Please help me.
I met a gal by chance and we started talking, whenever we chat, she would tell me how she treated men and how she explore money from those she don't love. After some times being friends, I started aving feelings for her and I told her, she laughed jokingly that she can't date me cos I know her secrets, that I can judge her with dat every time. I didn't force it, after some days I told my mum about her and my mum said she wanna know her, I told her my mum wanna meet her(she feel on top of the world) we fix date and she said she wanna come. She asked me to send all my pix and my mum pix to her. I asked her why and she said she wanna av them on her phone, moreover that she is loving me already. I was not carried away, my love for her grow everyday.
On the D-day, she came and we talk and she meet my mum and she was very excited. She went home (we didn't do anything). But to my biggest surprise, she message me and she said we need to take things slow, that she need to work on herself, so we should pretend nothing happens.(and she warned me not to tell my mum dat we not dating) So we just b friends. I didn't wanna force her. She said she would come and see my at my work place the following day, but I called her and she didn't pick up. She blocked me from calling her and didn't show up. I was mad with myself, I couldn't control d emotions, I felt sick. I send her text and she said she don't wanna date me, if she did,she would hurt me and she don't wanna do that cos she thinks am a cool guy. Day passes, I tried chatting with her And she take years to reply my message( d truth is am not trying to convince her to date me, just want to talk to her normal) and we never she reply she would tell me to stop disturbing her that since we are friends, we don't need to chat here an there, and if I disturb her too much she would delete me on BBM, I tried to get on he nerve but she didn't delete me on bbm. So my friend advice my to forget about her. Which I did. But she is on my BBM list and she is always online(one of my friends told me maybe she is testing me if I will give up on her, which is not true) . I need ur advice if I should delete her or not.

Can't you see the sign?

Free the babe jare

From your story, its obvious you are irrelevant to her.

Would advise you focus on something worthwhile, would have advised u go get a job, but since u already do, would advise you get a life.

oboi use your head na

If I were u op, d moment she mentioned she uses men for money, I'd jump and pass....

stop acting like a woman wrapper.
what is your problem?
be a man and stop being a sisi

@op d is a situation where PROXILLIN d sharP guy is needed, i dont knw why u should have introduce her to ur mum in the first place while u not yet really into eachother, u look desperate and dats why she's playing with ur emotion, guys should always learn to be indepedent and learn how to control ur emotions, u dont have to show a girl u cant live without her hence u into expensive shiit, free d girl!

donem:
From your story, its obvious you are irrelevant to her.

Would advise you focus on something worthwhile, would have advised u go get a job, but since u already do, would advise you get a life.

lolz

XavierBlue:
don't tell me you're this dumb



XavierBlue

no I was not, I was only carried away

My friend stop treating girl as if they are important,treat them casual. After you introduce her to your mum and you sense fu.ckup you should have freed her .keep begging her and after she have agreed to a come back, delete everything about her,., women don't worth hurting guys
Don't be carried away, hurt her and leave sharply

Cutehector:
If I were u op, d moment she mentioned she uses men for money, I'd jump and pass....

berbz:
Please help me.
I met a gal by chance and we started talking, whenever we chat, she would tell me how she treated men and how she explore money from those she don't love. After some times being friends, I started aving feelings for her and I told her, she laughed jokingly that she can't date me cos I know her secrets, that I can judge her with dat every time. I didn't force it, after some days I told my mum about her and my mum said she wanna know her, I told her my mum wanna meet her(she feel on top of the world) we fix date and she said she wanna come. She asked me to send all my pix and my mum pix to her. I asked her why and she said she wanna av them on her phone, moreover that she is loving me already. I was not carried away, my love for her grow everyday.
On the D-day, she came and we talk and she meet my mum and she was very excited. She went home (we didn't do anything). But to my biggest surprise, she message me and she said we need to take things slow, that she need to work on herself, so we should pretend nothing happens.(and she warned me not to tell my mum dat we not dating) So we just b friends. I didn't wanna force her. She said she would come and see my at my work place the following day, but I called her and she didn't pick up. She blocked me from calling her and didn't show up. I was mad with myself, I couldn't control d emotions, I felt sick. I send her text and she said she don't wanna date me, if she did,she would hurt me and she don't wanna do that cos she thinks am a cool guy. Day passes, I tried chatting with her And she take years to reply my message( d truth is am not trying to convince her to date me, just want to talk to her normal) and we never she reply she would tell me to stop disturbing her that since we are friends, we don't need to chat here an there, and if I disturb her too much she would delete me on BBM, I tried to get on he nerve but she didn't delete me on bbm. So my friend advice my to forget about her. Which I did. But she is on my BBM list and she is always online(one of my friends told me maybe she is testing me if I will give up on her, which is not true) . I need ur advice if I should delete her or not.

get anoda girl na!

na wa for you ooo.



delete the biiitch from ur bbm.... wetin!

u r too soft jor.....too nice...change ur style mr man.

Dem plant your placenta for her papa compound ni? free her abeg.

damn!!!! i pity u at ur age u still act like a kid... grow up... Nigerian girls are heartless i would advice u too deal with them without a heart.

Is it your destiny to be a mugu?

OP, Throw her out of your life!!

Do you need prophet MOSES to take u out of dat friendzone?

berbz:
Please help me.
I met a gal by chance and we started talking, whenever we chat, she would tell me how she treated men and how she explore money from those she don't love. After some times being friends, I started aving feelings for her and I told her, she laughed jokingly that she can't date me cos I know her secrets, that I can judge her with dat every time. I didn't force it, after some days I told my mum about her and my mum said she wanna know her, I told her my mum wanna meet her(she feel on top of the world) we fix date and she said she wanna come. She asked me to send all my pix and my mum pix to her. I asked her why and she said she wanna av them on her phone, moreover that she is loving me already. I was not carried away, my love for her grow everyday.
On the D-day, she came and we talk and she meet my mum and she was very excited. She went home (we didn't do anything). But to my biggest surprise, she message me and she said we need to take things slow, that she need to work on herself, so we should pretend nothing happens.(and she warned me not to tell my mum dat we not dating) So we just b friends. I didn't wanna force her. She said she would come and see my at my work place the following day, but I called her and she didn't pick up. She blocked me from calling her and didn't show up. I was mad with myself, I couldn't control d emotions, I felt sick. I send her text and she said she don't wanna date me, if she did,she would hurt me and she don't wanna do that cos she thinks am a cool guy. Day passes, I tried chatting with her And she take years to reply my message( d truth is am not trying to convince her to date me, just want to talk to her normal) and we never she reply she would tell me to stop disturbing her that since we are friends, we don't need to chat here an there, and if I disturb her too much she would delete me on BBM, I tried to get on he nerve but she didn't delete me on bbm. So my friend advice my to forget about her. Which I did. But she is on my BBM list and she is always online(one of my friends told me maybe she is testing me if I will give up on her, which is not true) . I need ur advice if I should delete her or not.

it's like you are a desperate man looking for marriage

jackyraw09:
OP, Throw her out of your life!!

wish i can like that gif more than once

is it until she calls you while she is shagging some other guy just so you can hear her screaming that you will know she aint interested.

making yourself desperate only gives her more control over you.

throw her out of your life like the GIF above

amosamali:
Do you need prophet MOSES to take u out of dat friendzone?

That's not even a friend zoned.