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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by christinie(f): 8:44pm On Jul 31, 2015

ladygudhead:

don't mind dem jare!
100likes for u sister!

dankie!

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by christinie(f): 8:46pm On Jul 31, 2015

segefx:

Lol very funny

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by KanwuliaJara: 8:52pm On Jul 31, 2015

Tinyemeka:

Their marriage is just 2 yrs old. Is it normal for her sex drive to just die like that?

Do you know what is going on IN THE WOMAN'S body or mind?
Besides SEX, how does the man TREAT HER? undecided

If the woman is in her 30s or 40s, same rules apply.
Na by this age FIBROIDS don begin disturb the body and spirit of EVERY WOMAN!
She may be dealing with some personal medical/hormonal problems.

Not many MARRIED women are healthy enough for SEX in marriage especially.

Childbirth for one, takes a toll on women!
The more you shed blood, THE MORE YOU DIE SLOWLY! kiss

It becomes A BATTLE for health and LIFE!

Men and women DO NOT understand that the woman's body is VERY FRAGILE!
All you can do is FAKE IT, to hang on to the man. . . . . So he does not RUN AWAY!

Muchechechecheche!!!

Wahala DEY oooooooooooooo. . . . . . cheesy

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 31, 2015

kevinberry:
This is why I always encourage people to marry younger ladies ....

This is what happen when you marry an old cargo

old cargo?lols

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by KanwuliaJara: 9:10pm On Jul 31, 2015

SAMBARRY:
Haaaaaa KanwuliaJara ko da o.fear God o

I'm sure if he's cheating on the wife you'll be part of the people making jest of him and abusing him. Ok so is open marriage the solution to a wife's dead libido?

Op I suggest you both go see your genealogist or buy sex enhancing drugs for her

I can NEVER bash any man or woman for finding sexual gratification OUTSIDE a marriage or relationship.
Like I stated earlier, sex is always the FIRST to go in marriage.

After a year or two in marriage, SEX becomes a matter of DUTY, not love.
Either you use religion or some other JUJU to hold it!

Any woman that has been in a relationship or marriage for more than ONE YEAR know that SEX is only used to PLEASE the man, not the woman! Most women CANNOT keep up with the sexual demands of their husbands, ESPECIALLY IN THE ABSENCE OF ROMANCE! kiss

Once the SPARK is gone, it is GONE forever.
Good luck with REVIVING a dead libido!

Ask how many men or women the last time the SIGHT of their spouses made their hearts skip "THE BEAT"? grin

Sex is always the FIRST to go in MARRIAGE! Too many FACTORS to deal with EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY! Funny enough, it does not mean you have fallen OUT OF LOVE, but OUT OF LUST!
Very normal! kiss

If you need sex enhancing drugs to phock ANYONE. . . . .

GAME OVA! Abeg! Respect yourSEF! grin

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by KanwuliaJara: 9:21pm On Jul 31, 2015

braine:
this is scary but its so true.

Nothing scary.
Just reality.
When SEX goes, then you can REALLY find out how much A NIGERIAN man values YOU as a woman! cheesy

If you can't suck n' hump 'em WHENEVER he needs it, fight done start be dat o. cheesy

After they are done, TO HELL WITH YOU! kiss

When MONEY goes, you find out HOW MUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN RESPECTS A MAN! cheesy

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Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by kaboninc(m): 10:07pm On Jul 31, 2015

KanwuliaJara:

Do you know what is going on IN THE WIMAN'S body or mind?
Besides SEX, how does the man TREAT HER?
If the woman is in her 30s or 40s, same rules apply.
Na by this age FIBROIDS don begin disturb the body and spirit of EVERY WOMAN!
She may be dealing with some personal medical/hormonal problems.

Not many MARRIED women are healthy enough for SEX in marriage especially.

Childbirth for one, takes a toll on women!
The more you shed blood, THE MORE YOU DIE SLOWLY!
It becomes A BATTLE for health and LIFE!

Men and women DO NOT understand that the woman's body is VERY FRAGILE!
All you can do is FAKE IT, to hang on to the man. . . . . So he does not RUN AWAY!

Muchechechecheche!!!

Wahala DEY oooooooooooooo. . . . . .

Kanwu, this your analysis get as e be oh.

Though I don't know much about the women's anatomy but what you put up there is very scary.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 31, 2015

Hahahahaha libido na human being wey dey die Hahahahaha grin

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by braine(m): 10:16pm On Jul 31, 2015

KanwuliaJara:

Nothing scary.
Just reality.
When SEX goes, then you can REALLY find out how much A NIGERIAN man values YOU as a woman!
If you can't suck n' hump 'em WHENEVER he needs it, fight done start be dat o.
After they are done, TO HELL WITH YOU!

When MONEY goes, you find out HOW MUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN RESPECTS A MAN!

hahaha. You're absolutely correct. But then, when sex dies, the marriage would be a lil boring o.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by SAMBARRY: 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2015

Lol ok I understand now. I see what you mean and where you're coming from. You have a point though

KanwuliaJara:

I can NEVER bash any man or woman for finding sexual gratification OUTSIDE a marriage or relationship.
Like I stated earlier, sex is always the FIRST to go in marriage.

After a year or two in marriage, SEX becomes a matter of DUTY, not love.
Either you use religion or some other JUJU to hold it!

Any woman that has been in a relationship or marriage for more than ONE YEAR know that SEX is only used to PLEASE the man, not the woman! Most women CANNOT keep up with the sexual demands of their husbands, ESPECIALLY IN THE ABSENCE OF ROMANCE!

Once the SPARK is gone, it is GONE forever.
Good luck with REVIVING a dead libido!

Ask how many men or women the last time the SIGHT of their spouses made their hearts skip "THE BEAT"?

Sex is always the FIRST to go in MARRIAGE! Too many FACTORS to deal with EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY! Funny enough, it does not mean you have fallen OUT OF LOVE, but OUT OF LUST!
Very normal!

If you need sex enhancing drugs to phock ANYONE. . . . .

GAME OVA! Abeg! Respect yourSEF!

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by SAMBARRY: 10:52pm On Jul 31, 2015

very true but add some sha not all

KanwuliaJara:

Do you know what is going on IN THE WIMAN'S body or mind?
Besides SEX, how does the man TREAT HER?
If the woman is in her 30s or 40s, same rules apply.
Na by this age FIBROIDS don begin disturb the body and spirit of EVERY WOMAN!
She may be dealing with some personal medical/hormonal problems.

Not many MARRIED women are healthy enough for SEX in marriage especially.

Childbirth for one, takes a toll on women!
The more you shed blood, THE MORE YOU DIE SLOWLY!
It becomes A BATTLE for health and LIFE!

Men and women DO NOT understand that the woman's body is VERY FRAGILE!
All you can do is FAKE IT, to hang on to the man. . . . . So he does not RUN AWAY!

Muchechechecheche!!!

Wahala DEY oooooooooooooo. . . . . .

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by raumdeuter: 11:45pm On Jul 31, 2015

Kanwulia spitting the truth as usual

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by pickabeau1: 1:33am On Aug 01, 2015

vague:
its brain dead people like you that are old and still act like fools.

Some women develop sexual disorders because of their partners infidelity, miscarriages, abortion and child birth.

But hey, when others were in science class you were probably dancing with masquerades in your village.

Pray tell what the heck is sexual disorder....like bestiality?......

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by funlord(m): 6:34am On Aug 01, 2015

KanwuliaJara:

I can NEVER bash any man or woman for finding sexual gratification OUTSIDE a marriage or relationship.
Like I stated earlier, sex is always the FIRST to go in marriage.

After a year or two in marriage, SEX becomes a matter of DUTY, not love.
Either you use religion or some other JUJU to hold it!

Any woman that has been in a relationship or marriage for more than ONE YEAR know that SEX is only used to PLEASE the man, not the woman! Most women CANNOT keep up with the sexual demands of their husbands, ESPECIALLY IN THE ABSENCE OF ROMANCE!

Once the SPARK is gone, it is GONE forever.
Good luck with REVIVING a dead libido!

Ask how many men or women the last time the SIGHT of their spouses made their hearts skip "THE BEAT"?

Sex is always the FIRST to go in MARRIAGE! Too many FACTORS to deal with EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY! Funny enough, it does not mean you have fallen OUT OF LOVE, but OUT OF LUST!
Very normal!

If you need sex enhancing drugs to phock ANYONE. . . . .

GAME OVA! Abeg! Respect yourSEF!

Gbosa! + Gbam! = Noni!

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by welovethee(m): 7:12pm On Aug 01, 2015

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

No need to panic my bros. Your wife may be passing through some psychological and emotional stress you have not notice. Take time out and study the trend of events around her recently. It could be due to stress from prevailing new realities posed by frequency of child birth and its attendant stress and all. Endeavour not to be too mechanical with sex preambles. Try new ways of arousing her sexual appetite. If it persists, try get her a bottle of MACA supplement. This will escalate her cravings for you.
Hope this helps.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by blakky97(m): 11:49am On Aug 02, 2015

darlenese:
No woman will make this kinda decision if she was enjoying it , oga are u sure u are doing the right thing? , there's difference between having sex and making love o.

Please beg her to tell u the truth and u will be amazed

what is the right thing?

is sex all about the man?

she may be getting it wrong herself.

his neighbours second daughter will testify.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 02, 2015

TV01:

Thank you. Funnily enough I do. Actually acquiring my certification now.

. Couldn't have guessed it. Hope you won't overbill us when we come for proper tutoring o. cheesy

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by darlenese(f): 4:03pm On Aug 02, 2015

blakky97:

what is the right thing?

is sex all about the man?

she may be getting it wrong herself.

his neighbours second daughter will testify.

Those who want peace in their home do not think the way you do grin

, you will understand how things work when u get married.

Re: My Wife Says Her Libido Is Dead. by Hassanmaye(m): 12:49pm On Dec 26, 2020

thegoodone2:
All woman are like that.95% of them .

How

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