AgapeCharis:
It is. You no dey try again.

If you say I hardly chat now then that's true, I'm mostly busy this days .

But if you say I give abbreviated replies or only chat when money is involved then you're not on my contact at all.

jeoprince250:
can't u see her profile name, the pride is written already. Mumu!

U go blame all these girls, nothing them sabi

AdaNri1:
[size=20pt]this is an objective view and I'd say you already knew the Kenyan girl hence the address by name and the apology for not keeping in touch. However you hardly know the Nigerian and she seems cautious to tell you about herself not out of rudeness but she doesn't want to encourage you, would you blame her? If she's friendly she's called a gold digging slut, If tomorrow she ends up dead or scammed you'll call her a fool. The American girl is just being polite because she knows you'll be tracked down if you were in America in the case of any crime.
Stop giving Nigerian girls a bad name, it's called survival of species, they don't want to chat with an absolute stranger because they don't trust them.[/size]

SERMON on the MOUNTAIN......
Abeggggggiiiiii ...
Keep up ur k kk kkk attitude!!! Una dey ku klux klan

Mznaett:
Are u really intending a joke or an insult to Naija ladies?




Instead of u guyz 2be proud of what u have mtcheew

lol


Abeg make una go use dat rope 4 una back yard tie una neck jor if d tin pain una like dat mtcheew

Babe there's just nothing to be proud about when it comes to Naija babes,they are really sickening,they only begin to behave like humans when they sense that a guy has some greenbacks to throw around

Inferiority complex is what is killing naija guys,small tyn they'll get upset,then they'll now form one small group to boost their deflated ego nd their main topic-GIRLS

elantraceey:



If you say I hardly chat now then that's true, I'm mostly busy this days .

But if you say I give abbreviated replies or only chat when money is involved then you're not on my contact at all.

How about when the person knows who you are personally and even talks with you offline?

An2elect2:
Thats how we roll

See dis 1

1miccza:



How about when the person knows who you are personally and even talks with you offline?

Lol , then the person will have to bring in evidence. The only thing I know I say often which are actually monosyllabic are 'lol' and 'hmmmm'.

@Op, you are very correct

elantraceey:



Lol , then the person will have to bring in evidence. The only thing I know I say often which are actually monosyllabic are 'lol' and 'hmmmm'.

And honestly when i chat with any lady,as soon as i notice those replies my mood shuts down instantly and i get bored.. I've had loads of female friends with such an attitude and i have also forgotten that they ever existed....

Mcowubaba:
See dis 1

k

Real funny 0000000000

Are u really intending a joke or an insult to Naija ladies?

Instead of u guyz 2be proud of what u have mtcheew
lol
Abeg make una go use dat rope 4 una back yard tie una neck jor if d tin pain una like dat mtcheew[/quote]



my dear sister, d OP's post shouldn't b seen as a downgrade bt as correction to b used d betterment of any lady who reads it. a lot of naija girls lack substance. a fine face and nice shape has limits and only real substance can take u beyond those limits. Abeg make una improve!

Ayolaw2003:
On a more realistic note... I think our girls aint as bad as we paint them. I don't expect a lady who is educated to be classless and falls into every chats (especially anonymous chats). Our girls like to live shoulders-high and I think we need to accept them as they are and we (guys) can always bring them 'shoulders-down'. Its so simple....even if a girl should respond to your message 15mins or more like the Op stated, nothing stops you from asking her later why she's didn't respond in time..
Nigerian girls are the BEST in the world! I love and value Nigerian girls.

I hope you are not presently been mugurised by one small girl who doesn't have your time.Hence your defending Nija girls distasteful attitude on social media.

Sadly, you're correct! I don't want to say our girls are dumb, but majority just zone-in for the cash and can't make any sensible conversation!

So, it may not be that they are clueless, just disinterested in anything that isn't about fashion, food, fad or cash to fund the acquisition of the first three!

Some ladies like LadyBoss1 and missclassy impress me with their minds...and I'm sure there are several others on Nairaland with strong minds and character, but most aren't worth wasting time with...except sex is the only desirable!

Dklef:
MY CHAT WITH A WHITE GIRL :
.
.
Me: Hey. . .

. . .She: hey,hi

. . .Me: cool.how are u?

. . .She: I'm good and u?

. . .Me: I'm good too.kindly tell me about
yourself

. . .She: uhmmm,ok.I'm Vivian Craig,from
the United
States, I'm the only daughter.Still in high
school.Like skating,spongeb ob, dancing,and drawing. Uhm,i'll
stop there.Anything else,feel free to ask
me
.
.

MY CHATS WITH A KENYAN GIRL .

.

.
Me : hello rhonda

. . . She : hi! It's been a while!

. . .Me : I'm sorry,I've just been busy..work
and everything

. . .She : awwwwn,poor dear,i
understand.hope you are ok?

. . .Me : yes dear,i am..how's life in Nairobi?

. . .She : so so fast and noisy..everyone 's hustling.i just
resumed school.how's lagos?
.
.
.

MY CHATS WITH A NIGERIAN GIRL : .

.

.
Me: Hello

. . . She: I

. . .Me: uhm,ok..how are you?

. . .She: 5n

. . .Me: how's your day going?

. . .She: (after 15mins) 5n

. . .Me: Please,kindly tell me about yourself

. . .She: Y?

. . .Me: nothing much dear,just want to
know you better

. . .She: check my profile

. . .Me: seriously??

. . .She: kk
.
.
..Idiots

An2elect2:
k

Whatever!!!! Bleep off»

Lolll... Funny

Typical Naija babe!

FestacGirl:

what do you want to know

Mcowubaba:
Whatever!!!! Bleep off»

kk

1miccza:


And honestly when i chat with any lady,as soon as i notice those replies my mood shuts down instantly and i get bored.. I've had loads of female friends with such an attitude and i have also forgotten that they ever existed....

There are sometimes that a simple lol or hmmm is not so inappropriate in a conversation as long as it's followed with something else .

elantraceey:



There are sometimes that a simple lol or hmmm is not so inappropriate in a conversation as long as it's followed with something else .

You know people indulge in chats both online and offline for various reasons,personally when i'm bored and really need someone to crack me up or at least lighten my mood then the reverse happens and the person begins to reply with lol hmmmm and all those "what nots" it sure would be more than annoying you know... When it's followed with something sensible it's no longer a one liner,then it's a chat

Mznaett:
Are u really intending a joke or an insult to Naija ladies?




Instead of u guyz 2be proud of what u have mtcheew

lol


Abeg make una go use dat rope 4 una back yard tie una neck jor if d tin pain una like dat mtcheew

Taaaaaaa!

maiahsaiah:
Inferiority complex is what is killing naija guys,small tyn they'll get upset,then they'll now form one small group to boost their deflated ego nd their main topic-GIRLS

Taah! Inferiority gini?

See now, you've succesfully shown everybody where you belong on this.
In as much as i fully respect your opinion, i think you're fully guilty of it and a gold-digging naive girl, that lacks exposure.
I believe a guy must not have to be rich and wealthy before getting along with a girl, and did i hear you talking about deflated ego? Girls like you are the ones who be going to shrine, churches, night vigils and greasing poles underneat fake prophet's trouser simply because during your days, you were busy gold-digging and bullying the male genders while expecting them to go to hell and back before they can get your attention. For what? Not your fault!
Funny enough, the guys you fall inlove with are the ones who regards you as nothing but a cheap c.unt to offload s.emen.

Quite unfurtunate.

true talk bunch of cowards, naija girls don tired me, off to Canada

FestacGirl:

Who said i want anybodies money

Leave that talk. Nah your type Wan finish my money last year.

Na real, correct info, be ds! And so true! But frm d lil investigation i did n concluded dat, d babe no just gbadun d bobo n thus, d non-challant effort at kpin d gist, flowing. It mit b d bobo, post one wretched pix on him dp, or e no just sound, smooth n americanish *winks *,u know now.
Check out badoo, we chat n 2go platforms:inshort,dem d fear, mak dia illiteracy, no seep thru oo

1miccza:


You know people indulge in chats both online and offline for various reasons,personally when i'm bored and really need someone to crack me up or at least lighten my mood then the reverse happens and the person begins to reply with lol hmmmm and all those "what nots" it sure would be more than annoying you know... When it's followed with something sensible it's no longer a one liner,then it's a chat

Well you're right , but there should be something that incurred the hmmm and lol.

Dklef:
MY CHAT WITH A WHITE GIRL : . . Me: Hey. . .
. . .She: hey,hi
. . .Me: cool.how are u?
. . .She: I'm good and u?
. . .Me: I'm good too.kindly tell me about yourself
. . .She: uhmmm,ok.I'm Vivian Craig,from the United States, I'm the only daughter.Still in high school.Like skating,spongeb ob, dancing,and drawing. Uhm,i'll stop there.Anything else,feel free to ask me . .
MY CHATS WITH A KENYAN GIRL .
.
. Me : hello rhonda
. . . She : hi! It's been a while!
. . .Me : I'm sorry,I've just been busy..work and everything
. . .She : awwwwn,poor dear,i understand.hope you are ok?
. . .Me : yes dear,i am..how's life in Nairobi?
. . .She : so so fast and noisy..everyone 's hustling.i just resumed school.how's lagos? . . .
MY CHATS WITH A NIGERIAN GIRL : .
.
. Me: Hello
. . . She: I
. . .Me: uhm,ok..how are you?
. . .She: 5n
. . .Me: how's your day going?
. . .She: (after 15mins) 5n
. . .Me: Please,kindly tell me about yourself
. . .She: Y?
. . .Me: nothing much dear,just want to know you better
. . .She: check my profile
. . .Me: seriously??
. . .She: kk . . ..Idiots

Lol... 9ja girls sha

elantraceey:



Well you're right , but there should be something that incurred the hmmm and lol.

Most ladies are just like that,in my own view politely backing out of the chat or ending the chat would be better off than those one liners..

Mznaett:
Are u really intending a joke or an insult to Naija ladies?




Instead of u guyz 2be proud of what u have mtcheew

lol


Abeg make una go use dat rope 4 una back yard tie una neck jor if d tin pain una like dat mtcheew

Pls what do we have??