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Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 9:58pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:Your BF won't be happy,if you go and contact his family without his consent. Since he is supposedly a good Christian boy and yet he is engaging in premarital sex already, i doubt if his family will welcome you with open arms.Which Nigerian state is he from? 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by BlackGirlLost(f): 10:02pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Jorussia: He is from Edo state |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 10:05pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:Edo is my state. I want to follow you now, follow me back,so that i can send you a PM. 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 10:10pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: You are just a girl he is dating. You are not his wife nor fiance. You are just a sex mate until he is tired of being a playboy. Why would a man marry you if he can get it free? |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 10:17pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: If you believe that he is not telling his family about you because of the sisters? That's some bullsh1t. The fact that he was upset that the cousin know of you is a BIG RED FLAG!!! who's the hell gets mad cos a relative know that they are dating someone ![]() You continue on being his plaything boo. Have fun while it last. ![]() |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 10:20pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: Are you in Nigeria? |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by fromnigeria(m): 10:42pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:then wait on him... 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by BlackGirlLost(f): 5:27am On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima: He was not upset that his cousin knows about me... boo. He was upset that he asked his cousin not to tell his family, and the cousin did it anyway. To me that's like, telling your cousin you and your man are pregnant but you want to wait until some special event or at least until 3 months to tell your parents and everyone else... but then your cousin told your parents before you had the chance. That's why he was mad. |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by BlackGirlLost(f): 5:28am On Jul 31, 2015 |
fromnigeria: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by BlackGirlLost(f): 5:28am On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima: No, we both live in the US |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by BlackGirlLost(f): 5:34am On Jul 31, 2015 |
My face when people call me anything but my name
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Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 6:03am On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:Babe you are tempting us(NL guys) with your sexy looks. We(NL guys)might not be able to give you unbiased and sincere advice again,because you look like a goddess. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Adaeze003(f): 6:31am On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: What if you are just some girl he's dating? Just saying... Let him handle his family, it's really not your place to go around telling his peeps you're his gf. 2 Likes |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by grad2012(f): 8:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:uwc dear just be calmed ok and don't let it bother you. 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Gurgle(f): 8:03am On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: No let him do it But keep reminding him if he seems like hes not going to do it Not nagging, but reminding him 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost: If you want to believe that bullsh1t....sure boo boo! ![]() Meanwhile...there are plenty fishes in the sea. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:11pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle: Let me say this as nicely as I can. Why the hell does he needs reminding? He has a memory problem? He is fornication with the girl on the regular and getting free milk as a take home...isn't that reminder ENOUGH to tellhis family that he is dating? Desperation isn't cute. 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:15pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Adaeze003: He can also be dating other girls. Usually when a guy is. In an eexclusive relationship and potentially there is marriage brewing...he "introduce/ the girl. 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Gurgle(f): 12:16pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima: Well if he doesn't seem like hes doing it after she has appealed to his better nature then she can start being hardened but for me I think its better for her to go softly with him to get what she wants, then after all is secure she can challenge him on his behaviour I mean I don't know, does OP want to marry him or what 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:16pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia: This poster. ![]() |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 12:20pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima:Lol,i was just kidding. 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:20pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle: Don't get me wrong...I understand your point but if the boy has good intentions he would have already told his family that he is dating even if it isn't serious however she would have been a mention. Some guys would say a friend or coworker if they aren't comfortable saying girlfriend but she would be a mention in the conversation at SOME POINT. She wouldn't have to keep "reminding" him. ![]() |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:22pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia: (Hiding cutlass) Okay. |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Gurgle(f): 12:26pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima: It depends. not everybody tells their family things like that unless its like marriage things. Don't think I would say anything unless the chap wanted to marry me. wouldn't expect him to say anything either I am just weary of OP getting screwed over. Guess she should use this as an opportunity to see if he is serious or not If not then that's another story 2 Likes |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 12:28pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima:Is there anything wrong in me acknowledging that she is beautiful? 1 Like |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:30pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle: I agree. My husband didn't tell his family about me nor I told my family about him until AFTER he proposed to me and we had an introduction celebration for family and friwnds. People don't date like our forefathers and dating is about knowing the person and seeing what is compatible to you for serious relationship and allow that relationship and bond to grow before getting serious! Okay let me sit my "old" ass down. ![]() |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:32pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia: You were complimenting and insulting. Choose one. |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Gurgle(f): 12:33pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima: Yeah exactly. Otherwise how many families will have heard your name as a "casual" mention over dinner? No way ![]() Lol no if you have any more pearls of wisdom, please share |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 12:41pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
MrsChima:I have modified the post(its now goddess instead of Delilah). I was complimenting her beauty. |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by Jorussia(m): 12:42pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
BlackGirlLost:check your mail,i sent you a pm |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:43pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Gurgle: I guess my brother and friend are weird because they mentioned their girlfriends as "cowokers" before we actually met them as fiances. My ancient pearls are being cleaned as we speak. ![]() |
Re: Would It Be Rude To Inform My Boyfriend's Family That We're Dating? by MrsChima(f): 12:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Jorussia: Okay David. ![]() ![]() |
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