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Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 8:04am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Wait first. He was too busy to drop me off to go meet his girlfriend, dropped her off and came back to pick her up and me(Ulunnaya) will enter the backseat of the same car he is in, with the girlfriend, chai! Whoever came up with this story should be flogged. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 8:07am On Aug 01, 2015 |
lastnogood:Lmao ![]() You post is funny o, laugh at jokes indeed, babe just leave talk. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 8:11am On Aug 01, 2015 |
zainyola:Surely there's something wrong with my eyes, he is a sweetheart who deserves kisses for cheating on you in the most humiliating/insulting way ever? Kai! 2 Likes |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by zainyola(f): 8:18am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: No mata what bae u still hv to 4gv evn if u will quit....4gvns matas ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by wisdomiskey(m): 8:19am On Aug 01, 2015 |
bukatyne: freecocoa: booo! both of yuh elderly winchezz r so darn borin' ![]() dont yuh hv a senze of humour 2 see she waz bein sarcastic? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 8:23am On Aug 01, 2015 |
zainyola:No I don't have to forgive, atleast not the way you present it, especially with the kind of apology you think sweet. If my husband did that(it took me a lot to type that, because I can't bear to think I can ever be treated that way) and came home to do dishes and put up appearance with me, may murder not be the case against me sha. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by wisdomiskey(m): 8:27am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: which huzzband? r u not 40yrz old nd single? stop engaging in wishful thinkin. ![]() |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by 5minsmadness: 8:48am On Aug 01, 2015 |
zainyola:Thanks dearie. The man is already at fault. The least he can do is plead for forgiveness. Don't mind those other ladies opposing your post, saying they will bring the house down etc etc. It's only online they can make mouth. In reality they'll probably forgive thier husband faster than you will rather than have another woman snatch him ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by 5minsmadness: 8:49am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Oh really. Ok what would you expect him to do? |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Nobody: 8:59am On Aug 01, 2015 |
cococandy:Yea its not so easy to do, but that is wisdom.As far it produces the desired result. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by zainyola(f): 9:06am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: I knw it nt dt easy ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by whizqueen(f): 9:10am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Lol. Why am I seeing this late na ![]() I'll invite my newly found friend to our house and my husband would be around too. We'll all have a party and he will tell me what his "little boy" is looking for outside when we're done. I'm a bit crazy you may think ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 9:15am On Aug 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness:I expect of him not to behave in that manner to start with but for the sake of this thread, he should not even bother trying to patronise me, I hate that with a passion. It would be best he just leaves the house. |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by sisisioge: 9:18am On Aug 01, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Story couldn't have been true jor! |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by cococandy(f): 9:27am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Adaobi12: That's not wisdom. I mean if you can do it, (which i still doubt) fine then. What works for you works for you. As in different strokes for different folks. But It doesn't mean that any other person who's human and give into their humanity by reacting like a normal human is foolish. If you doubt me, ask the dudes if they catch their wife cheating and embarrassing them so whether they will apply this kind wisdom and love them up some more. The story isn't even possible to start with. (That's the part where they drove home in the car together I mean). Even nollywood in their fantasy can't think up such a fantastic story. In a normal scene, the wife might react in surprised anger and demand to come down immediately or the husband will begin to panic and try to tell one lie to cover up. Just anything human expected from two MARRIED people. Not strangers who don't know each other. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by 5minsmadness: 9:52am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: OK wait o, If my husband did that(it took me a lot to type that, because I can't bear to think I can ever be treated that way)This is what you typed so I want to infer from this statement that your husband is a very nice and caring person (rolls eyes) So will you divorce him because of this one mistake? . Secondly, secondly you r not thinking this through at all ![]() ![]() Wouldn't u stop him and ask for an explanation? Be honest abegi! ![]() |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by 5minsmadness: 9:54am On Aug 01, 2015 |
whizqueen:You're indeed "one in a million" ![]() |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 10:03am On Aug 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness:If you know me, you'd know that that's the end of the relationship, that's why I said I can NEVER be treated that way. inshort there's no need going back and forth as this can NEVER, I repeat NEVER happen to me. And to think you call it a mistake is sickening, how the feck is such a mistake? I don't envy the woman in your life. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Nobody: 10:09am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Brugo:U try. Clap 4 urself |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Brugo(m): 10:11am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by 5minsmadness: 10:11am On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa:@bolded wasn't necessary, am not the guy in the story dearie take it easy ![]() ![]() ![]() You women can be so emotional! No woman expects it to happen to her BUT IT DOES happen eventually to an unfortunate number. That's reality. They come home and find their loving husband whom they thought "can never, I repeat, NEVER do it to her" in bed with another woman, or in this case sitting at the back seat while the sidechic sits in front ![]() I can't imagine how the man would feel if the situation was reversed. However it HAS HAPPENED, he is not a god, he is human and has made a mistake. You would prefer him not to apologise, not to say anything? Simply pack and leave? You won't even want to know why?! Madam that's not what you'll do. You will be upset like you are now and he'll follow the response to the aggressive approach I put up there if he's a wise man. Or He could do as you say and leave you anyway, without an explanation or anything. It means he never really loved you in the first place and has finally found a reason to leave. |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Nobody: 10:13am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Brugo: ![]() |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Brugo(m): 10:15am On Aug 01, 2015 |
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Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by freecocoa(f): 10:20am On Aug 01, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Ofcourse he never loved me na, why then is an explanation necessary? And you keep calling it a mistake, that's just really disgraceful. I'm not arguing that I won't be upset but I'm telling you, I don't need an explanation and when I say it can't happen to me, I mean the story told by the OP, not that I can't be cheated on. |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by DWJOBScom(m): 10:36am On Aug 01, 2015 |
babyme1: Married friend - Violence has moved on! "What's right" is now personal and subject to the crew your boyfriend husband/girlfriend wife rolls with! I will run his bath and look good like nothing happened but THAT TALK must hold and from that talk a lot of communique will be generated. Am not leaving my home for no problem and will tame that foul sheep back to the fold |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Nobody: 10:39am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Brugo:Tanku |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by justcallbuki(f): 6:32pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
uhmmn i can't imagine myself, in this kind of situation haaa!!! I will nt say/do anything @ all,cos i will be full of anger. I will just give him the silent treatment he deserve. I trust him,he will nt eat or sleep in the that house! Hahahahahhahaha |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by lastnogood(f): 1:12am On Aug 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Funny thing is that I've been in a situation similar to this, I was the other woman but they weren't married (they just began serious dating) I find out about her, but she was so sweet and nice. I wasn't in love with him, but she is. So, we remain friends, in fact she's my kid's godmother. 1 Like |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by sapientia(m): 10:21am On Aug 02, 2015 |
If she shouts and screams.. you are safe.. Then keep apologizing and dont ever forget shinning things If she still keeps silent.. sleep in the guest room or toilet with one eye. In the morning, call her mother, father, siblings, your own parents and the pastor and report yourself You might save your life |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by efemenaslectura: 10:44am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Chaiii ![]() una no dey ever disappoin ![]() even when you see a man on top of your wife in your bedroom and he's wearing your pyjamas I hope you will accept ONI REASON from your wife ![]() think like a man indeed ![]() Brugo: |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by efemenaslectura: 10:46am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Story for the gods. .... 5minsmadness: |
Re: A Husband,his Wife And Girlfriend..advice? by Brugo(m): 10:50am On Aug 02, 2015 |
efemenaslectura: So you would rather flare up and get violent? Sorry, I'm not unreasonable like you. |
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