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You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by Riwo11(f): 7:23am On Jul 30, 2015 |
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Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by ikbnice(m): 7:24am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Riwo11:she starts addressing you as big bros. |
Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by Riwo11(f): 7:29am On Jul 30, 2015 |
ikbnice:Lol. Na so bro! |
Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 30, 2015 |
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Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by popweezy(m): 10:19am On Jul 30, 2015 |
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Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by yinkarh187(m): 11:01am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Here are the common signs that show that
you've been friend-zoned.
**Sign 1: You're In The Friends Zone if
they call ONLY to ask for a favor... Do
they ONLY connect with you when they
need something? Like, ask you to drive
them around, pick up some stuff at the
store, or even ask you to go shopping
with them so maybe you'll buy them
something? (Girls do this more). And
you do all these things for
them...thinking it's their way of
spending quality time with you. You're
getting closer... WRONG. They are only
using you - and you're a handy
"orbiter" that they can depend on
because they know how you feel - but
won't reciprocate. .
**Sign 2: You're In The Friends Zone if
you get a late reply. Again and again.
You send them a message on the phone,
Facebook, or Twitter and they don't
reply. You wait for hours, resend your
messages and still no reply. And when
they finally do, you get a short one-
word responses like "yep", "okay",
"fine". That's a sure sign - you're
friend-zoned! C'mon, if they were hot
for you, they'd be excited to hear from
you. They'd use any excuse to
communicate with you. They'd jump on
it and reply QUICK because they are
excited and anticipate hearing from
you. If they don't act that way, then that
means that they're not thinking of you
and don't feel that rush when you
contact them. And that's not a good
sign...
***Sign 3: You're In The Friends Zone if
they tell you about someone of the
opposite sex they like... If they talk
about another guy/girl they like in front
of you, that's a sure sign that they see
you as only a friend. And if you're
thinking that she/he is doing that to
make you jealous... then think again.
What you'd want is for them to know
that you're there because you like them.
If they really like you back, they'll try to
get to know you – and you'll NEVER
hear about any other guy or babe. Next
time this happens, take a deep breath
and decide if you belong in this zone
and if it is worth it,if not please cut
your losses and walk before you begin
to look like a chump.
***Sign 4: You're In The Friends Zone
when they introduce you as a "friend"
This is pretty much the clearest signal
that they are not attracted to you. You
see, a woman tells her girlfriends about
the guy she likes whenever she talks to
them. And when she introduces that guy
to them she'll never say "he's my
friend" - because she wants that guy to
like her back! NOT think of each other
as just "friends." If they like you, you'll
see their friends giving you that look
and will even tease you both about
being together. That's just how
straightforward everything is. So, if you
hear the words "Meet my friend Joe or
Vicky" then you are just a friend!
**Sign 5: You're In The Friends Zone if
they don't flirt back... Have you ever
noticed her treating you like the way
she treats her girlfriends? The way she
hugs and kiss them when she greets
them. Do you try to flirt with her?
Touch her arm, her hair - and she's
blind to everything you do? She laughs
and teases you just like she does with
everyone else? Friend zone alert!
Remember that that most important
indication of interest from a partner is
their BEHAVIOR. If they are aren't
doing the things people normally do
when interested, then they are just not
into you. It's up to you to treat them
like a stock on the market that you're
investing in.
When they refuse to give you the return
you demand, you need to "sell" and go
find an opportunity that's going to pay
you dividends. Anything less than this
is only going to leave you emotionally
bankrupt at the end of the day. And you
deserve to get a partner that wants you
just as much as you want them. ''Put
simply, people value what they work to
obtain and invest in. They have more
attraction and respect for individuals
for whom they perform favors (Jecker &
Landy, 1969). They also find
relationships more valuable and
commit more fully''.
In Conclusion: The friend zone can be
avoided. All it takes is a little personal
development to be more attractive,
finding better partners who "fit", being
a bit more assertive about what you
need, and/or motivating others to give
back and invest in you too. Are you in
love with someone who has put you in
friend zone and you are hurting or
pretending you dont know and wishing
for things to change?..Do you give them
sex as a bait? Honey put on your
running shoes and cross over to the
next Boulevard! Easier said than done
right?Well you are the one who is in a
friend zone,not me! Source: SDK blog. |
Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by yinkarh187(m): 11:02am On Jul 30, 2015 |
Here are the common signs that show that
you've been friend-zoned.
**Sign 1: You're In The Friends Zone if
they call ONLY to ask for a favor... Do
they ONLY connect with you when they
need something? Like, ask you to drive
them around, pick up some stuff at the
store, or even ask you to go shopping
with them so maybe you'll buy them
something? (Girls do this more). And
you do all these things for
them...thinking it's their way of
spending quality time with you. You're
getting closer... WRONG. They are only
using you - and you're a handy
"orbiter" that they can depend on
because they know how you feel - but
won't reciprocate. .
**Sign 2: You're In The Friends Zone if
you get a late reply. Again and again.
You send them a message on the phone,
Facebook, or Twitter and they don't
reply. You wait for hours, resend your
messages and still no reply. And when
they finally do, you get a short one-
word responses like "yep", "okay",
"fine". That's a sure sign - you're
friend-zoned! C'mon, if they were hot
for you, they'd be excited to hear from
you. They'd use any excuse to
communicate with you. They'd jump on
it and reply QUICK because they are
excited and anticipate hearing from
you. If they don't act that way, then that
means that they're not thinking of you
and don't feel that rush when you
contact them. And that's not a good
sign...
***Sign 3: You're In The Friends Zone if
they tell you about someone of the
opposite sex they like... If they talk
about another guy/girl they like in front
of you, that's a sure sign that they see
you as only a friend. And if you're
thinking that she/he is doing that to
make you jealous... then think again.
What you'd want is for them to know
that you're there because you like them.
If they really like you back, they'll try to
get to know you – and you'll NEVER
hear about any other guy or babe. Next
time this happens, take a deep breath
and decide if you belong in this zone
and if it is worth it,if not please cut
your losses and walk before you begin
to look like a chump.
***Sign 4: You're In The Friends Zone
when they introduce you as a "friend"
This is pretty much the clearest signal
that they are not attracted to you. You
see, a woman tells her girlfriends about
the guy she likes whenever she talks to
them. And when she introduces that guy
to them she'll never say "he's my
friend" - because she wants that guy to
like her back! NOT think of each other
as just "friends." If they like you, you'll
see their friends giving you that look
and will even tease you both about
being together. That's just how
straightforward everything is. So, if you
hear the words "Meet my friend Joe or
Vicky" then you are just a friend!
**Sign 5: You're In The Friends Zone if
they don't flirt back... Have you ever
noticed her treating you like the way
she treats her girlfriends? The way she
hugs and kiss them when she greets
them. Do you try to flirt with her?
Touch her arm, her hair - and she's
blind to everything you do? She laughs
and teases you just like she does with
everyone else? Friend zone alert!
Remember that that most important
indication of interest from a partner is
their BEHAVIOR. If they are aren't
doing the things people normally do
when interested, then they are just not
into you. It's up to you to treat them
like a stock on the market that you're
investing in.
When they refuse to give you the return
you demand, you need to "sell" and go
find an opportunity that's going to pay
you dividends. Anything less than this
is only going to leave you emotionally
bankrupt at the end of the day. And you
deserve to get a partner that wants you
just as much as you want them. ''Put
simply, people value what they work to
obtain and invest in. They have more
attraction and respect for individuals
for whom they perform favors (Jecker &
Landy, 1969). They also find
relationships more valuable and
commit more fully''.
In Conclusion: The friend zone can be
avoided. All it takes is a little personal
development to be more attractive,
finding better partners who "fit", being
a bit more assertive about what you
need, and/or motivating others to give
back and invest in you too. Are you in
love with someone who has put you in
friend zone and you are hurting or
pretending you dont know and wishing
for things to change?..Do you give them
sex as a bait? Honey put on your
running shoes and cross over to the
next Boulevard! Easier said than done
right?Well you are the one who is in a
friend zone,not me! Source: SDK blog. |
Re: You Are In A Friend Zone IF.......... by Dega128(m): 11:09am On Jul 30, 2015 |
yinkarh187: |
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