdoor Person? Is she 'Ms Cuddly' ?

You just have to Make her Comfortable shikena

Make the environment as nice as you can.

Prepare for her, her favourite meal.

Get those funny Indian movies ready for her. (funny I said, not weird )

Take her out if you can. (Stadium, Swimming pool, cinema etc) according to your capability.

Play games together on phone or system (Scrabble, Zuma, fruit ninja etc)

Surprise her with gift (what you know she really needs)

Kiss her when necessary, she needs it.

I won't talk about sex that much because it depends on 2 of you. Some girls may want it while some will respect you d more if you can love them without making love to them, I think you should know your babe more.
















LAST BOMB: Don't give her any transport fare when she's leaving so that it won't become "dutifully", when she gets back home you can then make a bank transfer (if u really wanna give her something).


As per medium level lover-guy, you've tried if you could do all the above "lovy-dovy" hosting. Davhid

Be calm.. It depends on your budget and If you are staying alone + how many days is she gonna stay with you! Answer this 1st.

Be yourself and think of the issue @ hand. Consider ur recent situation, worries... As for the sex part... Try being more romantic... Ladies love calm, romantic and matured niggas who is up to the task.

Hawlahscho:
Typing

Ola! how you dey?

BANGERLEE1:
Be calm.. It depends on your budget and If you are staying alone + how many days is she gonna stay with you! Answer this 1st.

okay am not staying alone,there's this sure banger that when she visits,my uncles(mom's brothers) will probably be at home,not scared about that though,my mom(single) will be at her work place then...and about my finance,a lil' below average...over to you.

You can cook her fav dish together, watch movies, gist generally and laugh

Slimzjoe:
You've gat to Know what Kinda Things she Likes. Does she Likes movies? What Kind? Is she an outdoor Person? Is she 'Ms Cuddly' ?

You just have to Make her Comfortable shikena

wow,helpful...thanks...and oh boy!..she's a movie freak but for our area,light get small wahala o,hence,the movie part wont really work out,which is why am trying so hard to avoid a very boring moment together...yur comment made sense still.

Dude,take dis one advice:
Mak Sure To Lay Her,It'l Boost Ur Value To Her

#GirlsAreNtLogical

Sapphire06:
You can cook her fav dish together, watch movies, gist generally and laugh

Thanks sis,but dat her fav food ehnn,e dey take hours to cook o,lol,for those of us from this part of the south/south region(akwa ibom)ekpang nkukwo no easy to prepare o...twas helpful though...

Oyind17:




Ola! how you dey?

Fine, I am. What about you

PunterTim:
Dude,take dis one advice:

Mak Sure To Lay Her,It'l Boost Ur Value To Her


#GirlsAreNtLogical

hmmmm,tis is wat i ws trying to avoid...gals pls advice me o..do you peeps often need sex to feel loved?cos dat is wat most guys say a gal needs in a relationship to feel more loved,tho i still see this as moot...just asking o,but anyway,guy i find her sexually attractive but i dont wanna initiate that on her first visit...trust me she's smart...

Davhid:

okay am not staying alone,there's this sure banger that when she visits,my uncles(mom's brothers) will probably be at home,not scared about that though,my mom(single) will be at her work place then...and about my finance,a lil' below average...over to you.

So let's say she's gonna stay for 2-3days....

Try and make her feel comfortable by trying to cook for her the first time she comes... Don't go out on the 1st day... Try and be indoor and watch a nice/romantic movie..

The next day- Take her out to a very nice and romantic spot.. I'm sure you know her taste... Make sure the environment is very cool and not too rugged so that she won't feel uncomfortable


Be yourself and don't exceed what you have in ur pocket... If you have some cash left you can take her go grab some stuffs in the supermarket and get her something Nice..something to Wow her to show ur love.

Then you can head back to your house what happen next I don't need to tell you....am sure she's gonna appreciate it believe me!

Hawlahscho:
Make the environment as nice as you can.

Prepare for her, her favourite meal.

Get those funny Indian movies ready for her. (funny I said, not weird )

Take her out if you can. (Stadium, Swimming pool, cinema etc) according to your capability.

Play games together on phone or system (Scrabble, Zuma, fruit ninja etc)

Surprise her with gift (what you know she really needs)

Kiss her when necessary, she needs it.

I won't talk about sex that much because it depends on 2 of you. Some girls may want it while some will respect you d more if you can love them without making love to them, I think you should know your babe more.
















LAST BOMB: Don't give her any transport fare when she's leaving so that it won't become "dutifully", when she gets back home you can then make a bank transfer (if u really wanna give her something).


As per medium level lover-guy, you've tried if you could do all the above "lovy-dovy" hosting. Davhid

WOW!!!...NICE!..THANKS.

sunnyb0b0:
Maybe introvert will know

Why's everybody mentioning introvert on every thread?

BANGERLEE1:
So let's say she's gonna stay for 2-3days....

Try and make her feel comfortable by trying to cook for her the first time she comes... Don't go out on the 1st day... Try and be indoor and watch a nice/romantic movie..

The next day- Take her out to a very nice and romantic spot.. I'm sure you know her taste... Make sure the environment is very cool and not too rugged so that she won't feel uncomfortable


Be yourself and don't exceed what you have in ur pocket... If you have some cash left you can take her go grab some stuffs in the supermarket and get her something Nice..something to Wow her to show ur love.

Then you can head back to your house what happen next I don't need to tell you....am sure she's gonna appreciate it believe me!

uhmmm,to be truthful bruh...am in my teenage age(19yrs)no castigation plsss,...d tin is i dont really see the above mentioned happening,she's just coming for a few hours visit,i stay with my mom n uncles,trust me am nt dat independent....your point sounds perfect,i.e only if i was really on my own...thanx tho.

Hawlahscho:


Fine, I am. What about you

Fine thanks

Davhid:

hmmmm,tis is wat i ws trying to avoid...gals pls advice me o..do you peeps often need sex to feel loved?cos dat is wat most guys say a gal needs in a relationship to feel more loved,tho i still see this as moot...just asking o,but anyway,guy i find her sexually attractive but i dont wanna initiate that on her first visit...trust me she's smart...

Dnt wanna sound lyk a Misogynist bt WHO GIV DEM SMARTNESS
Bro,strike while d iron is hot

Dnt Com Bak Wit Stories That Touch D Hrt

PunterTim:
Dnt wanna sound lyk a Misogynist bt WHO GIV DEM SMARTNESS
Bro,strike while d iron is hot

Dnt Com Bak Wit Stories That Touch D Hrt

hahahahahahaha,funny guy...its cool though,but the reason am trying not to initiate the sex part is that i respect her thats all,and i just wanna let her know that our relationship aint all about sex...i know somehow she'll understand this....the reason i did put up this thread was to know how a visit like this could be handled very maturedly without leading to sex..or not become boring per say..

Davhid:

hahahahahahaha,funny guy...its cool though,i respect her thats all.

I shudnt b quoting u here bt im compelled to do d following:

Lyk u sed ure 19,im afraid u havent yet come to realise d intricacies of Dating,Manhood and Women

Many guys(Men) dnt knw wat it takes to b a MAN,u nid to realize dat ure one powerful being n nt some tool to please d oda gender

Stop tinkin abt Romeo n Juliet kind of love cos it dosent exist,nt in dis very harsh world...
Show her ure incharge or she'l soon charge u outta her lyf! #Fact

I'l write a post on dis one day

PunterTim:
I shudnt b quoting u here bt im compelled to do d following:

Lyk u sed ure 19,im afraid u havent yet come to realise d intricacies of Dating,Manhood and Women

Many guys(Men) dnt knw wat it takes to b a MAN,u nid to realize dat ure one powerful being n nt some tool to please d oda gender

Stop tinkin abt Romeo n Juliet kind of love cos it dosent exist,nt in dis very harsh world...
Show her ure incharge or she'l soon charge u outta her lyf! #Fact

I'l write a post on dis one day

you peeps are making this harder than it seems,....cant a nice healthy relationship exist without sex?sex?sex?..

Davhid:

you peeps are making this harder than it seems,....cant a nice healthy relationship exist without sex?sex?sex?..

Ya,it can bt u'l hav to ask d females abt dat!

Look,they want it too,they jus pretend n do shakara wit it;Dnt initiate it n they'l tink ure Gay(no offence to Gays)

Jus dnt bliv dier lies,they absolutely want/love it,they jus dnt want u lookin @ it as d only tin they can offer...

Bro,Trust Me On Dis